Rochester Cremation

Rochester Cremation Celebrating the first and only standalone cremation provider in Rochester. The team offers the first and only provider that focuses solely on cremation.

Rochester Cremation is the preferred choice for alternative funeral services in the Rochester, NY area. If you are looking for another option instead of working with a traditional funeral home, then call to talk to a licensed funeral director for more information about available services. Available cremation services include everything a family needs for a respectful, honorable event. Some families choose direct cremation, while others prefer burial cremation with the ashes placed in a family cemetery plot. Rochester Cremation provides a variety of add-on services customized for each family, such as cremation with a memorial service, a celebration of life, or a private family viewing before the cremation. Full support is provided behind the scenes for details such as cremation transfers, death certificate coordination, paperwork, and permits. One of the benefits of choosing Rochester Cremation is the direct access to a provider who specializes in the desired services. There is no need to work through a funeral home for cremation services. The most affordable cremation solutions are offered for the provider directly. Since this local company does not provide full funeral packages, savings can be passed onto customers by keeping overhead costs low. The team is dedicated to offering simple, easy-to-understand solutions at prices that are affordable. These cremation packages are available with no prepayment required. Flexible financing is available as needed. Rochester Cremation promises a worry-free cremation process. Each person is treated with the highest levels of respect, ensuring quality service every step of the way. These services are offered in all of the surrounding areas, including Rochester, Greece, Henrietta, Webster, Pittsford and more. Families can call the cremation provider for immediate support. Or, prepare for the future with cremation preplanning. Rochester Cremation offers an office, conveniently located at 4044 W Henrietta Rd Rochester, NY 14623. Visit to discuss available cremation packages with an experienced team. Or, call to learn more about the available services. We can schedule a consultation to discuss your needs and coordinate the best cremation plan for your loved one: (585) 359-2300.

Craig F. StewardCraig F. Steward of Rochester, NY passed away at home on February 21, 2026, at the age of 73. Craig is p...
02/25/2026

Craig F. Steward

Craig F. Steward of Rochester, NY passed away at home on February 21, 2026, at the age of 73.

Craig is predeceased by his parents; Francis (Bud) & Rosemary Steward: Brothers: Rodney & Matthew Steward. He is survived by his daughters, Amy Steward and Erin Steward-Pollay: Grandchildren, Derek Ward and Brooklyn Pollay. Sister in-law; Nancy Steward.

Craig retired from General Motors in 2007. The family wishes to extend their gratitude to the staff at Unity Dialysis Center for their support and care over the last several years. Those who knew Craig know that he hated being fussed over and lived a very minimalist lifestyle. In lieu of funeral services, donations can be made to Rochester Regional Health, www.rochesterregional.org/giving/make-a-gift

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Kevin John "Butch" McCarthyKevin John “Butch” McCarthyHilton, New York1965–2026Kevin John “Butch” McCarthy of Hilton, Ne...
02/25/2026

Kevin John "Butch" McCarthy

Kevin John “Butch” McCarthy

Hilton, New York

1965–2026

Kevin John “Butch” McCarthy of Hilton, New York, passed away on February 21st, 2026, at the age of 60.He is predeceased by his parents, John R. and Helen L. (Herring) McCarthy, as well as his siblings Lorie Gardner, Michael McCarthy, and Bridget Corder.Butch is survived by his two sons, Andrew Mack (Gisella Correa) and Joseph Sands, both of whom he was deeply proud of. He is also survived by his sisters, Molly McCarthy (Tina Paternostro) and Katy Kowalczyk (Gary), along with several nieces, nephews, extended family and so many friends..

Butch had a lifelong love for the outdoors and cherished time spent with his sons and his dog, Callie. He found joy in taking them camping, kayaking, and fishing—creating memories filled with adventure, laughter, and love.A celebration of life gathering will be announced by the family in the near future.In honor of Butch, memorial donations may be made to The Villa of Hope (https://www.villaofhope.org/), Trillium Health (https://www.trilliumhealth.org/), or to an addiction recovery program of your choice.

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Edward L. DeciDr. Edward L. Deci, pioneering psychologist who transformed thinking around human motivation, rememberedEd...
02/18/2026

Edward L. Deci

Dr. Edward L. Deci, pioneering psychologist who transformed thinking around human motivation, remembered

Edward Deci, a professor emeritus of psychology at the University of Rochester whose pioneering work transformed how human motivation is understood and shaped generations of scholars, practitioners, and students worldwide, died in February at the age of 83.

