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Lesa Jeffries Careccia Independent BEMER Distributor, Saint James, NY (2025)

05/28/2025

Horses speak in ways the heart understands.

Not with words — but with presence.
A flick of the ear. The softness in their eyes.
The way they shift their weight or breathe deeper when they feel safe.
To know a horse is to listen without needing sound.

They feel everything.
The tension in your shoulders. The calm in your breath.
They read you — not just your actions, but your energy, your intent.

A horse never forgets.
They remember the gentle hand that offered trust…
and the careless one that shattered it.

They are not here to be broken.
Not tools for control. Not trophies for pride.
They are sentient, feeling, deeply intuitive beings — born wild, built to roam, yet willing to connect when met with respect.

You don’t earn a horse’s trust by force. You earn it by patience. By stillness. By showing up as someone worth believing in.

Stand quietly beside one, and you’ll know: There’s a soul behind that steady gaze. A story in every scar. A strength that’s matched only by their sensitivity.

To be chosen by a horse is a quiet kind of magic. It changes something in you — softens you, grounds you, teaches you presence.

So pay attention!!!
Not just to how they move, but to how they feel. Because when a horse trusts you, they give you something rare: Not obedience… but a piece of their spirit.

Treat it with care❤️🐴🐴🐴❤️

Author Unknown

04/16/2025

If You Give a Kid a Horse....

If you give a kid a horse, they'll ask for a saddle.
Once they have a saddle,
they'll need a good pair of boots.
When they get those boots, they'll want to climb in the saddle.
Once they're in the stirrups, they'll ask you how to hold the reins.
When they learn to hold the reins, they'll beg to trot.
Once they learn to trot,
they'll dream of galloping across open fields.
Galloping will make them feel free, and feeling free will make them brave.
Once they're brave,
they'll fall off... but don't worry, they'll get back on.
And when they get back on,
they'll ride with grit in their teeth and stars in their eyes.

They'll muck stalls without complaint, and wake up before the sun just to feed.
They'll brush that horse's coat, And let the rhythm calm their soul.

They'll learn patience, responsibility, and how to speak without words.
They'll whisper to that horse all their hopes, and that horse will listen like no one else can.
They'll build friendships in dusty arenas, and learn trust on winding trails.
They'll know the thrill of a blue ribbon, and the heartbreak of a goodbye.

If you give a kid a horse, you'll give them more than just a ride... you'll give them confidence, courage,
and a quiet kind of strength that'll stay with them for life.
Because if you give a kid a horse... you'll change them forever.

By: Michelle Knutson | Born In The Barn

04/13/2025

The Life I Chose…

I just want to put this right on out there since there's a few Facebook horse experts that have brushed a horse before.

A life with horses is different than boarding a horse at a barn.

A life with horses is different than volunteering at a stable.

A life with horses is different than going to a one hour lesson once or twice a week.

A life with horses is different than being a feeder or a barn manager at a facility

A life with horses is different than donating money to some backyard rescue who purchases horses from a kill pen in the name of "rescuing".

A life with horses is different than being a "trainer" at someone else's facility and getting a check.

Its different when you have your own horses in your backyard or down the road, you are solely responsible for the upkeep, vet bills, feed bill, hay bill, farrier bill. When you have your own mode of transportation to haul your horse and can put them in a trailer and haul them wherever you want too, it is different. When it is freezing outside and you know you have to get up and go out to feed YOUR animals, bc no one else will, it's different. When you are running a 103 degree fever, but your horse needs hay, and you have to go get it anyways, it's different. When it is you responsible for fixing a broken fence in the middle of a thunder storm because you are responsible for your horse, it's different. When you are buying multiple tack for multiple horses, it's different. When you are the one who has to work your problem horse, and "get it right", it's different. When you get a 4 am call from your neighbor saying your horse is out and you have to go in pajamas and wrangle all of your horses in the middle of the night, its different. When you are filthy, tired and sore and come in at night, but get no sleep because you can't remember if you turned the water off or not, and have to go back, it's different.

THiS is LIFE WITH HORSES. No amount of "formal education" or weekly hour lessons can prepare you for LIFE WITH HORSES.

It's lifestyle, not a hobby.

Many days, I wish I boarded my horse at a facility. It would be so nice to make a weekly visit and love on my animal, knowing someone else was feeding him. However, THAT would be different to me, and not the lifestyle I chose.

By: Alecia Davis Geddings

02/05/2025

♥️ I DID NOT KNOW... by Alissa Kelly

I did not know a horse could bring people into your life that end up meaning the most to you.
I did not know a horse could make the hardest days of your life bearable.
I did not know a horse could teach you to put others first.
I did not know a horse could remind you time and time again that your gut is always right.
I did not know a horse could break your heart.
I did not know a horse could pick you up when you have fallen apart.
I did not know a horse could teach you to dream again, after you thought it was not possible.
I did not know a horse could make you believe in yourself.
I did not know a horse could teach responsibility, work ethic, and dedication.
I did not know a horse could make you believe in something when no one else does.
I did not know a horse could make you learn to forgive and forget.
I did not know a horse could humble you faster than you can say humble.
I did not know a horse could make you a winner.
I did not know a horse could also teach you how to lose gracefully.
I did not know a horse could instill patience in you.
I did not know a horse could make you listen better.
I did not know a horse could give you their heart.
I did not know a horse could change your life.
I did not know a horse could do all these things...

