03/29/2024
While spending time at a cheerleading competition with my nieces, what was expected to be a joyous event for each child involved, I encountered the aftermath of a tragedy that no one should ever have to face. I watched as a wonderful group of talented and resilient teens chose to remain in competition after losing a teammate to su***de. While applauding this group’s resilience as they performed back flips, summersaults, and pyramids all while in tears, I began to think more in-depth about how each individual teen would cope with this tragedy. What went through the minds of the young teens as they held an empty space for the young man who had once encouraged his team, loved his team, and performed in excellence? I listened as parents in the crowd questioned, “What could have been that bad? Why would he do that?” I watched the video that had been constructed in memory of this young man and noted his bright smile, his affectionate moments with his teammates, and his ability to execute complex physical moves, all while he obviously was experiencing some emotional challenges. The social worker in me wanted to yell out, “The signs are not always noticeable,” but instead, I decided to take this moment within self-harm awareness month to create awareness, as awareness can lead to prevention. Though self-harm is not always an attempt at su***de, it can increase the risk for su***de as the emotional distress that leads to the self-harmful behavior is often the common trigger.
It is my hope that by increasing awareness, we will prevent others from this experience. May this young man rest in peace, and may his family and friends find the source of peace and strength that they need in this difficult time.
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