He was best known for his work on self-determination theory, which he co-founded with his University colleague Richard Ryan. The theory became one of the most influential frameworks on human motivation and wellness in contemporary psychology, with its reach extending far beyond academic journals.

At a time when behaviorist approaches dominated the field of psychology—emphasizing rewards and punishments as primary drivers of behavior—Deci helped advance a different view: humans are naturally inclined toward curiosity, growth, and connection, and their progress in and mastery of their pursuits are necessary for them to flourish.

His 1971 seminal paper on extrinsic rewards on intrinsic motivation spawned decades of collaborative research with Ryan that evolved into self-determination theory. Today, the theory is among the most cited in the history of psychology, and is now widely applied in education, health care, psychotherapy, organizational life, and public policy, influencing how people are taught, treated, motivated, and supported across diverse settings worldwide.

“They identified three key human needs—our need for competence, our need for autonomy, and our need for relatedness, meaning personal connection—and they posited that intrinsic motivation can be sustained only when we feel those needs are being satisfied,” author Paul Tough once wrote in The Atlantic in explaining how the theory was being used to teach children resilience.

Deci spent his entire academic career at the University of Rochester, joining the Department of Psychology in 1970 and later becoming the Helen F. and Fred H. Gowen Professor in the Social Sciences before retiring in 2017. Over more than four decades, he helped establish the University as a global center for the study of human motivation.

Beginning in the early 1980s, Deci and Ryan co-led the Human Motivation Program at the University, which became a formative intellectual home for many scholars who would go on to shape the field themselves. Central to the program was a weekly motivation research group, where rigorous thinking, open dialogue, and mentorship were defining features.

Over the course of his career, Deci authored and co-authored hundreds of publications and several influential books, including Intrinsic Motivation and Self-Determination in Human Behavior (1985), Why We Do What We Do (1991), and Self-Determination Theory: Basic Psychological Needs in Motivation, Development, and Wellness (2017).

Beyond his scholarship, Deci was widely known as a generous mentor, advisor, and friend. Former students and colleagues often described his patience, warmth, and gentle challenge—his ability to encourage others to seek clarity and truth while respecting their lived experience. His legacy lives on not only in the reach of his ideas, but also in the countless scholars, clinicians, educators, and practitioners whose work—and lives—were shaped by his guidance.

“Ed had a profound passion for understanding human motivation and for putting that knowledge into practice,” says Ryan, his longtime collaborator. “He was remarkably generative as a scholar, but what mattered just as much to him was supporting younger scholars—helping them think clearly, work honestly, and grow into themselves.”

In 2015, Deci and Ryan founded the Center for Self-Determination Theory, a nonprofit organization that advances the philosophy, research, and practices of self-determination theory.

Outside of academic life, Deci found joy and meaning on Monhegan Island, Maine, where he spent his summers and played a long-standing role in the Monhegan Museum of Art and History and its artistic community. For decades, he served as either director of the museum or president of the Monhegan Museum Association, or both, helping to steward the cultural life of the island alongside his work in psychology. His passion reflected the same values that guided his scientific work: curiosity, care, and a deep respect for human expression.

Deci is survived by his sister Shirley Jensen, brother Charles Deci Jr., their children and grandchildren, and by a global community of colleagues, students, and friends whose lives were shaped, directly or indirectly, by his ideas and character.

A Remembrance and Gathering Details A rememberance and gathering will be held on Saturday, March 14, from 1:00–3:00 p.m. (ET) at the University of Rochester Interfaith Chapel (Address: 1045 Wilson Blvd., Rochester, New York 14627). Memorial Contribution

For those who have asked how they might honor Ed’s life and legacy, contributions may be made to: · The Center for Self-Determination Theory (CSDT): https://selfdeterminationtheory.org

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Leslie E. HowellFebruary 12, 2026 at age 83 is survived by his loving wife Lorraine, children Mick {Karen} Howell, Kelli...
02/17/2026

Leslie E. Howell

February 12, 2026 at age 83 is survived by his loving wife Lorraine, children Mick {Karen} Howell, Kelli Howell, Shelli {Dave} Biehler, Nicole LaMondie, 6 grandchildren, 2 great grandchildren, other loving family and friends. Retired from Gannett Company, Genesee Valley Cemetery Association. Les was an avid hunter, fisherman, and a die-hard Yankees fan.

