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12/11/2025
This is why I advocate. This is why we must speak up - with colleagues, friends and family. If you can safely do so - st...
12/11/2025

This is why I advocate. This is why we must speak up - with colleagues, friends and family. If you can safely do so - stop these
kinds of comments in their tracks. Examples:

That’s transphobic
Would you say that to her directly? Then don’t say it here.
She has a right to dignity.
Thats inappropriate.
That’s not ethical care.
Stop.

Jennifer Capasso had endured multiple tumors. She wondered what might be said during her next cancer surgery. So, she hit record on her phone.

12/10/2025

'I let go of the need for more, and live in a state of pure gratitude. Giving is replacing my demand for more.'

12/10/2025
12/09/2025

Parenting a trans child isn’t the hard part.
What breaks us is watching our children face rejection, misunderstanding, and cruelty they never should have to endure.

Loving your child is easy.
Standing beside them while the world debates their right to exist — that’s where the heartbreak lives.

But here’s the truth every Mama Bear knows deep in her bones:
Our kids are not the problem. The rejection is.
And we will move mountains to make sure they know they are loved, valued, and worthy exactly as they are.

To every parent walking this path — you’re not alone.
To every trans child — you deserve a world that embraces you fully, without hesitation.

Together, we can change the world. 🧡🌈


12/09/2025

The holidays should be a time when our kids can relax, breathe deeply, and show up as their full, authentic selves. Our children should never have to check themselves at the door of their own homes or wonder whether their identity will be met with silence, tension, or judgment. When we choose to make our homes safe, inclusive, and affirming, we give our kids the greatest gift of all — a place where they are welcomed, celebrated, and loved exactly as they are.









The three Christian Nationalist women on the board are mere parrots for Moms for Liberty and our local Ark Church. They ...
12/09/2025

The three Christian Nationalist women on the board are mere parrots for Moms for Liberty and our local Ark Church. They seemingly have no capacity for critical thinking and reflection - but rather just follow the scripts provided to them. Be clear: Their policies cause harm to the diverse families of Redlands.

We must vote them out, one by one. They will cause lots of harm in the interim... but Michelle Rendler will be up for election in 2026. We must vote her out. Her complicity with Olson is harmful and shameful.

🚫📚Redlands Unified trustees will vote Dec. 9 on whether to ban Push by Sapphire and The Bluest Eye by Nobel Laureate Toni Morrison—two acclaimed books by Black authors.

Both titles were selected by credentialed district librarians and later challenged under a revised Board Policy 1312.2, adopted after a conservative shift on the school board.

Review committees—assembled at district expense—thoroughly evaluated the titles and recommended keeping them in circulation, prompting community advocates to urge the board to honor the process.

The public meeting begins at 6 PM in the RUSD Board Room, 25 W. Lugonia Ave., Redlands. Full story at link in bio or IECN.com. 🔗

12/09/2025

Very Long post, would love for you to read, if you have time.

My letter regarding the harmful book ban vote at tomorrow's school board meeting:

Three White Christian Nationalists Shouldn’t Control Our Diverse District

Tuesday, Michele Rendler, Candy Olson, and Jeannette Wilson will once again vote to ban books in our school district. Once again, they’ll ignore hundreds of community members who come to oppose them.

Disrespect & Disregard for Parents
For months, hardworking RUSD parents have sacrificed evenings, arranged childcare, and spent hours at board meetings begging this board to listen. Over 1000 post cards opposed their book ban policy. Numerous speakers at every meeting - students, teachers, parents have pleaded with them to stop. They’re not listening. They never have. Rendler, Olson, and Wilson don’t answer to us. They answer to The ARK Redlands church and Moms for Liberty. Their thoughts are not their own, they are merely parrots.

Who’s Really in Charge?
The ARK pastor said it from his pulpit: The ARK church “helped get two board members elected” Olson and Wilson. Wilson literally serves on The ARK’s staff. Before contentious meetings, O’Connor mobilized his congregation: “Bring them in force, pack the place, I want the Christians to be there…We want to take up all their parking spots. We want to take up all their seats.” These people are, of course, allowed to have their beliefs. Those beliefs do not belong in our classrooms.

Dr. Broome, the Hall brothers, and other ARK church members regularly pack meetings to support these bans, following their pastor’s orders as well as Moms for Liberty. This isn’t grassroots parent concern. This is an organized church takeover of our public schools. These aren’t concerned citizens, but church operatives. This is an opportunity for lonely people to try to find belonging with fellow bullies.

The Books They’re Targeting

*The Bluest Eye* by Toni Morrison and *Push* by Sapphire are award-winning novels about Black girls surviving trauma, racism, and sexual violence. They’re taught to build empathy and critical thinking about systemic injustice. They give students who’ve experienced similar trauma the validation that their stories matter.

