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STI Testing and the Role of Physicians: Why It MattersGenerally speaking, any STI testing requested by a patient in the ...
09/12/2025

STI Testing and the Role of Physicians: Why It Matters

Generally speaking, any STI testing requested by a patient in the United States requires the involvement of a licensed medical provider. That’s not optional — it’s built into the regulations.

Many states allow what’s called standing orders. In this model, a physician permits their NPI number to be affixed to lab orders and is technically “responsible” for those patients, but there’s rarely a real doctor–patient relationship. Even then, standing orders still require the collection of actual medical information from the patient.

Other states don’t allow standing orders at all, and instead require a much more tangible provider–patient relationship before testing can be ordered.

This is why every legitimate STI testing company includes a medical intake form as part of the ordering process. Even companies like STDcheck.com require you to enter medical information after you’ve paid. And it’s also why “at-home” kits sold by CVS or other retailers aren’t available everywhere — you simply can’t sell a test off the shelf in states where stricter medical requirements apply.

Here’s how we handle it at Shameless Care:
• We do not use standing orders.
• We have a team of 24 board-certified physicians.
• When you order a test, you’re assigned a physician licensed in your state. If two partners order tests together, they’ll usually end up with two separate doctors, assigned by the algorithm.
• That physician reviews your medical history, orders your test, interprets your results, and provides treatment if needed.

Finally, it’s worth mentioning that these rules change. For example, the definition of what counts as a valid doctor–patient relationship (asynchronous vs. synchronous visits) varies by state and has shifted frequently.

During COVID, many states allowed asynchronous visits (no video or phone call, just a form). Some have since rolled that back. On any given month, rules may change in several states.

The bottom line: The regulations around STI testing are complex and constantly evolving. But one thing is clear — you cannot legally cut physicians out of this process in all states.

09/12/2025

🌟 JUST DESSERTS: Why We Secretly Want Sinners to Get Sick 🌟Let’s be honest. We love watching people “get what’s coming to them.” It’s in every story we’ve ever told. The wolf eats the lazy pigs. The greedy villain is crushed. Actions have consequences.That sense of fairness runs deep — and it doesn’t stop at fairy tales. When it comes to s*x and health, we carry the same instinct. Even if we don’t say it out loud, many of us feel a secret satisfaction when people who “break the rules” end up paying the price.But here’s the twist: science has given us tools that take away those consequences. PrEP, DoxyPEP, and comprehensive STI testing can dramatically reduce risk. And that makes people uncomfortable. Even people who call themselves s*x-positive struggle with the idea that someone might skip condoms for casual s*x but still stay protected through other means.So we ask: do we actually want people to stay healthy and safe… or do we want to see them punished for what we consider “bad” behavior?That’s what this week’s Shameless Care Podcast is all about. 🎙️👉 Listen to Just Desserts now and find out why our craving for payback shapes the way we think about s*x, risk, and responsibility.[link]

🚨 Think you know the truth about compounded drugs?Sex-positive folks (us included) like to think we’re smarter than the ...
09/09/2025

🚨 Think you know the truth about compounded drugs?

Sex-positive folks (us included) like to think we’re smarter than the average person when it comes to s*xual healthcare. But here’s the uncomfortable truth: most of us actually know less.

That’s exactly why we made the Shameless Care Podcast — the best podcast to get smarter about s*x. 💡

This week’s episode:
👉 “The Truth About Compounded Drugs and FDA Approval”

We break it down with humor, science, and zero BS:
✅ What FDA approval really means (and doesn’t)
✅ When compounded meds are brilliant — and when they’re risky
✅ Why even the savviest s*x-positive folks are missing the point

If you want to be the smartest person in the room about s*xual health — and actually have fun learning — this is your show.

🎧 Listen now

This podcast is a must-listen - you're going to love it!
09/08/2025

This podcast is a must-listen - you're going to love it!

Shameless Care has never really been about me — the founder. Or Anna — my brilliant podcast co-host. It has always been ...
09/05/2025

Shameless Care has never really been about me — the founder. Or Anna — my brilliant podcast co-host. It has always been about you.

If it were about anyone else, it would be the 24 board-certified physicians on our team who show up every single day to provide judgment-free, s*x-positive healthcare. They’re the ones making this vision possible.

But the reality is… we can’t grow this mission with just 100 Instagram followers. So even though it feels a little self-indulgent, we’re starting to share more of us — so that more people can discover Shameless Care, get tested, get treated, and know there’s a healthcare company in their corner that doesn’t shame them for who they are or how they live.

We believe that s*xual health is real health.
We believe that testing, treatment, and education should be shame-free.
And we believe that you deserve doctors who support you — not lecture you.

That’s what Shameless Care is about.

Thanks for being here. Thanks for helping us grow. And thanks for proving every day that s*x-positive healthcare matters.

