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A private therapeutic practice specializing in helping women overcome problematic emotional eating using Dialectical Behavioral Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.

✦ Food Neutrality ✦⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀✦ Some people can feel disconnected from cognitive forms of therapy. A major reason for this...
04/15/2023

✦ Food Neutrality ✦
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✦ Some people can feel disconnected from cognitive forms of therapy. A major reason for this is the misunderstanding of needing to completely reverse your way of thinking to what is believed to be “more positive.” When it comes maladaptive eating, the pressure then becomes to swing from negative views on food/eating/body image to what feels like an overly idealistic attitude. But that might feel too extreme or disingenuous for some to do - and when it feels fake, you are way less likely to try it out and be successful.
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✦ After years of diet culture framing our perspective on all things food and body, it can be really challenging to change our internal narrative that’s developed as a result. This is where food neutrality comes into play. Food neutrality is where we remove morality based thinking when it comes to food - so no food is “bad” or “good.” No food is intrinsically virtuous and judging it in this way creates a lot of distortions around food, therefor creating a lot of guilt and shame. The idea with food neutrality is be unbiased and more descriptive when it comes to what we are eating, helping people feel more peaceful around food. This middle ground approach is also a much more feasible outlook for people to buy into and try. For many people, food neutrality is the goal rather than some forced positive ideology they struggle to get behind.
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✦ It’s important to work with a provider who is trained to help you develop food neutral strategies. If this is something you think could benefit you, click on the website in the bio and schedule your intake today!
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Happy Thanksgiving from BBB 🖤
11/25/2022

Happy Thanksgiving from BBB 🖤

✦ Food Pushers ✦⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀✦ Holidays can be synonymous with overeating or eating to discomfort - making it a triggering t...
11/18/2022

✦ Food Pushers ✦
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✦ Holidays can be synonymous with overeating or eating to discomfort - making it a triggering time for those with a strained relationship with food. It. It can be a challenge when you are trying to develop a balanced approach towards food and not overeat just for the sake of it. What can add to this stress is the dreaded “Food Pusher.”
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✦ A Food Pusher is someone who tries to pressure you to eat a certain kind of food or more food. Food pushers are not inherently bad, there are lots of reasons why someone tries to force food onto others. The thing to focus on is how to deal with the Food Pushers in your life during the Holiday season.
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✦ There are a few different approaches you can take when saying “no” to the food pusher in your life:
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✔️ Repeat yourself: Chances are you are going to need to say “no” more than once to a food pusher, don’t be afraid to be a broken record.
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✔️ Change the subject: After saying “no,” follow up with a question or a new topic to divert the conversation away from food.
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✔️Keep it positive: Don’t say anything negative about the food they are trying to push on to you. You can compliment the food without eating it.
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✔️ Be Honest: If someone keeps pushing food on to you, it’s okay to be direct and honest about your health goals.
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✦ To help you feel more prepared to deal with a Food Pusher at the holidays, it can be helpful to practice what you are going to say and to remind yourself that it’s okay to set these boundaries and advocate for them. The more you practice, the more empowered you will feel to say “no” to the Food Pusher in your life!
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I will be joining Gladys Messinger Ditroia from The Real Deal Weight Loss Program for a special Zoom on Saturday, Septem...
09/14/2022

I will be joining Gladys Messinger Ditroia from The Real Deal Weight Loss Program for a special Zoom on Saturday, September 17th at 9am to answer all your weight loss questions and help you Get Back On Track to reaching your weight loss !

Sign up here and a zoom link for the meeting will be sent to you!

https://courses.therealdealweightloss.com/zoom-QA

Hope to see you there 🖤

✦ Accepting New Patients & Clients ✦⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀✦ I am happy to announce that I have openings for new therapy patients and ...
09/14/2022

✦ Accepting New Patients & Clients ✦
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✦ I am happy to announce that I have openings for new therapy patients and coaching clients.
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✦ Scheduling is so easy, just head on over to my website and click on the “Schedule Your Appointment Now.” If none of the times available work for you, please contact me through my website and we can find something that works!
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✦ What is the Real Deal? ✦⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀✦ As a DBT therapist I try and find the dialectics in life. One dialectic I truly bel...
09/10/2022

✦ What is the Real Deal? ✦
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✦ As a DBT therapist I try and find the dialectics in life. One dialectic I truly believe in is - “you can love your body AND also want to work on your body.” I know this can be a hard concept for individuals who struggle with problematic emotional overeating. Very often any focus on the body comes from a place of hate or shame, however we can look at it from a place of love and care.
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✦ This is why I am such a huge fan of Gladys Ditroia and her program, Gladys Ditroia | Online Weight Loss Coach]. Gladys is an expert nutritionist who has been helping women for decades develop a healthier attitude towards food and meet their weight loss goals. She has turned her successful method into an 8 week online weight loss program for women. Each week a new module by Gladys is released, helping you develop a more informed and positive relationship with food. In addition there is a Facebook members group that gives you real time access to Gladys as well as a supportive environment to discuss wins, difficulties, tips, recipes, suggestions, and overall encouragement.

✦ What I love most about Gladys’ philosophy is she wants to help women break-free from the unhealthy and damaging hold of the diet industry. The program is all about eating real foods while loosing weight and the best part is there are no “bad” foods. Additionally, Gladys recognizes the real impact of psychology on our eating habits and how we may need to address those issues before achieving our goals.
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✦ I believe so much in the Real Deal and how it can help women build a better relationship with food and their bodies. Because of that I am the resident program therapist and one of the coaches. I highly recommend you check out Gladys Ditroia | Online Weight Loss Coach] because the results speak for themselves! The groups run in September, January, and April. If you find yourself wanting or needing more support after the 8 weeks, you can join the alumni program. The next cycle starts September 22nd!