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Dale Lee DurkeeDale Lee Durkee born on 6/20/55 went to be with the Lord on 2/3/26. He is preceded by his parents Ira & A...
02/17/2026

Dale Lee Durkee

Dale Lee Durkee born on 6/20/55 went to be with the Lord on 2/3/26. He is preceded by his parents Ira & Ardith Durkee, Sister Gail Jackson and brother Danny Durkee. He is survived by his 3 children Jason, Janel (Daniel) , Amber (Matt) 6 grandchildren , sisters Diane (Roger) Anderson, Pennie (Jim) Hutt, Pattie (Mark) Sauer ,sister in law Solita Durkee, many nieces, nephews and his church family.

Dale was a talented mason and carpenter. He loved fishing, hunting and wearing his cowboy hats. A memorial service will be held at North Wolcott Christian Church on 2/22/26 at 2 pm. 12764 Church Street Wolcott NY 14590

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Happy Valentine’s Day ❤️Today is often filled with flowers, cards, and celebrations of love, but for many, it can also b...
02/14/2026

Happy Valentine’s Day ❤️

Today is often filled with flowers, cards, and celebrations of love, but for many, it can also be a tender reminder of someone deeply missed. If you’re grieving the loss of a spouse or loved one, please know that it’s okay for today to feel heavy. Love doesn’t disappear when someone is gone. It lives on in memories, traditions, quiet moments, and the space they will always hold in your heart.

Love looks different for everyone today, and every version of it is valid.

Phyllis A. DeWindNORTH CHILI, NY – February 12, 2026 at age 92. Phyllis was predeceased by her daughter Brenda, parents ...
02/14/2026

Phyllis A. DeWind

NORTH CHILI, NY – February 12, 2026 at age 92. Phyllis was predeceased by her daughter Brenda, parents Earl and Mary McMann, sisters Doris and Rosemary, brothers Jack and Earl Jr, and nephew Danny. She is survived by her loving husband of 68 years Gerry, son Brian (Cindy) DeWind, grandchildren Eric (Brittany) DeWind and Lindsay (Andrew) Staroska, great grandchildren Jack and Natalie DeWind. She was born and raised in Waterloo, NY and lived for many years in Geneva, NY where she was a homemaker and secretary for a local dentist. She was a dog lover and really enjoyed football season and cheering on the Buffalo Bills. The family would like to thank the staff at Hildebrandt Hospice for their compassionate care during her final days. Donations in Phyllis’s name may be made to either Lollypop Farm (www.lollypop.org) or the Hildebrandt Hospice Care Fund (www.rrhgive.org/giving). No prior calling or services. Private interment.

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Mary Ellen BrownMaryEllen, Age 74, passed away Thursday, February 5, 2026. She is survived by her loving husband of 54 y...
02/11/2026

Mary Ellen Brown

MaryEllen, Age 74, passed away Thursday, February 5, 2026. She is survived by her loving husband of 54 years Herman “Butch” Brown, whom she shared an unconditional and everlasting love. She was pre-deceased by her mother, Margaret Dixon Barrett, and was the proud eldest of seven children. MaryEllen is lovingly remembered by her dedicated advocates sister Eileen & brother-in-law John Hovey. Also survived by siblings Rob (Judy), David (Sheree), Michael (Debbi), John (Chris) Barrett and Karen (Tim) Federation. She cherished her special place in the hearts of Shawn, Jessica and Jennifer (her Goddaughter) and their children- EllaRae, Hunter, Izzy, Kinzlee, JJ & Theron Hovey, whose presence always brightened her life, brought her laughter and smiles, and made her feel extra loved. She had many dear nephews, nieces, family members, friends near & far. She loved deeply, always offering a listening ear and valuable advice. Her disease took her much too soon, but she has now found peace. You can imagine her walking her beloved furry companion, Ottis, on the beach watching the waves and soaking in the sunshine. She left everyone who knew with special memories and her incredible smile. At her request, no service will be held. Please consider donating in her memory to her favorite charities Lollypop Farm or the Willow Domestic Violence Center.

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Judith "Judy" Ann SmithJudith "Judy" Ann SmithJudy passed peacefully on January 31, 2026 at Monroe Community Hospital in...
02/10/2026

Judith "Judy" Ann Smith

Judith "Judy" Ann Smith

Judy passed peacefully on January 31, 2026 at Monroe Community Hospital in Rochester, NY.

