02/20/2026
It’s never about saying no more often, the work is slowing the reflex long enough so you can actually choose your answer.
The regret later usually shows up when you realize you moved too fast and never checked whether you actually wanted to agree.
There’s so much happening in that small pause, and that’s where self trust gets built.
Have there been times where you’ve regretted saying yes? I’m definitely guilty of it 👀