Higher Self Perspective

10/23/2025

Healing begins when you stop confusing self-abandonment with strength.

10/21/2025

What would you say if I were to tell you…
I’m convinced our pets don’t just find us, they choose us?

And they always show up carrying the exact lessons we didn’t know we needed.

I used to think I was the one that rescued them.

Now I know they were sent to teach me the things I’ve spent years trying to understand.

Because spiritual teachers don’t always come dressed in linen clothes with incense and mantras.

Sometimes they show up with fur, claws, and a talent for knocking over your plant right after you mopped the floor…or destroying your guestroom while you’re asleep.

Every single animal I’ve shared a home with has been a mirror for my healing journey, not one exception.

Mine have taught me patience more times than I can count regardless of how much I try to avoid it.

They’ve taught me that messes can always be cleaned up, that trying to control everything just makes you miserable, and that unconditional love is the strongest force in the world.

I mean how would our lives change if we could only love ourselves as much as they love us back?

They remind me that chaos is part of the ecosystem…and resisting it only makes it louder.

And here’s the wild thing: healing works the same way.

When triggers resurface, when everything feels chaotic and you want to clamp down harder - that’s usually the moment you’re being shown how much more flexible, compassionate, and grounded you’ve become.

It’s a chance to respond differently than you did before.

So the next time your inner world feels like my ferret at 2am… pure, unhinged mayhem… remember this:

Even though the messiness of life often feels like failure, it’s often where the lesson lives.

It’s the love.

It’s the part of you that’s learning to breathe and grow in real time.

And just like the potting soil on the floor, it can always be cleaned up.

10/20/2025

🦞 Bear with me, because I swear I have a point! I just learned the most random, seemingly useless fact about lobsters…

Lobsters don’t grow in a straight line.

They grow by shedding their entire exoskeleton - every bit of the protective shell they’ve been living in - and for a while after that, they are completely exposed.

No armor or backup.

Just a soft, vulnerable blob waiting for the new shell to form.

Here’s the 2nd part that blew my mind:

While they’re soft and exposed, they absorb water to expand into their next size before the new shell hardens.

And as that new shell begins to form, they reabsorb minerals from the old one…literally pulling what they still need from the old them back into their system to build something stronger and resilient.

It’s not instant. It’s not glamorous. They have to wait…tender and unguarded…while their next level slowly takes shape.

And that, my friend, is exactly what healing, spiritual evolution, and personal growth is like.

Growth is sometimes less about releasing what no longer fits and more about allowing yourself to be soft for a while while the new shape of you forms.

It’s about absorbing new wisdom, integrating the old parts of yourself, and letting that all become the structure that supports your next stage in life.

That exposed, uncomfortable, “nothing fits anymore” chapter?

That’s the expansion phase.

That’s you growing into the life your soul has been calling in.

And the next time you feel raw and unprotected, like everything old has fallen away but the new hasn’t quite solidified, remember the lobster.

When you are in the thick of things and feeling raw, and vulnerable, and exposed, remind yourself that you’re building the foundation for the version of you that’s about to grow beyond anything your old shell could hold. 🫶

10/19/2025

10/18/2025

I’m going to spill the spirituali-tea about something every woman needs to know on her healing journey ⬇️⬇️

This morning while the kettle was heating, I caught myself watching the water.

Nothing happened for a while...still and quiet.

And then, little bubbles started showing up.

The longer I waited, the more intense it got until the water was rolling, ready to steep the tea.

And as I stood there, I thought… this is what the healing process feels like.

There’s that weird, still moment where everything feels calm. And then, just before things shift, emotions spike, old thoughts resurface, and doubt creeps in out of nowhere.

That’s your subconscious turning up the heat to make sure the change you’re creating is safe enough to hold.

I see it all the time with my clients.

They leave a session clear and grounded, and then two days later thinking they had a setback while they’re texting me like, “Wait… did I make that up?”.

It’s the boiling point! The moment the old version of their inner and outer-world shifts into the new version.

So the next time things feel wobbly after you’ve made progress and you feel like you're slipping backwards, remember: this isn't a slip. You’re steeping.

And what’s on the other side is a stronger, freer version of you.

✨ Curious what subconscious pattern might be turning up the heat for you?

Take my free Breakthrough Quiz and I’ll send you a personalized guide to start shifting it today.

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10/18/2025

I’m going to spill the spirituali-tea about something every woman needs to know on her healing journey ⬇️⬇️

This morning while the kettle was heating, I caught myself watching the water.

Nothing happened for a while...still and quiet.

And then, little bubbles started showing up.

The longer I waited, the more intense it got until the water was rolling, ready to steep the tea.

And as I stood there, I thought… this is what the healing process feels like.

There’s that weird, still moment where everything feels calm. And then, just before things shift, emotions spike, old thoughts resurface, and doubt creeps in out of nowhere.

That’s your subconscious turning up the heat to make sure the change you’re creating is safe enough to hold.

I see it all the time with my clients.

They leave a session clear and grounded, and then two days later thinking they had a setback while they’re texting me like, “Wait… did I make that up?”.

It’s the boiling point! The moment the old version of their inner and outer-world shifts into the new version.

So the next time things feel wobbly after you’ve made progress and you feel like you're slipping backwards, remember: this isn't a slip. You’re steeping.

And what’s on the other side is a stronger, freer version of you.

✨ Curious what subconscious pattern might be turning up the heat for you?

Take my free Breakthrough Quiz and I’ll send you a personalized guide to start shifting it today.

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10/17/2025

You know how the air feels a bit off before a storm? The stillness hangs thick, and for a moment, you might hope nothing’s on its way. It’s usually right then that the loudest thunder strikes.

