04/02/2026
I was supporting a mom who wanted an unmedicated birth and ended up with an induction. She was nervous about how the change of plans would affect her intention of going without an epidural.
This mom was presented with the 'standard induction' package. We talked it over and discussed allllll her options (not just the one presented to her by her provider).
She made thoughtful and informed decisions, and chose a bit of a different route to set herself up to best mirror physiological labor.
She didn't rush the process, and it wasn't "game over" on her original birth vision.
During her labor, I was by her side to keep protecting her intentions.
When the nurse went to turn up her Pitocin without consent, I made sure we checked in with mom first to see if she was ready for an increase, so that we were giving her the chance to acclimate to the dosage before making changes.
When mom started to really focus and find her rhythm, I prompted dad to read the scriptures that mom had picked out ahead of time - after that he found his rhythm and pulled them in at all the right times, without being prompted.
When things started to get intense, I rubbed her low back through every contraction and made sure she always had me, her husband, or both of us within arms reach.
When she started feeling pushy and got checked and was told she was still 8 cm, I said "Great ๐ Let's go sit on the toilet" - and she felt her baby's head against her hand 15 minutes later.
She never asked for any pain medications. She utilized walking and movement, the toilet, the shower and tub. She gave birth in hands and knees and then held her baby up to her chest.
This is why I believe knowing your options is an absolute game changer in birth.
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