James Christensen LMFT

James Christensen LMFT Roseville Couples Counseling
https://jamesmchristensen.com

11/01/2025

A man shares his struggles to understand Molly's avoidance. His anxiety significantly impacts their relationship.

11/01/2025

The harder someone is pushed, the more likely they are to resist. Constant pressure to do something often leads to increased determination *not* to do it. People value their freedom to choose.

11/01/2025

Acknowledging feelings reminds her of resilience and independence; learn more at therapyjames.com

10/31/2025

One partner is anxious, the other avoidant. Anxiety pushes one closer, while it pulls the other away. Each fears the opposite: engulfment versus abandonment.

10/31/2025

The left brain fixates on controlling a partner, even when it's impossible. It doesn't grasp that direct pressure backfires. It struggles with the idea of free choice and unintended consequences.

10/31/2025

This guide helps improve relationship communication. It emphasizes self-regulation and revealing perceptions, rather than trying to convince an avoidant partner.

10/30/2025

Each person is responsible for their own anxiety in a relationship. One partner doesn't need to fix it for the other. Focus on personal behavior and offering a calm connection. It will build a better marriage.

10/30/2025

Anger arises from feeling powerless. It stems from needing change but lacking control. To lessen anger, gain more power or accept the situation as is. Feeling anger is normal; letting it control behavior is the problem.

10/30/2025

Can you zoom out? The bigger picture includes everyone's behavior and the shared history. See how both sides contribute to marriage problems. Change starts with understanding.

10/30/2025

When one partner's left brain activates, it pushes the other into problem-solving mode. Then the other partner does the same thing back! See how control and manipulation affect relationships every day.

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