12/18/2023
Why do narcissists try to “break” you?
I'm going to say something brutally honest and you won't like it, so let me apologise before hand. Bear in mind, I'm speaking from how narcissists view you.
If you're in a relationship with a natcissist, chances are, you're already “broken” before you met them. What I mean by “briken is; you have unaddressed issue(s) that you're unaware of, more likely than not, it stemmed from your past.
Narcissists can spot people like this from miles away. They see human relationship as the relationship between the superior and inferior. They are the superior and you are the inferior.
If we were in the animal kingdom, you can say that narcissists are predators. Predators never prey on species that are equal or superior than them. they prey on the weaker and more vulnerable species. Mind you, predators don't hunt for sport or fun, they hunt for survival. If you feel that you've been preyed on by natcissists, chances are, it's because you are deemed to have something that is necessary for their survival and that you're on the lower level of the ecological hierarchy.
What to do if you have been a prey of a narcissist? Get help. You need to be aware of what might be your issue and addressed it. That's the only way you can break free from the narcissist physical and emotional grip.
“We repeat what we don't repair”.