Healing operates on a similar wavelength. Just before a breakthrough, life can seem eerily calm...until everything suddenly shifts.

Old triggers, buried emotions, and thoughts you thought were long gone start to resurface.

This is your system clearing space for what’s ready to grow.

In those moments, it can feel like you might crack under the pressure.

But remember, it’s actually a deeper shift happening - your inner landscape is transforming, signaling that progress is well in motion. Growth seldom unfolds gracefully; it’s often loud, messy, and uncomfortable, but that’s the sign you’re standing on the brink of something extraordinary.

So don’t shy away when the winds begin to howl... lean into it.

The version of yourself you’ve been yearning for is forged in storms like these.

Curious about how you can weather your own storm?
Take my Breakthrough Quiz to discover the 7 reasons that might be blocking your progress.
Plus, you’ll get a free tailored specifically for you guide with simple, actionable steps to start moving through those blocks right away.

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09/23/2025

Let’s talk about how one of the most frustrating parts of healing is when
something you thought you’d already
worked on healing keeps blindsiding
you…usually when you least expect it.

It feels confusing.
Deflating.

Like all the effort, energy, and money you’ve poured into healing hasn’t really landed.

That’s why I created the
Before the Breakthrough Quiz!

It reveals the hidden pattern
that’s been pulling you back
into old cycles,
the part no one ever teaches
you how to break free from.

I’m here today to tell you…
That when you begin to
understand what this is,
everything clicks:

✨ You finally understand why
certain triggers won’t let go.

✨ You learn to spot the exact moments
the pattern tries to pull you back in.

✨ You get a clear starting point
for lasting change.

Take the quiz today + get
your personalized guidebook
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07/26/2025

👇Let me explain why I don’t think you’re losing your mind…because you might actually just be shifting timelines👇

You feel emotionally flatlined.
Not depressed. Not anxious. Just… dull.
Like you’re here, but not quite.

That’s not necessarily burnout. That could be a timeline shift.

Timeline shifts happen when your inner reality evolves so drastically that the external world lags behind.

The old version of you is gone.
But the new one hasn’t fully materialized yet.

And while it sounds exciting, it often feels…

• boring
• confusing
• numb
• like you’re walking through a cloud

This is the limbo…the space in between timelines. It’s a bit of a push + pull. A recalibration. A pause before your upgrade.

What can it sometimes look like? You’re going about your day and suddenly:

You can’t remember what today’s plans are. You’re positive you saved that file… but it’s nowhere, literally nowhere. Someone brings up a convo that never happened, at least not in this version of reality.

And here’s the thing:

Your brain will try to explain it away.
Your ego will want to fix it.
Your nervous system might mistake the stillness for danger, because stillness was never safe before.

But your soul knows what’s happening.

This is the part no one talks about:

You don’t quantum jump during your morning ritual. You shift when you finally let go of the old patterns, and life starts to feel weirdly quiet.

That quiet? That’s peace.
Maybe you just haven’t learned how to recognize it yet…

If you’ve been Googling:

“Signs you’re shifting timelines”
“Why reality feels fake”
“Quantum jumping symptoms”
“Mandela effect spiritual awakening”
…you’re not alone. And you’re not crazy.

You’re evolving.
And if you found my post, you’re the type of person who is doing so on purpose. You are completely aware of this truly bizarre and beautifully messy experience of a spiritual awakening.

Drop a ❤️ in the comments if you’d like me to post a Part 2 on how to adjust to the shift (how to stop sabotaging it) and what it feels like post-shift.

07/11/2025

Take the quiz to get your complimentary personalized guide.

That guide will show you exactly how to start moving through the block you’re in right now.

It only takes a few minutes…
then check your email,
read your guide,
and let me know how it landed.

Any questions? I’m here.
If I can support you as you move through it, I will.

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06/20/2025

You’ve done “the work”.
You’ve tried the therapy couch.
You’ve journaled the patterns.
You’ve burned the sage.
You’ve read the books.
You’ve even forgiven the people you weren’t sure deserve it.

And still…

It feels like something is gripping you from underneath.

Like no matter how much progress you make, you end up back in the same loop.

You’re self-aware.
You’re intuitive.
You’ve put in the effort.

And yet… something still isn’t clicking.
Not fully.
Not in the way you know is possible.

Because healing isn’t about simply collecting tools.

It’s about learning which ones finally fit your life.

Next week I’m releasing a free quiz:

Before the Breakthrough:
7 Patterns That Keep Gifted Women Spiritually Stuck

It’s not for beginners.

It’s for the women who’ve already done “the work” but still don’t feel the freedom they came for.

If that’s you…
stay close.

The clarity you’ve been searching for might finally be here.

🧠 Follow me for the announcement.
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06/18/2025

You don’t feel like yourself
because ⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️
the version of you you’re trying
to return to no longer exists.

She got you here.
She helped you survive.
But she was built for a different season.

Trying to get back to her
is what’s keeping you stuck.

🛑 Your tools stopped working.
🛑 Your goals don’t feel right anymore.
🛑 Your nervous system isn’t buying the affirmations.

And that’s not a failure.
It’s an opening…an invitation.

You’re not going backward.
You’re not broken.
You’re becoming the version of you
you were always meant to be.

That shift?
It doesn’t look like peace at first.

It looks like grief.
It looks like “why can’t I function?”
It looks like nothing is working.

But it is.

This is “the work”.

This new version of you deserves to be met with clarity, not confusion.

The next chapter starts when you stop trying to go back to the old version of yourself.

If this hit home, follow me. I talk about the parts of healing no one else does.