🚨 Does everyone want to help 🚨Did you know the U.S. federal government once licensed prostitutes during the Civil War? Y...
09/03/2025

🚨 Does everyone want to help 🚨

Did you know the U.S. federal government once licensed prostitutes during the Civil War? Yep — in Nashville, they not only made it legal but opened a medical clinic for the women.

Here’s the wild part:
👉 Even though STIs like gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis were not curable at the time, infection rates among soldiers plummeted.
👉 The program paid for itself — fees and taxes from the women came within $100 of breaking even.
👉 It was one of the first examples of a self-sufficient public health win in U.S. history.

And then… as soon as the war ended, Nashville tore it all down. Prostitution was made illegal again, people were arrested, and STI rates climbed back up — a cycle we’ve been watching play out for over 160 years.

💬 Here’s the question we’re wrestling with in this episode:
Do you think our society actually wants good s*xual health outcomes… or do some people deep down prefer that those who “sin” suffer the consequences?

Most STI testing companies make it way too easy for themselves. If we were anti-s*x and treated you like you were stupid...
09/02/2025

Most STI testing companies make it way too easy for themselves. If we were anti-s*x and treated you like you were stupid, selling testing would be a breeze.

You’ve seen those ads: “What happens in Vegas doesn’t stay in Vegas…” Fear tactics. The message is basically: if you have a one-night stand or casual fling, you should be terrified.

We think that’s nonsense.

At Shameless Care, we don’t shame s*x — we celebrate it. We actually teach you what the real STI risks are (spoiler: they’re not as high as you’ve been led to believe), and we reassure you that s*x is a completely normal human activity. You’re fine. Everything is awesome.

When you do want to get tested, we’re here to make sure you’re tested thoroughly — throat swabs, mycoplasma, ge***al testing, the works. And if you’d rather go through your own doctor? We’ve got resources on our site to help you do exactly that.

Because good s*xual health isn’t about fear. It’s about knowledge, confidence, and care.

How well do you really know your body? 🤔In our latest Shameless Care Podcast episode, Robert & Anna dive into 10 s*xual ...
09/02/2025

How well do you really know your body? 🤔

In our latest Shameless Care Podcast episode, Robert & Anna dive into 10 s*xual anatomy facts that aren’t what you think. From cl****is myths to p***s surprises, it’s funny, smart, and a little bit irreverent — just the way you like it.

🎧 Listen to Episode 28 now!

https://t.co/SUgE3Dcwwd

🔥 New Episode – Shameless Care Podcast 🔥What makes the difference between a one-night stand that feels fun and a one-nig...
08/31/2025

🔥 New Episode – Shameless Care Podcast 🔥

What makes the difference between a one-night stand that feels fun and a one-night stand that leaves someone full of regret? 🤔

Here’s a hint: the biggest predictor for women was simple… did she or**sm?
And the science shows: most of the time… she didn’t. 😢

We break down the research, the psychology, and the cultural myths around casual s*x in Episode 27: The Science of the One-Night Stand.

🎙️ No made-up stories. No guessing. Just peer-reviewed science explained in a way that actually makes sense.

👉 Listen now wherever you get podcasts

🔥 New Episode 🔥This isn’t about STIs—it’s about what really happens in a one-night stand. Who’s having more fun? Are wom...
08/29/2025

🔥 New Episode 🔥
This isn’t about STIs—it’s about what really happens in a one-night stand. Who’s having more fun? Are women more satisfied than men? What actually leads to regret the next morning?

Robert & Anna dive into the science of hookups, satisfaction, and the psychology behind “just one night.”

🎧 Listen now whereever you get podcasts or the link in comments

Menopause isn’t just about hot flashes—hormonal changes reshape the vaginal environment too.➡️ Lower estrogen = less gly...
08/27/2025

Menopause isn’t just about hot flashes—hormonal changes reshape the vaginal environment too.

➡️ Lower estrogen = less glycogen
➡️ Less glycogen = fewer lactobacillus (the “good” bacteria)
➡️ Fewer lactobacillus = higher vaginal pH

The result? Women in menopause are more susceptible to STIs like chlamydia.

🎙️ Want the full story? Listen to Episode 26 of the Shameless Care Podcast: “Vaginas Don’t Retire—Sex, STIs, and Menopause.”

Cracker Barrel’s had a decent decade. But investors don’t want decent — they want exponential growth at all costs  That’...
08/23/2025

Cracker Barrel’s had a decent decade. But investors don’t want decent — they want exponential growth at all costs

That’s why we don’t have investors.

We won’t compromise our service, our standards, or our soul. Take the VC-backed telemed startups:
• Subscriptions
• Hidden fees
• Dishonest pricing
• Awful customer service

One has 25% of its last 500 reviews at 1 star. If we had reviews like that, I’d shut the doors.

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