12/03/2025
I never thought I’d need to make a post like this, but after today, I realized it’s actually really important to explain something about massage therapist safety and why I have a vetting process in place.
Recently, I received a booking from someone with:
• A not-so-common name,
• A completely different area code,
• No legitimate voicemail set up,
• No social media or online presence,
• And when asked their reason for the session, the only answer was: “happiness.”
Any one of these alone wouldn’t concern me…
But all together, they’re red flags — especially in the massage industry, where therapists (especially women) deal with safety risks far more often than people realize.
Because of this, the session was cancelled for my protection.
And in return, I received a very angry phone call telling me I’d “lost potential clients” and “good luck with my business.”
That part was frustrating, because my intention is never to be rude or judgmental — I’m simply keeping myself safe.
Here’s the truth:
Massage therapy is healthcare.
It is not what some people try to make it into.
When I ask why you’re coming in, it’s not to pry or be invasive. It’s to understand:
• What’s hurting
• What your goals are
• What techniques you may need
• And whether your reason for scheduling is appropriate and safe
This protects YOU.
It protects ME.
And it protects the integrity of this profession.
Most clients are wonderful, respectful people — and I’m incredibly grateful for them. But because there are individuals who misuse massage or seek inappropriate services, I have to follow my vetting process every single time.
If you’re coming in for true bodywork, healing, pain relief, or relaxation — you are absolutely welcome here.
Your wellbeing matters.
And so does mine. ❤️
Thank you to everyone who supports ethical, safe, and professional massage therapy in our community.
AND… Thank you to everyone who has and continually supports me (and for reading this long post if you did!)
- Lex ❤️