Redlands High sophomore Izzy said it perfectly: “When you ban a book, you’re not banning words. You’re banning experiences. You’re telling students that certain people or stories don’t belong in the classroom.”

Three Conservative White Women Shouldn’t Decide for Our Diverse District

Here’s what’s particularly galling: Redlands Unified is beautifully diverse. Our students come from every background, every race, every family structure. Yet three extremely conservative white women—Rendler, Olson, and Wilson—have appointed themselves arbiters of what’s “appropriate” for everyone’s children.
Rendler enables Olson, who was caught liking Instagram posts containing antisemitic images (Hi**er shaking hands with Jesus), racist content, and homophobic memes calling Pride participants “degenerates.” Over 1,500 people demanded Olson’s resignation. Rendler’s response? Silence.

These three vote together, meeting after meeting, to:
- Ban books addressing racism and LGBTQ+ experiences
- Remove Pride flags while keeping Christian symbols
- Out transgender students to potentially hostile parents
- Ban transgender athletes from girls’ sports

All while the rest of us—the actual diverse community of Redlands—beg them to stop.

The Cruelty of Wasted Time

Perhaps most infuriating is how they waste our time. Parents rearrange work schedules to attend 4-hour meetings. Teachers prepare thoughtful testimony. Students bravely share personal stories. All so Rendler, Olson, and Wilson can vote 3-2 the way they always planned, ignoring everything they heard.

They don’t care that this will cost the district millions in lawsuits—Chino Valley, Temecula, and other districts have been sued over identical policies. They don’t care that nearly 100 speakers opposed their policies while only a dozen supported them. They have their orders from The ARK and their national handlers.
Community input is just an annoying formality they endure.

The Dangerous Irony

The books they’re banning teach exactly the critical thinking skills that would have prevented them from being manipulated. *The Bluest Eye* and *Push* teach students to:
- Question authority and examine who benefits from censorship
- Recognize propaganda and manipulation
- Think independently rather than follow predetermined talking points
- Empathize with experiences different from their own

These are the very skills Rendler, Olson, and Wilson lack—which is precisely why they’re such effective puppets for The ARK church and Moms for Liberty.

What Tuesday Really Means

When this board votes Tuesday to ban more books, remember what you’re witnessing:

You’re watching democracy fail. When representatives ignore hundreds of constituents to serve church and political interests, that’s not representative government.

You’re watching privilege in action. Three conservative white women deciding what’s appropriate for our entire diverse student body.

You’re watching manipulation succeed. People so lacking in critical thinking that they can’t recognize they’re following someone else’s script.

You’re watching our children lose. Every banned book is one less mirror for students who need to see their experiences reflected, one less window for students who need to understand experiences different from their own.

Michele Rendler: Up for Re-Election in 2026

Here’s the good news: Michele Rendler’s term ends December 11, 2026. We have the power to end this.
Rendler has presided over this disaster. She’s enabled Olson’s bigotry, voted lockstep with Wilson’s church agenda, and wasted countless hours of community time while ignoring everything we say.
In 2026, we can choose a board member who:
- Actually listens to the community they serve
- Serves students and families, not church political agendas
- Understands that a diverse district needs diverse perspectives—not three conservative white women deciding for everyone

What You Can Do

**Tuesday:** Show up. Speak. Make them look you in the eye while they ignore you. Document their contempt for our community.
**Between now and 2026:** Organize. Support teachers and librarians under attack. Attend every meeting. Make noise.
**2026:** Vote Michele Rendler out. End this nightmare.

Our beautifully diverse Redlands Unified deserves better than The ARK church’s puppet show. Our students deserve better than banned books and wasted potential. Our hardworking parents deserve better than being ignored for hours before a predetermined 3-2 vote.

Tuesday, they’ll vote to ban these books, But we don’t have to give them another term to continue this damage.

In solidarity with ALL Redlands Families,
Dr. Traci Lowenthal

12/02/2025

What I am listening to:Before We Were Trans by Dr. Kit Heyam. It’s often said that the numbers of trans people are risin...
11/13/2025

What I am listening to:

Before We Were Trans by Dr. Kit Heyam. It’s often said that the numbers of trans people are rising — or that our existence is new. Neither claim is true. Part of the reason for these erroneous assumption is that, as marginalized people our stories often go untold, and our experiences go unacknowledged. Heyem’s history, just published in 2024 is a tour de force exploration of forgotten histories of our people. Gender expansive people have existed for millennia, by many names, and across the globe. This excellent book will help get a taste of our rich history. https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/dr-kit-heyam-ph-d/before-we-were-trans/9781541603103/?lens=seal-press

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