Couples Peace Place

09/06/2025

09/06/2025

09/05/2025

He read some of the comments to me and said, " Am I this bad? He asked if we could start over and fix what's wrong in our relationship. It was like a dream. Please, I want to thank your followers for speaking the truth. Many of them advised me to leave and move on. He was touched, and we are planning to go for counseling. Thanks, Dr. Shola.

09/04/2025

We are yet to be intimate, but when on the couch, I rub my bum on him, and I couldn't feel anything. Secondly, he told me he has been divorced 2 times and has no kids. Yesterday, I asked him to let us make love, and he turned it into a fight. Then he left for his place. Maybe he couldn't perform, so his marriages ended weeks after the wedding. Even though he said the ladies are after his money, and he is not comfortable, he filed for divorce himself. I left him a message this morning, that we can't continue till he makes love to me. He is yet to reply.

09/04/2025

To him, I didn't have a favorable family home to go to and can't cater for our kids (not like he was catering for us, his siblings literally did everything down to fees and the car he drives even clothes).
I used to beg him that the matter is not yet serious for him to be calling divorce.
One day and one week ehn, osumi. That beating, I told him this is the last time in your life you would ever beat a woman and he dared me to do my worst.
I picked my certificate and my children and left every other thing I owned and ran. He didn't bother checking in because he believed I couldn't cope alone. Till date he hasn't gone to see my parents. It's been 2+ years.
Guess what? As much as God hates divorce, He detests people who play God. Dr. Shola, same week I left I miraculously got a job, small pay but it opened international doors. I said if I perish I perish. That's how I dusted my skills and today, my kids are in schools 7times better than when we were with him, I am now able to save for their education and future too (imagine a man who borrows money from his wife's business and won't pay back till it crumbles and even demands me to withdraw our child's monetary gifts that I saved in the children's account).

I went back to online business, even Forex and finally settled on my current business.
Guess who later kept begging to come back, I said God forbid.
Oh I forgot to mention that one of his daughters in the Lord he was sleeping with was gradually poisoning my food and he refused the girl leaving our home until I said you either choose this marriage or her.

If I tell you the reason for the last beating thay broke the camel's back ehn, you'd either laugh or pity him because e be like na village people.
He threatened me with divorce and when the seeds he sowed germinated he started blaming me.
He'd come to me to apologise then go to people and twist the story. No respect for my parents either. My mom would visit and a full grown man with public hairs would borrow money from his MIL for us to cook food? Olomaje

09/04/2025

As I walked in, I saw my husband and his girlfriend inside. He didn't see me, but I ran out, and the man asked what the issue was, and I explained to him. We went somewhere else that night, but got home before him. He didn't ask me any questions, and we went to sleep. Around 3am, he woke me up and said he missed me and would love to have s*x with me, and I agreed. He never wanted to talk about his infidelity, which made us stop sleeping together. So I kept mute. This man is still disturbing me, and I told him I have reconnected with my husband, but he won't listen. My husband visited my office about 4 times and brought me flowers and food. Dr. Shola, what is he trying to do? Should I continue to play dumb or revisit the infidelity issue? As my heart is no longer with him.

08/31/2025

It’s amazing what a little change can do! I've noticed he’s coming home on time and pitching in more around the house.

Just yesterday, he mentioned, “So, you need someone to show you how to make your home better.” It hit me—my reluctance to trust him with finances was what kept me from fully sharing my resources. Holding onto my money while expecting him to take care of everything felt so unfair. After our heart-to-heart, I realized where I went wrong, and we made some positive adjustments.

Now, I have one last thought on my mind: can I use my 30% to invest in property and create extra income? What do you think?

08/30/2025