03/13/2026
What was the thing you wished you asked of your visitors when you brought your baby home?
The first days and weeks of life are filled with so many big emotions- most of them coming from Mom but the loved ones in our lives are often overjoyed and so excited to meet your baby.
As guests who are visiting a new mom and her baby, it’s important to keep these things in mind:
1️⃣ Wash your hands and respect the parents’ wishes if they prefer you to wear a mask or not hold the baby just yet. You don’t know their journey (NICU stay? Preemie? Doctor recommendation?) so leave the judgment and germs at the door and bring only kind words and love.
2️⃣ Be helpful. Wash a few bottles, offer to watch the baby while Mom takes a nap, fold laundry. The list is endless and Mom would love the help!
3️⃣ Be mindful of the length of your stay. In the early days of postpartum, it’s not the new parents’ responsibility to entertain guests.
4️⃣ BRING FOOD (and coffee)…something that can be frozen and kept for later, to take another task off of their list. If you’re in Essex County, NJ- I highly recommend for amazing freezer meals and for the best bread (featured here but not and ad…I just know good Italian food when I see it)
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