02/16/2024
Well FB community. Here I am at the age of 49 . And I understand everyone has different perspectives and ideas on the topic abuse. Especially when it comes to kids. Well, I have felt with being told that a specific form of discipline is acceptable on this world, and I disagree. I would really like to see what the world has to say and what is right or what is wrong with parents idea of loving there kids during discipline situations..
Here is the story, PLEASE COMMENT AS TO IF YOU FEEL THIS IS CHILD ABUSE OR OF THIS IS ACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR FROM PARENTIALS WHOM CLAIM THEY RAISED THERE KIDS IN “Christian Loving Home”
Two boy ,1 was 11 yrs old and the other was 81/2 or 9. I really cannot remember what they did wrong to deserve such treatment however , when the so called Loving father got home He was told the boys were not listening and minding or did bad behavior while father was at work. Upon hearing the news the father took both kids down to outside RV garage that really had no heating. We were stripped down to out naked bodies and forced to watch a man build a boat OAR into his diciplineary tool. He made sure and wrapped duck tape around the handle so he did not get any splinters, and what seem like eternity crying in fear of watching three big holes cut into the end of paddle that would be teaching us both “IN LOVE” how to obey the rules of a house hold. We were told to bend over and grab our little ankles shaking crying in fear we also instructed that If we put are hands back to lighten the blow, another 10 spankings would be added…
And if we cried there would be more…
And as I started hearing the blast of an semi large OAR from a boat as paddle with three big holes in it the first spanking to my brother…. And as ten swaps of the board to my brothers little butt some blood began to develop from the impact. And now it became my turn…
Yea as young kid my father actually finished the physiological, physical abuse with these words I will never forget…. This is going to hurt me more than it’s going to hurt you!
After the beating we were allowed to put clothes back on and punished to our room if the abuse from paddle was not enough…
This FB is the short story and not as much detail as I could go into… however to this day and in front counselors to help me get past it….. I was told I made it all up- it did not happen, and the trophie of the paddle hanging on the RV garage door to remind us what would happen was something from my imagination and my parents got up and called meeting over with!!
So let’s see: what do you all think is this something that is acceptable for parents to do?
Funny thing the mother did not stand in the gap and put a stop to the abuse….. something that will keep such a gap in relationship with someone that claims is a Christian and is such a loving pastors wife to allow her kids to be punished in love in such a cruel manner….
So what do ya all think was Ann Montague Tracy Richard Tracy teaching kids in love or was this called abuse….?
