Wagner-Elfner and Burg Funeral Home & Cremation Services

03/24/2026

Even when someone has been embalmed, body weight can still allow movement at the hips. That’s why overhead lift straps are placed under the decedent in very specific areas ~ to prevent the individual from bending or slipping through the straps. Embalming does not change this procedure; the straps are always positioned the same way to ensure safety and proper support.

03/24/2026

03/24/2026

I think some people may have missed the point of last week’s video, so let’s clear it up.

The question was: “What happens if a woman passes away while on her menstrual cycle?” The answer is simple, it stops.

If you missed it, here’s the video: https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1DjFVBZqdD/?mibextid=wwXIfr

Many people said “ew, who cares?” Or “ew, who asks that kind of question?!” Listen, we are all adults and these are valid questions. So let’s break this down even further …

If a tampon is present, it is always removed. A tampon holds moisture, and after death the body can no longer regulate bacteria. That makes it a perfect environment for bacterial growth.

Even with embalming, not every area is directly treated through the vascular system or during cavity embalming. If a tampon is left in place, it can trap fluid and bacteria, which may lead to odor.

This is why attention to detail matters. Proper preparation includes thoroughly cleaning and removing anything that could interfere with preservation, always with dignity and respect.

03/23/2026

What we know: Costs rise.
What we don’t know: When you’ll need it.
Pre-plan while today’s prices last.

03/22/2026

The team absolutely held down the fort the last 9 days while we were away, and Dakota even came to the airport today to take us home.

So grateful for all of them and the constant support behind the scenes.

Tomorrow it’s back to normal and I couldn’t be more excited to get back to what we love ❤️ … Returning emails, combing through paperwork and “new funeral home” things! 😉😀

Family chairs are being delivered Tuesday, and I’ll be spending a lot of time down at the new FH this week… 👀😉🩷

We are getting close. I promise!

03/22/2026

A viewer recently shared his thoughts about the growing trend of “no services” and cremation taking place before any gathering is held. He wondered if tradition, faith, and the value of a funeral are slowly being lost.

It sparked a bigger conversation.

Why are more families choosing direct cremation? Is it about convenience? Cost? A shift in tradition? Or have we, as funeral professionals, not done enough to explain the value of what we do?

From the care that happens behind the scenes to the opportunity for a final viewing, there is more to this conversation than most people realize.

Take a listen and let us know your thoughts. Have you seen this shift in your own family or community?

03/22/2026

Join us live for another episode of As the Hearse Turns.

This month, we’re welcoming special guest Brelan Chenard Holston, Funeral Director, for a meaningful and thought-provoking conversation about the funeral profession and the experiences that shape it.

Some conversations aren’t always easy, but they matter. This episode takes a closer look at perspectives within funeral service and the importance of understanding, growth, and connection across communities.

Tune in Tuesday, April 7th at 6:00 PM on Facebook.

We hope you’ll join us.

03/22/2026

As we wrap up our last night on the cruise, we’re reflecting on what an incredible week it’s been.

Earlier in the week, we received the exciting news that we’ve been named in the Top 5 Funeral Homes for Best of York! Thank you for all of your votes!

We are truly grateful for your continued support, encouragement, and the kindness you show us each and every day ~ it never goes unnoticed 🩷

We’ll be sure to share when the next round of voting begins. Thank you for being such an important part of our journey ❤️

Our next chapter begins soon… welcoming you to our new funeral home! 🏡

Xo ~ Nathan & Katharine

03/21/2026

I don’t know who needs to hear this… but if the shrimp needs a pallbearer team, it might be time to reassess your portion size.

We ate tiger shrimp for lunch and what showed up could’ve qualified for its own viewing and service. I’m talking full arrangement conference, casket selection, and a procession straight to cocktail sauce… 🦐

We wore our last matching suit set yesterday.

Also found my retirement scooter last night.

And last night’s prom pose, once again, did not disappoint.

We miss our boys, and I miss the funeral home(s).

Last day… ready to get home 🩷

03/21/2026

Would we accept a homemade casket?

Yes, we would.

But we would ask the family to sign a liability waiver.

The reason is simple. If something were to go wrong during the service, especially at the graveside, we cannot be responsible for the structure or integrity of a casket that was not built by a manufacturer.

We have all seen those unfortunate videos online where a casket gives way while being carried. It has never happened to us, and we hope it never does, but our job is to think ahead and protect everyone involved.

If building something by hand feels meaningful to your family, we are open to that conversation. We just want to make sure it is done safely and respectfully for everyone.

03/20/2026

We are deeply grateful for the brave men and women who serve and risk their lives daily to protect our freedom.

This weekend, let’s all find a way to show gratitude to those who serve. Whether it’s thanking a veteran, or simply flying the flag, let’s make a difference together! Drop a 🇺🇸 if you’re in!

03/20/2026

Have we ever had to cancel a service because of the weather?

Yes. It doesn’t happen often, but sometimes snow, ice, or severe storms make it unsafe for families to travel.