10/30/2025
Have you ever had to share good news with a warning label attached?
That was me last year telling my loved ones I was pregnant, but asking them not to get excited. Trying to protect my heart, theirs, and whatever fragile hope I had left.
One year ago, that 4th pregnancy ended in an ER room. My fourth loss. My ectopic. A mix of fear, heartbreak, and disbelief that my body was once again in crisis when it was supposed to be creating life.
I still remember the abdominal pain radiating into my leg, the increasing nausea from pain, the ultrasound, the awkward conversation with the doctor who didn’t want to be the one to tell me the news.
Grief after an ectopic isn’t just emotional. It’s physical, hormonal, and invisible all at once. It changes how you see hope, how you share news, how you move forward.
Today marks a year, and I’m choosing to honor the version of me who survived that heartbreaking day. 💔
If you’ve ever had to silence your excitement just to protect your heart, I see you. You’re not alone in that strange space between hope and heartbreak. ❤️🩹
If you need support on your infertility or miscarriage recovery, I’m here for you. You don’t have to go through this alone.
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Stay Strong 🤍 Jessica
