Joe Kort

Joe Kort Joe Kort is a doctor of clinical sexology and licensed clinical social worker www.joekort.com over 680K on TikTok

If a straight man has s*x with a man, does that automatically change his s*xual orientation?In this free live webinar, I...
03/06/2026

If a straight man has s*x with a man, does that automatically change his s*xual orientation?

In this free live webinar, I will break down what male s*xual fluidity really means and why behavior does not always equal identity.

This training is designed for therapists, educators, and anyone who wants a deeper understanding of s*xuality.

Save your seat today. Link to sign up for this free webinar in in my bio.
https://crsh.com/male-fluidity/

03/06/2026

It’s so easy to go online, read a few things, and conclude, “I must be a s*x addict. Now I know what my problem is.”

But that label often misses what’s actually going on.

For 25 of my 41 years as a psychotherapist, I practiced s*x addiction treatment. I even identified as one myself. And I eventually realized it wasn’t helping my clients or me.

Link to the full video in bio.

A reader recently left this review for Cracking the Erotic Code, and it meant a lot to me:“LOVED THIS BOOK… Joe Kort gav...
02/27/2026

A reader recently left this review for Cracking the Erotic Code, and it meant a lot to me:

“LOVED THIS BOOK… Joe Kort gave me so many insights and information about myself as a gay man and cracking my erotic code, plus also showing me it is okay to connect socially and emotionally with other gay men like myself…”

This is exactly why I wrote this book. Understanding your erotic mind can bring clarity, self-acceptance, and a deeper sense of connection. You deserve to feel seen in who you are, and to know that your desires and emotional needs are valid.

If you are on your own journey of self-discovery, you are not alone. Link to purchase a copy is in my bio.

02/27/2026

A partner discovers something in a spouse’s browser history and feels shocked, disgusted, even betrayed. The other partner feels deep shame and cannot explain why the fantasy exists in the first place.

When you explore the backstory, painful early experiences can sometimes connect to what later becomes erotic. When that meaning clicks, shame softens and empathy can grow.

The fantasy does not disappear. You cannot give yourself an eroticectomy. But you can understand your erotic code and stop letting it manage you.

Link to the full video in bio.

I know giving love often feels easier than receiving it but receiving love can stir up old hurts. Here are four ways you...
02/26/2026

I know giving love often feels easier than receiving it but receiving love can stir up old hurts. Here are four ways you can accept love easier:

1. Simply say thank you.
2. Let yourself feel the pleasure of what’s given.
3. Acknowledge any old traumas that get in the way.
4. Remember you don’t have to give back right away, or at all.

Receiving love is a gift, allow it!

So you are scrolling dating apps and come across some that says, “I’m not into drama,” it often means drama is close by....
02/25/2026

So you are scrolling dating apps and come across some that says, “I’m not into drama,” it often means drama is close by.

They may be the one overtly creating it, and/or getting others create it in covert ways by being provocative. They may also be drawn to it unconsciously. Just beware that for someone to say this in a profile it can often mean that they are the drama.

The same goes for someone telling you to “calm down” when you already are calm. Often, it is their own anxiety or intensity showing up, and they are projecting it onto you.

Have you noticed this dynamic in your friendships or relationships?

Prefer a teletherapy virtural appointment?You can schedule a session with me or one of my associates by calling 248.399....
02/24/2026

Prefer a teletherapy virtural appointment?

You can schedule a session with me or one of my associates by calling 248.399.7447 or by visiting The Center for Relationship Health at crsh.com to book online.

Teletherapy is a convenient and effective way to receive care. Research consistently shows that telehealth leads to strong client outcomes and makes support more accessible from wherever you are.

Foreplay can be the main play!S*x does not have to mean in*******se. Outercourse is just as valid as in*******se when ha...
02/23/2026

Foreplay can be the main play!

S*x does not have to mean in*******se. Outercourse is just as valid as in*******se when having s*x.

Many people cannot or do not want to engage in pe*******on because of medical conditions, trauma, disability, aging, identity, or personal preference. Yet they still deserve fulfilling and meaningful s*xual connection.

Outercourse is intimacy without in*******se. It can include sensual touch, oral s*x, mutual pleasure, erotic play, and emotional closeness. It is also known as foreplay. Foreplay can be the main play!

You can build a happy, healthy, and s*xually fulfilling life, and you do not have to do it alone. The therapists at The ...
02/21/2026

You can build a happy, healthy, and s*xually fulfilling life, and you do not have to do it alone. The therapists at The Center for Relationship Health in Royal Oak are here to support you in gaining a deeper understanding of your s*xual health, whether you are seeking help as an individual or as a couple. We have a s*xual health division of certified and trained therapists who are here to help you enhance your s*xual wellness.

Through s*x therapy, you can explore your own feelings, experiences, and beliefs about intimacy, while also strengthening communication and connection with your partner.

Research continues to show that a satisfying and active love life is linked to greater well-being, improved health, and stronger long-term relationships.

To learn more about our practice and our team of licensed therapists, visit crsh.com or call 248.399.7447.

02/20/2026

For years, I was told I just hadn’t met the right guy or hadn’t had it done right. I was called a virgin. Some even suggested maybe I wasn’t really gay if I didn’t want to top or bottom. But none of that resonated with me. I simply wasn’t into it.

So one day I said, half joking, maybe I’m just a side. What started as a casual comment turned into a viral article and thousands of messages from men who finally felt seen. Men who thought something was wrong with them. Men who didn’t feel gay enough because they didn’t fit into a narrow definition of s*x.

When we expand the definition of s*x and allow people language for their experience, shame starts to dissolve and belonging takes its place.

Link to the full video in bio and below.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7C9V6W1silk&t=4s

Does s*x have an expiration date?Absolutely not. S*xuality is ageless. Unless, of course, you want it to end and there i...
02/20/2026

Does s*x have an expiration date?

Absolutely not. S*xuality is ageless. Unless, of course, you want it to end and there is no shame in that.

Your body may change over time, but that does not mean your desire, pleasure, or intimacy has to disappear. So many people assume that aging automatically means the end of a satisfying s*x life, but that belief is rooted in shame, misinformation, and unrealistic cultural expectations.

A healthy s*x life can evolve. It may look different than it did at 25, but it can still be meaningful, connected, and deeply pleasurable. You are in charge of defining what intimacy looks like for you.

Is aging affecting your s*xuality? Let’s talk about it.

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