Judy is survived by her husband Carl, son Michael(Leslie), daughter Michele, grandchildren; Christopher, Alyssa, Lukas, Gabriel, her brother Harry Canfield (Penny), sister in law, Dona Zagryn (Guy) and many nieces and nephews. She is predeceased by her father, mother, and brothers; Chester and Hestel.

Judy was born on February 23, 1942, in Montrose, WV, to Alvah O. Canfield and Bessie Canfield (Hedrick). A graduate of Elkins High School, in Elkins W.V. and Strayer Business School in Washington, D.C., where she began her professional life as a secretary.

In 1965, Judy met and married her husband, Carl. The couple soon moved to Rochester, NY, where they built a life together and raised their two children. Following retirement, Judy and Carl spent 25 years traveling the country in their RV, embracing the freedom of the open road. Judy was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and sister. Her kindness and spirit of adventure left a lasting impact on everyone she encountered. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to a charity of your choice in Judy's memory.

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Clyde E. Struck Jr.Clyde E Struck, JrFebruary 4th, 2026 at age of 76.Clyde is predeceased by his parents, Marion and Cly...
02/10/2026

Clyde E. Struck Jr.

Clyde E Struck, Jr

February 4th, 2026 at age of 76.

Clyde is predeceased by his parents, Marion and Clyde Struck and siblings, Nancy (Hise), Bill, and Bobby Struck. He is survived by the love of his life, Paulette (Sexton); daughters, Julie (Edward) Riederer and Susan (Robert) Valenti; four grandchildren, Amanda (Dave) Lukasik, Evan Valenti, Edward Riederer IV, and Eko Riederer. He is also survived by siblings, Jodi (Bruce) Olson, Jim (Georgia) Struck, Gail Williams and Linda Struck. He is also survived by many wonderful nieces and nephews.

Following 22 years of service both at Eastman Kodak as a Printer Maintenance Technician, and as Master Sergeant in the Air National Guard, Clyde retired from Genesee Global Group as an Electrical Mechanical Technician. He enjoyed hunting and fishing and was a lifetime member and volunteer at Four Point Rod & Gun Club. He was an avid Buffalo Bills fan and loved to travel with Paulette. He enjoyed woodworking, creating many pieces that he shared with family and friends and could fix almost anything.

We would like to thank lifelong friends and family for all their support. We would like to thank Dr Starr and the Oncology and Hospice teams at Unity Health for all of their kindness during this difficult time.

Contributions can be sent to Veterans Outreach Center or the American Cancer Society in Clyde's memory.

American Cancer Society (www.cancer.org)

Veterans Outreach Center (http://wl.donorperfect.net/weblink/weblink.aspx?id=5&name=E12388)

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Marilyn GreeneMarilyn Greene passed away suddenly on February 4th, just weeks after entering Clifton Springs Nursing Hom...
02/09/2026

Marilyn Greene

Marilyn Greene passed away suddenly on February 4th, just weeks after entering Clifton Springs Nursing Home, having bravely battled Alzheimer’s disease for more than 7 years. She was cared for with much love and devotion by her eldest daughter, Heather, for over 4 years, allowing Marilyn to enjoy those years in the comfort and familiarity of her own home, where she continued to find joy in daily life.

Marilyn was born in Corpus Christi, Texas on Feb. 22, 1944, to Commander R. Carleton "Curly" Greene, U.S. Navy (Ret.), and Grace Catherine Hellyar Greene. The family soon moved to Avon and then to Geneva, where they remained for many years. Marilyn graduated from Geneva High School, where she was a majorette in the marching band and sang in the Trinity Church choir. Her lifelong love of music continued at Alfred University, where she performed in the Concert Choir and participated in the World’s Fair in NYC. She went on to work in several hospitals and offices as a medical transcriptionist, a role in which her precision, dedication, and genuine interest in understanding complex medical diagnoses earned her the deep appreciation of colleagues and physicians alike.

Marilyn approached life with a positive outlook and a wonderfully unique sense of humor. She delighted in sharing “punny” jokes, effortlessly brightening any room with her quick wit and infectious laughter. Strong-willed and independent, she was equally known for her gracious nature, pleasant demeanor, and ever-present warm smile.

Marilyn was married to John Stephens for some 20 years, with whom she had four children. While raising her family, she pursued countless pastimes: sewing, knitting, crocheting, quilting, leatherwork, spinning wool, classical music, shopping, ice skating, racquetball, sailing, and even raising goats—one memorable incident involved a delivery person mistaking them for free-ranging Dobermans, much to everyone’s amusement.

