05/10/2025
The birth of Jonah James part 4
If you’re about to have a baby, I don’t recommend continuing this story. Stop here and return later if you choose.
After ANOTHER 2 hours of pushing Jonah too started to get tired. Up until this point Jonah’s HR was decelling normally. It would decrease during a contraction and rebound between contractions. But with the exhaustion from 5 hours of pushing, and what we suspect was a nuchal hand, and the cord wrapped, his heart rate was no longer rebounding. 85 bpm.
Kelly and our nurse Bethanie knew we had to get him out now. The room shifted from peaceful to urgent. Kelly gave me the chance to push, encouraging to push even between contractions to get home out. My pelvic floor was not budging. She and Bethanie knew we needed a little more room for Jonah so she gave me an episiotomy. Her second ever: a stat she should be so proud of! Tears heal faster than cuts and with less scar tissue but we needed a little extra help right then. There was no more waiting. I trusted her judgement and wouldn’t have had it any other way.
At this point I turned into a different position and vividly remember the FEAR. Bethanie was calling 911 anticipating that we would need to transfer Jonah with a heart rate so low. My doula Danielle, Alex, and Kelly yelling encouragement to push with all I had. I looked up at Alex and said “baby I’m scared. I don’t have anything left.” He responded the best way he could have. “I’m scared too but you got this Em. Dig deep.”
After another 2/3 pushes and moving off the bed onto the birth stool Jonah arrived earthside! With fire in his soul and breath in lungs he screamed, THE BEST SCREAM I have ever heard, as Kelly caught him. I looked up into the hall as my first babies, our puppies, sat and watched peacefully. We all cried.
Bethanie called off the ambulance saying he was okay and we didn’t need them.
A peace over the house as I held my baby praising God for all his glory and for allowing Jonah to arrive so vibrantly after a traumatic ending to our birth story.
Jonah James Salesky
February 24, 2025
8lbs 1oz
21.5 inches long
And our world was never the same.
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