08/03/2025
You Don’t Need to Let Go — You Need to Come Home”
Read this if you’ve ever been told to “just let it go.”
Let go of the pain.
Let go of the anger.
Let go of the grief, the shame, the sadness.
But what if…
you’re not meant to let go of those pieces?
What if you’re meant to call them home?
Here’s the truth I’ve been receiving, and maybe it’s for you too:
You can’t release what you haven’t first acknowledged.
You can’t let go of pain that you’ve never even met.
You can’t bypass a part of you that’s still waiting to be held.
That sadness you carry?
That fire of rage simmering under the surface?
That ache in your chest that no one ever helped you name?
Those are not burdens.
They’re breadcrumbs.
Leading you back to the pieces of you that had to be buried to survive.
Pieces that once said:
“If I shrink, maybe I’ll be loved.”
“If I stay quiet, maybe I’ll be safe.”
“If I numb it out, maybe I won’t feel so broken.”
But you were never broken.
You were adapting. Protecting. Surviving.
And now?
Now it’s safe to come back for those parts.
Now it’s time to reclaim your whole self.
You don’t need to “let go” of the version of you that felt too much.
You need to sit with her.
Witness her.
And say:
“I see you. You belong. You’re coming with me.”
That’s when true release happens —
Not by force, but by radical acceptance.
Not by cutting off, but by coming home.
This is what I’ve learned, and it’s what I now help others do:
Turn pain into power.
Grief into groundedness.
Shame into sacred self-acceptance.
Because you were never too much.
You were just waiting to remember who the f*ck you are.
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Want to explore this deeper inside your body and soul?
DM me when you’re ready Queen, I’ll be here ❤️🙌🏼💯
