03/27/2026
Children don’t learn emotional regulation alone.
They learn it through us first.
Before children can calm themselves, they rely on the calm nervous system of a caring adult.
This is called co-regulation.
In play therapy and parenting, this might look like:
💛 Sitting close
💛 Naming feelings
💛 Breathing together
💛 Staying present during big emotions
Your calm becomes their calm.