03/18/2026
Lesson 5 BE AT PEACE AMONG YOURSELVES 1 Thessalonians 5:13b
The fifth commandment “And be at peace among yourselves.” These all come together in one package. You can’t have everybody running the church. You can’t have everybody running any kind of organization. There must be a certain one with authority.
I think one of the great problems in many churches today is a case of the old bromide, “too many cooks spoil the broth.” There needs to be one who is the leader and who is followed. With that arrangement you can’t have everybody have peace. But, when everybody is trying play his own tune, you have anything but harmony and peace!
εἰρηνεύω
Transliteration
eirēneuō (Key)
Pronunciation
i-rane-yoo'-o
This Greek word is found in the KJV a Total of 4 times
The KJV translates this Greek word in the following manner: have peace (1x), live peaceably (1x), live in peace (1x), be at peace (1x).
The most direct opposites of peace are war, conflict, and hostility. It represents a state of disorder, agitation, or animosity rather than calm. This is where we are today. War conflict riots hostility is what we see as we look around our world today. That is the way of the world. The church is to be the opposite and be a place of peace and CR is to be a place of peace. That is why we have guidelines and DNA as CR is to make this a safe place a place of peace.
THE DNA OF AN AUTHENTIC C R MINISTRY
1. Jesus Christ is the one and only Higher Power. The program is a Christ-centered
ministry.
2. The Bible is to be used exclusively.
3. The ministry is “group based.” All groups are gender-specific, implement and follow,
“The C R Small Group Guidelines” every time, and adhere to the CR
Group Formats.
C R Small Group Guidelines
Keep your sharing focused on your own thoughts and feelings, using “I” and “me” statements. Limit your sharing to three to five minutes.
There is no cross-talk. Cross-talk is when two individuals engage in conversations excluding all others. Each person is free to express his or her feelings without interruptions.
We are here to support one another, not “fix” one another. This keeps us focused on our own issues.
Anonymity and confidentiality are basic requirements. What is shared in the group stays in the group. The only exception is when someone threatens to injure themselves or others.
Offensive language has no place in a Christ-centered recovery group.
4. We expect each group (local CR ministry) to be accountable to Christ and the local
church.
5. C R is a ministry of the local church. Therefore, C R
will not attempt to dictate any doctrine or policy to a local church. A local C
R ministry should follow the policies of their local church and continue to be
grateful for their continued support.
This Greek word is used in the Bible in the following ways:
to make peace
to cultivate or keep peace, harmony
to be at peace, live in peace
We have a team at CR to make CR a place of peace to cultivate and keep the peace the harmony so that we can live in and at peace.
T.E.A.M. Leadership Strategy
T = TRAINING COACH
Conducts NEW LEADER TRAINING and orientation
Provides training sessions for MONTHLY LEADERSHIP MEETINGS
Develops and oversees leadership for SMALL GROUPS
Develops a Training Coach APPRENTICE
E = ENCOURAGER COACH
Provides and oversees the SHEPHERDING CARE needs of the groups
Creates FELLOWSHIP EVENTS for the leaders and groups
Recruits and develops NEW APPRENTICE GROUP LEADERS
Develops an Encourager Coach APPRENTICE
A = ASSIMILATION COACH
Responsible for the PROMOTION of C R to the members, the
church, the community, and the world
Recruits and interviews new LEADERSHIP CANDIDATES
Develops and maintains GROUP INFORMATION MATERIALS for groups and
information tables
Develops an Assimilation Coach APPRENTICEM = MINISTRY LEADER
Responsible for the entire RECOVERY MINISTRY
Selects and schedules TEACHERS and TESTIMONIES for weekly meetings
Oversees all C R ministries
Serves as the MAIN CONTACT with the church staff
The Definitions of this Greek word is
to be (act) peaceful:—be at (have, live in) peace, live peaceably.
Unfortunately sometimes there are people in organizations that are not happy with the gift(s) they have been given or they were ment to be a pastor or preacher and refused to surrender to the calling. Sometimes they are treasurers like judus (Diane is the best treasurer I have ever had though) sometimes they are church secretaries sometimes they are the music leader or any other given person in the church. Maybe their father or grandfather use to be a preacher or pastor maybe even of the church they are going to at the moment. They usually are helpful in the beginning try to make themselves useful and when they believe the pastor can not live with out them then they turn on him and use what evidence they have been collecting against the man of God that they believe will bring him down. They have the spirit of envy and strife. And most church’s are dying as a result of their terror. That is the reason I first taught you to recognize these people and why we at C R have asked some people to not come back. We believe the safety of the masses is more important than that agenda of one person.
