12/24/2021
Christmas, Birthdays, Halloween, Disney on ice. All of these things are FUN, yet do you ever find your toddler melting down way MORE than usual??And you're just looking at them like, this is FUN!? What is HAPPENING?! 😩
I get it, "What part of endless presents/treats/joy is hard?!" BUT. Hear us out.
Toddlers have a REALLY hard time with:
➕ Holidays
➕ Family Gatherings
➕ Loud Noises
➕ New Places
➕ Being out of Routine
Why? Toddler brains LOVE stability, routine + knowing what's coming next🧠. Holidays, while fun, can also be overwhelming for a toddler brain, being thrown into a day full of the unknown + no idea what's coming next.
For them, it's like: "Normally when I wake up, I potty, eat breakfast+get dressed. But today, we woke up, headed right to the car to grandma's house, there were lots of people and we did 'presents'? That feels REAL DIFFERENT. What's next?!"
Enter panic🚨
The key to avoiding/minimizing the meltdowns is✨PREP✨
This year, you might be celebrating with friends/family for the first time in a loooooong time. Or, maybe you're staying home + celebrating. Either way, it's still something out of their normal routine. PREP them on all the details of what your family is doing. More details are better!
DAY BEFORE
✨"Tomorrow, we will wake up, drive right to grandma’s house and have breakfast there. Your cousins will be there, we will open presents together. We will stay all day, have dinner there, the go home.”✨
DAY OF:
PREP+narrate throughout the day. "Now we're opening presents, then we'll eat lunch."
PRO TIP: Timers are a GREAT tool to ease those transitions:
✨"In 2 minutes, we're saying bye bye & going home. Do YOU want to push the button on the timer?"✨
PREPing can SERIOUSLY help with lowering the meltdowns! BUT the truth is, they just have a hard time with new/different things. Key: Lower YOUR expectations. Expect meltdowns, so that YOU are prepped + ready to handle them with grace like the warrior parent you are🌈
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