✦ Mindful Eating // Using Your Five Senses ✦⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀✦ Mindfulness is considered the foundational skill of Dialectical B...
08/25/2022

✦ Mindful Eating // Using Your Five Senses ✦
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✦ Mindfulness is considered the foundational skill of Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT.) Mindfulness in the scope of DBT is defined as bringing awareness to the present moment without judgement. These elements can be very helpful when it comes to creating a healthier relationship with eating.
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✦ For a number of reasons we may eat while distracted (such as scrolling on our phones or watching TV) or rush through our meals. When we regularly do this we are acting on our “escape” behaviors and reinforcing bad eating habits. A helpful mindfulness tool to increase nonjudgmental awareness while eating is to use your senses to describe the experience. Let’s take a look at how you could use your senses to help ground you during your next meal.
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✔️ Sight: Before you take a bite try and name what colors or textures you see in your food.
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✔️ Smell: Close your eyes and take a deep breathe. Can you distinguish the different smells? Do these smells bring up any particular memories for you?
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✔️ Touch: Grab the cup, bowl, or plate. What temperature is it? Pick up your utensils and are they heavy or light? If you can pick up your food with your fingers, describe to yourself what it feels like.
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✔️ Taste: Finally after you have gotten all that sensory input, notice how your mouth feels. Slowly being the food to your mouth and take a bite. Really allow yourself to chew your food thoroughly and enjoy how it tastes. Describe to yourself the flavors you are noticing. Once you have swallowed, allow your mouth the reset before taking another bite.
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✔️ Hearing: Once you are done eating, close your eyes and take a deep breathe. Try and listen and take note of all the sounds you can hear around you.
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✦ I challenge you to use your senses the next time you eat and see how it feels!

✦ What are DBT and CBT? ✦⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀✦ DBT is short for Dialectical Behavioral Therapy and CBT is short for Cognitive Behav...
08/23/2022

✦ What are DBT and CBT? ✦
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✦ DBT is short for Dialectical Behavioral Therapy and CBT is short for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Both of these therapeutic modalities are what we call “evidence based,” which means research shows that it is an effective or helpful type of treatment for certain difficulties.
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✦ Both DBT and CBT are skills based forms of therapy, where the goal is to empower the client/patient to learn and use these tools in their everyday life. The sessions have specific structure that may look different from a more traditional therapy session.
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✦ When it comes to problematic emotional eating, both DBT and CBT have been proven to be very effective forms of therapy. DBT helps address the emotional piece, while CBT targets the thoughts component, and both decrease the actual ineffective eating behaviors.
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✦ Very often these modalities are done separately to address problematic emotional eating, however in my experience I find the combination of the two to be the most effective. Practicing one without the other is like going out in the rain with rain boots but no umbrella - you aren’t fully prepared to face the stormy weather of emotional eating. This is why at BBB I make it a point to integrate both DBT and CBT into my practice.
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✦ If you are interested in more information please contact me through my website.
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✦ Services offered at BBB ✦⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀✦ There are a number of different services offered to suit everyone’s needs - rangin...
08/11/2022

✦ Services offered at BBB ✦
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✦ There are a number of different services offered to suit everyone’s needs - ranging from individual therapy, coaching sessions, to a comprehensive therapeutic program consisting of individual and group sessions. All services incorporate Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). All services aim to work with problematic emotional eating.
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✦ Check out my website under “Overview of BBB Services” to get more information about each service, as well as learning about the difference between therapeutic sessions and coaching sessions.
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✦ BBB does not participate with any insurance provider and payment is due at time of service. Documentation will be provided after each session you can submit for reimbursement if you have out-of-network benefits.
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On Monday I attended a seminar by Judith Matz, LCSW titled “Emotional Eating, Binge Eating, Chronic Dieting, and Body Im...
08/09/2022

On Monday I attended a seminar by Judith Matz, LCSW titled “Emotional Eating, Binge Eating, Chronic Dieting, and Body Image.”
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I really enjoyed learning about her approach to help patients be more compassionate towards themselves - whether it was about their emotions, their eating behaviors, or their bodies. Long lasting and healthy change never begins with self-hatred, but instead self-love and/or acceptance 🤍.
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✦ What is problematic emotional eating? ✦ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀✦ This is a term I came up with to identify a range of eating difficu...
08/03/2022

✦ What is problematic emotional eating? ✦
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✦ This is a term I came up with to identify a range of eating difficulties I work with at Balanced Brain and Body. Essentially, “problematic emotional eating” describes behaviors that are marked by overeating, eating when not physically hungry, or eating a very large quantity of food in a short period of time. This is different from eating a bit more at a meal or holiday or having an extra snack here and there.
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✦ When someone struggles with problematic emotional eating this behavior is in response to an emotion or as a way to avoid feeling an emotion. This creates a cycle where the person then feels a sense of guilt or shame afterwards, often prompting them to continue to overeat. Many people either feel out of control during the time they are overeating or for some people it has become so habitual they don’t even recognize they are doing it.
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✦ A big part of this cycle is how our thoughts can either start, continue, or enable this type of eating behaviors. So in addition to looking at the emotion, we also need to assess our thoughts and how we can challenge them to promote more helpful eating habits.
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✦ Finally it’s important to note that you can’t just “will” yourself to stop problematic emotional eating. There is a real emotional and cognitive component to this type of behavior that needs support to successfully work through. This is where Balanced Brain and Body can come in and help. Check out my website under, “Is BBB for you?” To find out more.
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