Examples of how this Greek word is used in the Bible:
1. to make peace:
2. to cultivate or keep peace, i. e. harmony; to be at peace, live in peace:
2 Corinthians 13:11 Finally, brethren, farewell. Be perfect, be of good comfort, be of one mind, live in peace; and the God of love and peace shall be with you.
An example where this Greek word is translated live in peace. Be of one mind is the key. Unity of the brethren. When we disagree peace is lost. The Bible is the great unifier. It brings people together. At least we should agree on what the Bible says and agree to do what the Bible tells us too. Following the leading of the Holy Spirit. Allowing Jesus to be our Sheppard. That is the reason that it is important that we are all Christians because if people have their own agenda they may lead us astray.
Mark 9:50 Salt is good: but if the salt have lost his saltness, wherewithwill ye season it? Have salt in yourselves, and have peace one with another.
An example where this Greek word is translated have peace. This is an interesting verse because salt is a healing agent and a flavoring agent not just a preserving agent. As a healing agent it is put in a wound and burns. So how are we having peace one with another and at the same time burning someone’s wounds. Well I imagine a mother telling a little child this is going to burn as she applies it to a wound. Healing is painful and a long hard process and with a sponsor leading you through it you can heal from those old hurts hangups and habits. Salt has flavor. We are not to be mister milk toast. The gospel needs to be not just given with love it must be given with the authority that we have been commissioned to teach the world. They don’t want to learn many times yet if we are successful the only way we are going to see peace on this earth is one changed life at a time. The power of God to transform lived through the power of the gospel. There is also a warning here. You can loose your saltiness. How do we loose our saltiness and How do we get it back? When you stop reading studying and meditating on the Bible you loose your saltiness as you are diluted by the world around you. We need to protect ourselves from those that teach heresies. That say parts or all of the scripture is not accurate or is not written by who you think it was written by. It is less important who wrote the scriptures than you believe the Bible is the Word of God is complete and without errors. We. Need to protect ourselves from those that deny the deity and resurrection of Christ for by the same resurrection we will be raised someday. How do I get my saltiness or get my saltiness back. God is the only one that can restore our saltiness. The more time you spend in the Word of God the more salty you will become. You will be able to give wisdom and wise counsel to those who have been wounded by this evil world. You will have a different flavor and others will recognize you as a child of God because of the way you act and talk.
1 Thessalonians 5:13 to esteem them very highly in love for their work's sake. And be at peace among yourselves.
Example of this Greek word being translated be at peace. Remembering our place helps us get rid of envy and strife. God Jesus the under shepherd and then us. We need to realize that if we disagree with the pastor he is the one that is responsible for the flock and not us.
Romans 12:18 If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with allmen.
Example of this Greek word being translated live peaceably. This reminds me of J Vernon McGee’s favorite saying that offends these people. We can’t please everyone but we try. There are some people you can’t please and that you can’t live peaceably with. The best thing to do is to avoid them and have nothing to do with these people. Love them from a distance.
Harmony in music is the vertical, simultaneous combination of notes to create chords that support a melody. It functions by blending notes together, creating emotional tension and release, and adding depth to a musical piece.
If you have ever sang in a quartet or choir you remember that there is a conductor a pianist or a harmonica that sets the cord that the musicians will follow. That would be the under Shepard in a church the ministry leader in CR and the small group leader. What happens if someone else wants to take over and tries to take the place of the pastor ministry leader or small group leader. Maybe you have been to a concert of a band or orchestra where they are all worming up before they start playing their own notes and chaos issues. Scales at different times one is going up a scale while one is going down and you hear a loud blat of the tuba and some picalo trying to hit her highest note she can play. Then all of a sudden the conductor steps to the podium and holds up his baton and with one swoop of his arm there is the most majestic awe inspiring sound you have ever heard as note after note fills the auditorium. That is Harmony.
Scripture Index of this Greek word used in thee Bible
Mark
9:50
Romans
12:18
2 Corinthians
13:11
1 Thessalonians
5:13