08/09/2025
I'm going to ruffle feathers but this is a hill I will fight till my last breath over.
Anger is NOT a language. It's not a love language. It's not a sign of frustration or irritation.
Its a sign of emotional immaturity.
Americans scream, yell, belittle, gas light and out right abuse their kids. Some even their spouses.
The parenting book I've read, has really opened my eyes to how badly I was raised.
How badly I was treating my own kids due to the lack of awareness of what real parenting is.
Humans have been around for thousands of years.
America has been for two hundred and fifty years "officially".
As an "american" I hate this country because the ideology of what "America should be" has been distorted beyond comprehension.
In the late 1800's, MALE doctors proclaimed they held the knowledge on how to raise babies better than the mothers of the children. That very structure they created, is the foundation for the same pediatric system we have currently.
We've been taught to "control, manipulate and separate" our children from us.
Why?
That's the American way!
It's the wrong way.
I have spent years, actively working on my own parenting style and I'm far from perfect with it.
Learning that my kids should never be separated from my life.
Meaning, kids activities, kids menus, even kids toys are all intended to teach the child that they are a separate entity from the family.
Kids are literally born with the innate nature to BELONG. To be CO-munnity..
We "as Americans" teach them to go against their natural instincts.
We teach them that its the adults job to do everything, then get upset as they grow older and lack the motivation to actually do what we do.
Therefore we gas light, manipulate and even abuse them till they are literally conditioned to do what we do.
We say we want to be different or better than our parents yet, run on the same programing that our parents ran on.
We claim that family is most important, yet the dysfunction of family is the most toxic most times.
We, as Americans, seek to be "independent" which goes against all natural instincts.
Mother's left alone to learn how to be a mother because we're taught that its "natural instincts"..
That's a lie. We are communal.
History has proven this but politics and religions bury that. Why?
Power. It all boils down to power.
Whether that's owning the land or the people.
Some times, its both.
That's what America has been founded on and before anyone comes quoting "It was founded on liberty, freedom, justice, blah blah blah"
It was founded so Noble men didn't have to pay taxes. Fight me, you'll never change my mind.
I'll reply with article after article of the MASS Graves of CHILDREN that have been unearthed because of the land that was STOLEN by those very men proclaiming to want freedom.
America is founded on deceit, lies, injustice, hatred for anything that isn’t paste white with a swinging member between the legs.
I'm watching it crumble. Parents losing their ever loving minds, wondering what they're doing wrong.
Get out of the western mind set and you'll be amazed at how quickly your parenting changes.
I have an almost two year old, who helps put dishes away, helps with trash, cleans up after herself, has cognitive understanding that most ten year olds lack and emotional understanding.
Why?
I have actively changed my methods of parenting.
I refuse to ask for help from those who feed the system or refuse to acknowledge their faults in the upbringing of their own children.
America. You all need therapy.
Those that are getting it, find someone considered indigenous to a rural country and ask them questions about their up bringing.
You'll quickly realize all of your problems stem from an unhealed inner child and lack of community.
Thanks for coming to my ted talk. 👏👌