In 1972, she took an active role in building the family home, designing floor plans, laying and staining wood floors and walls, constructing Z-batten doors, and making the house uniquely hers—a source of great pride.

The daughter of a career Naval officer and an educator, Marilyn cultivated a lifelong love of learning and reading, filling her home with a wonderful library. She cherished time spent in solitude, fostered a deep love of nature and treasured spending time at her family’s hunting cabin in the Adirondacks. These passions she fostered will be carried forward by her descendants for generations to come.

Later in life, Marilyn returned to school, obtaining her master’s in psychology from Hobart and William Smith Colleges and her PhD ABD (all but dissertation) in counselor education at Syracuse University. She then devoted many years to the Family Counseling Center in Geneva, helping children and adults navigate the challenges of domestic violence and sexual abuse. This work reflected her deep compassion and commitment to others—a true passion of hers.

A kind hearted soul, she was deeply cherished by many who ensured she was cared for in her home and afforded the dignified life she so deserved.

Marilyn is survived by her children: Heather and husband Francesco Tangredi, Craig Stephens, Merritt Stephens and partner Raymond, David Stephens; her former husband John Stephens and wife Lorraine; brothers Kirk Greene and Brenton Greene and wife Debra; grandchildren Nicholas Tangredi and wife Sanja, Stefania Grace Tangredi and fiancé Davide, Karissa Morris (ne Woznick), Kyle Woznick and fiancé Madeline; as well as great-grandchildren Kaiden, Aleira, Luke, and Francesco, Jr. She was predeceased by her parents, her brother Craig Greene, and many aunts, uncles, and cousins, along with several beloved fur babies, especially Lily.

A sincere thank you goes to Jamie, BJ, Dawn & others for the love, care, and support given to our beloved Mom and to our family. We wouldn’t have been able to take care of her in such a great way without you and will never forget your affection for our family. It really made a meaningful difference in our lives.

We also thank the staff of ElderOne day center in Newark and the Clifton Springs nursing home for their services and assistance.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Alzheimer’s Association or a dementia research organization or animal rescue of choice. A Celebration of Life service will be held in the spring.

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Edmund Elliott Lynch Sr.It is with deep love and sadness that we announce the passing of Edmund Elliott Lynch Sr., who d...
02/07/2026

Edmund Elliott Lynch Sr.

It is with deep love and sadness that we announce the passing of Edmund Elliott Lynch Sr., who departed this life on January 30 at the age 89, surrounded by his family.

Born on February 29, 1936 in Springfield, Vermont, Edmund was the beloved son of Louis Edmund Lynch and Ethel Berta Hathaway. Also predeceased was a sister, Arline Louise and a brother, Eugene.

After graduating from Lake Placid High School, he entered the US Air Force where he became a Chinese linguist at the Yale Institute of Far Eastern Languages. When discharged after serving in Korea and Japan he enrolled at the University of San Francisco for a BA in Asian and American Studies, then received an MA from the State University of NY at Cooperstown for Museum Administration. Ed then pursued a PhD at Boston University. These achievements evolved into a long career as a museum curator, administrator and public servant. Colleagues and friends remember him for his competence, stellar leadership, generous spirit, and unwavering commitment to others.

He lived a life of integrity, compassion and quiet strength. His family was the heart of his world. He leaves behind his loving wife of 65 years, Nancy; his children,

Katherine “Kelly” Redder (Christopher), Tara Lynch Penny (Randy), Edmund Elliott Lynch Jr. (Julie); Meghan Lynch McGee (Douglas); a sister, Veronica Twomey (David), grandchildren, great grandchildren, nieces, nephews; a host of relatives and in-laws; and lifelong extended family friends for whom he was profoundly grateful. Edmund had a unique way of making everyone around him feel valued. Whether through a kind word, a hearty laugh, or a helping hand, he left an indelible mark on those who knew him. His legacy of love, faith, and service will continue in the lives of all he touched.

A funeral mass will be held at Fairport, New York’s Church of the Assumption on Monday, February 16 at 11:00 am. The burial service at St Agnes Cemetery and a gathering to celebrate Edmund’s life will be held during the week of July 6th at Lake Placid, New York. Friends and family are welcome to attend and share memories. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to a charity of your choice.

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