
03/21/2025
Mary Ellen McGovern Carson
Mary Ellen McGovern-Carson died unexpectedly at the age of 78 in early March, just shy of her 79th birthday. She was the youngest of the late James L. McGovern and Helen E. (nee MacSweeney). She is survived by her brother James J. McGovern (Kathy), sister Sara McGovern Everett, loving son Sean D. Carson, daughter Heather Carson-Wake, “son from another mother”, Erik, her cherished grandson Jackson, nieces, nephews, grand nieces, grand nephews and adored extended family and friends.
Mary Ellen was raised in a devout Irish Catholic family. Being a spiritual person, she rediscovered a great comfort in attending Mass. Mary Ellen was a strong, resilient, sharp-witted woman who instilled those qualities in her children. She did things her way and lived by it without complaint. She was renowned for her amazing cooking, speaking her mind, telling it as she saw it, loving four letter words, but loving her children, son-in-law, grandchild and friends more. She was a loyal friend whom you would want in your corner and was always up for a party.
She truly loved cooking, some might say she was an epicurean both with her own cooking and when enjoying great food and drink. Her palate was beyond refined and she could detect even the most minute spice used in a recipe. Those lucky enough to have enjoyed her fine cooking or baking are just that, lucky enough. Some of her recipes can be found floating in kitchens belonging to many of her family and friends. She found pure enjoyment in pleasing those she adored through their stomachs.
Mary Ellen loved nature, especially camping in Alleghany, Adirondacks, and Algonquin, and going on trips to Daytona, Ocean City, Broadkill and Dewey Beaches with family and dear friends. Most recently, she found pure delight in watching her grandson grow and hummingbirds’ flutter. She loved passionately and was deeply loved by many. Mary Ellen will be sorely missed yet will continue to live in our hearts and cherished memories.
In lieu of flowers, and because of her love of her four-legged pups, Miles and Seamus, donations can be made in her name to Lollypop Farm, of Rochester, NY.
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