Now I know❤️🐴🐴🐴❤️

01/10/2025

Make Your Dream a Reality… There is NO Dream too BIG or too small❤️❤️❤️

Sometimes you need to start chasing your dreams from where you are right now❤️

Let 2025 be that year…

The goals you set for yourself and the vision you have for your life are personal…

There is no standard of what it is supposed to look like or be…

So don’t let the opinions of others s***f out your fire 🔥

It’s ok to start late,

It’s ok to start over,

It’s ok to do what makes you happy,

It’s ok to be nervous,

It’s ok to be weird and different,

Feel the fear…. And do it anyway ❤️

You got this my friend….
Remember to Dig Deep and Be Brave ❤️

I have worked through so many life lessons with my horses by my side… and I know you will too ❤️

Happy New Year

11/25/2024

If you give a kid a pony...

If you give a kid a pony, they will need a saddle to go with it...

You’ll buy them the best saddle you can afford and then they will probably want a bridle and a saddle pad and some boots too…

Then they will probably spend hours begging you to go to the barn even though there are other things that you need to do. They will insist and their insistence will win.

And when they get their first show shirt, they’ll need a belt and spurs and a hat… And a TEAM, a Barn Family… And then, life as you know it is over.

No more lazy weekends or holidays for you, my friend. You will see more sunrises than you ever thought possible. Every spare minute will be spent hauling kids and dogs and boots and tack all over tarnation for hours to practice for their sport. The sport that will drive their very passion.

And your house will be a mess. And your car will be dirty. All because you gave a kid a pony…

Your weekends will be spent freezing to death or burning up as you hang out in the barn or arena. And their weekends will be spent gaining confidence and friends and learning new skills that will stick with them for the rest of their lives. They’ll be having fun and getting dirty… So dirty that you will be doing laundry in a whole new way - possibly at times involving a pressure washer.

And you’ll be there the day they learn to lope, the day they win their first ribbon, win their first class, get their first Circuit Championship… And you will be SO proud. The other parents will Congratulate you… But you know, it’s the hardwork and determination that they have invested into this pony that deserves the congratulations. As a team, they have done this…

And right before your eyes, your little one will be transformed from a small fry who be bopped along on that little pony with their little bum bouncing out of the saddle into a little horseman. And you will be proud… So proud.

When you give a kid a pony, you give them more than just a four legged furry friend. You give them a sport, a talent, hopes, dreams, and friends - friends who become family, a place to learn about life, room to grow as a person where they can push themselves to their very limits, and bravery, and courage, and memories… Oh the memories that will last a lifetime. And a LIFE. They will have ALL THESE THINGS simply because you gave a kid a pony…

Because you gave a kid a pony, you too will develop new lifelong friendships, developed solely from the same passion for the sport and the love of your barn family and team. You will root together. And cry together. And laugh together. All because you gave a kid a pony…

Then one day - years from now… They will be in their room and a picture of that pony will catch their eye. When they look at it they at it they will know instantly that when you gave that kid a pony you gave them a childhood that they will never forget. They will realize that everything YOU gave up along the way… was worth it.

All because you gave a kid a pony…

Anna Ingram Knowles

08/25/2024

Don’t Forget YOUR Why…

We unconditionally commit ourselves to this sport. We sacrifice enormous parts of our lives, and ourselves because we are so passionate about what we love.

But whilst we work, grind and graft to become the best riders and owners we believe our horses deserve, we sometimes forget the most important thing...we forget why.

Why we get up at 3am for a competitions, why we forgo new clothes so our horses can have special shoes, why we get up 2 hours earlier than “normal people” because stables don’t clean themselves, why we invest our hard earned money in trainers, lessons, farriers, saddles, entry fees, feed, supplements, etc., etc., etc.

We do it because once upon a time, a little kid fell in love with a horse and never looked back.

We do it because these animals bring us incomparable happiness.

They lift us up from the darkest of places and they give us a reason to get out of bed.

They push us, challenge us and shape us into better people by teaching us lessons we’d never learn anywhere else.

They unlock a whole part of us that we never knew existed. A stubborn, determined, strong willed part that refuses to give up.

They keep us grounded, reminding us that sometimes even though certain things may be out of our control, our own actions and emotions never are.

They make us laugh, when we don’t even feel like smiling. They are like warm soup for the soul, they fill our hearts without even trying.

So next time you're in the saddle, just take a moment. Breathe, smile, laugh... and don’t forget why.

Denise Johnson

07/25/2024

I ABSOLUTELY AGREE 👍❤️👍

The GREED of Competition: Why so many show horses are unsound and broken at an early age…

Unpopular opinion: Know when to back off.

Horses are not machines. Make sure you find a trainer that knows when to push, and when to back off.

Get a trainer that pays attention to your horse and their needs.

