12/11/2023
This can also be true for adults. And in that case (and potentially for children) add in trauma triggers, negative core beliefs, stress level, grief, and so many more. It’s helpful when we can stop, notice our initial assumption, and override it by remembering these factors.
There is so much more to behaviour than most people think. Children don’t try to upset us, there is usually something behind it. They are communicating their need through behaviour. If we look behind the behaviour we can see a child who is doing the best they can
