01/06/2026
I swear the new year comes so fast that I am never really prepared to be ‘new’. I think about goals in December but they never get written down. I don’t have a vision board, a new journal or a plan of action. For many years I felt like I already failed before it even began.
Until I learned why I felt this way. I realized that it is not a new beginning for me. My actions aren’t aligning with my thoughts because my body hasn’t fully leaned into the right time for change -for me- and for many many others as well. ✨
Everyone is different, so why would it even make sense that we all have to ‘change’ or do all of the same things at the same time? Just because there is a program or collective cycle, doesn’t mean it is meant for everyone. This ends up being a trap that people fall into that sets them up for failure.
The end of the year is a whirlwind for most. It is full of traveling, extra work hours, indulging, stressing and celebrating. New Year’s Eve is a big party and then the very next day it is time to diet, exercise everyday, save money, quit smoking, organize your life & start a book club. We go from 100 miles an hour to 0 over night. While these are great goals, if you don’t establish a clear mindset on how to accomplish them, motivation will be lost quickly.
Mind aside, the body needs time to adjust. During adjustment periods, the body will throw out signals. It will seek old, familiar habits to find the balance & familiarity it knows. It will search for the comfort & stimulation that it is used to.
When we are changing habits, it is important to create a mindset that is going to hold steady when the body starts to waiver...because it is the body that waivers, not the mind.
Before setting goals it is a good time to ask yourself some questions:
Is this the right time of year for ME to make major adjustments? Did I set TOO many goals at once that my body cannot handle? Do these goals CONFLICT WITH each other in some way? Did I plan for obstacles & how to maneuver them? Did I jump into action BEFORE establishing a mindset?
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