06/08/2025
Tantrums. Defiance. Meltdowns.
They’re not always signs of a “bad” behavior… but often signs of an unmet need — especially the need for connection. 💛
Children may seek out any kind of attention — even negative — because connection is essential to their emotional safety. When they feel secure and seen, their behavior often begins to shift naturally.
The most powerful tool for shaping behavior isn’t punishment — it’s relationship.
✅ Try this:
– Designate a few minutes a day in play or conversation, fully present
– Catch and praise the positive behavior you want to see more of
– Stay curious about what your child’s behavior might be trying to communicate
Connection builds trust. Trust builds cooperation.
Let’s lead with connection — and watch behavior follow. 💕