Some horses are such people pleasers, such hard workers, so trusting and willing, that they'd follow people into their own breaking point; and the wrong people will push them past it.

Make sure you find a trainer that recognizes the limits in your horse and doesn't try to experiment with their mental or physical soundness for faster results. Take time, Slow Down, and ENJOY the Ride!!!

Like it or not, sometimes days off, time away from the shows, and competition teach your horse and yourself more than constant daily pushing will.

Horses cannot speak, but the right trainers and owners can still hear them. Make sure that everyone is listening. It is your responsibility as an owner and as their caretaker!!! Take CARE of you horse… and your horse will take CARE of you👍❤️🐴🐴🐴❤️👍

- Good Secret Horsemanship

04/21/2024

Why BEMER is BETTER…

Customers are growing tired of businesses that don’t care about them. Running a business from the heart is now a necessity in today’s environment. I do this EVERYDAY❤️❤️❤️

I have found the heart in my business and have placed it at the center of everything that I do. I am intentional with my efforts, and can create a heart that encapsulates my organization’s core ideals.

Here are 4 tips to that I feel bring more heart into my business…

Get Clear

It’s time to get clear about my mission, vision and purpose. Without this clarity my staff, vendors, and customers will be lost. A good place to start is by writing a vision statement. This is not to be confused with a mission statement (which is also important). A vision statement is meant to inspire, and is actionable. It serves as the guiding light for my company. While my mission statement focuses on the purpose of my brand and has been created to convey why my business exists in the first place.

My Story

Stories give people a way to connect and they make life a little more interesting. My company story builds connections and trust with both existing customers and prospects. It’s not just a tagline, logo or color. It’s the complete picture of what I am and what makes me unique. I ask myself, ‘What is my story?’ ‘What problems do I help to solve?’ ‘Is its purpose meaningful and why should anyone care?’ A good story is then shared and re-told by others.

Build Community

Community building is the cornerstone of my growth strategy. It’s a way to build my market without spending a fortune on advertising and marketing. After defining my mission, vision and purpose, I find the right way to connect with my community and make it valuable. For example, I have chosen the right platform for my audience (i.e. social media groups, website forums, etc).

Customer Relationships

I start having meaningful conversations and interactions with my customers. I truly take the time to listen. A few ways I do this is to personalize each interaction, understand my clients issues, wants, and needs. I find out which support channels my customers prefer to use and encourage feedback. I go above and beyond the products and services that I offer and exceed my clients expectations. I believe that people are much more likely to buy from companies who have taken the time to listen, and then provided real value to them.

If you’re looking to cultivate deeper customer relationships, bring EXCELLENT customer service to your business… I have and that is why my clients are Bemer Believers👍❤️🐴🐴🐴❤️👍e

04/14/2024

Spring is in the Air…

Show Season is Near…

Off to Bemer Horses EVERYWHERE!!!

Many of my Long Island clients are back from a SUCCESSFUL Winter Circuit in Florida that I will be seeing tomorrow 🎉❤️🎉

I can’t wait to hear about ALL of your ADVENTURES, and meet a few new show partners and teams!!!

See EVERYONE Bright and Early tomorrow👍❤️🐴🐴🐴❤️👍

03/01/2024

“THE DREAM THAT MANY WILL NOT UNDERSTAND…

My horses are my personal dream.
One day when I am very old and when I can not walk anymore, it will be in my heart as a trophy of my memories.
I met people who taught me something and have the same spirit and I met others that I'm glad I forgot.
I got wet,
I felt cold,
And I felt warm;
I was afraid,
I fell,
And I stood up.
I even hurt myself, I have been broken,
But also, I laughed out loud inside.
I spoke a thousand times with myself.
I sang and shouted with joy like a madman,
And yes ... sometimes I cried.
I have seen wonderful places and lived unforgettable experiences.
I climbed on horses that made me feel brave and excited...and then there were ones that terrified me......
I stopped a thousand times to see a landscape.
I spoke with perfect strangers, and I forgot people I see every day.
I went out with my demons inside and returned home with a feeling of absolute peace in my heart.
I always thought how dangerous it is, knowing that the meaning of courage is to advance even feeling fear.
Every time I go out to my horses I think about how wonderful they are.
I stopped talking about it to those who do not understand, and I learned to communicate with other riders.
I have met some amazing people I now call friends because of my horses.
I spent money that I did not have, giving up many things, but all these things are not worth even one special moment with my horse.
They are not a means of transport or a piece of iron with wheels, they are the lost part of my soul and my spirit.
And when someone says to me: "You have to sell the horses and you have to be more sensible", ... I do not answer. I just swing my head and smile.
A horse..... only the person who loves them understands it.
May God bless my friends and all their horses...
And the adventure continues...”

Author Unknown

02/29/2024

Get Bemer Better…

I think we can all agree that when we think about riding a horse, especially our own horse, we think about doing the “fun” stuff. We want to go out and do the thing that gives us joy like jumping, galloping, doing flying changes, or whatever “fun” thing that excites us. None of us want to go and do the slow, methodical building of the musculature to create the foundation so the horse doesn’t get injured doing the fun stuff…so most people don’t.

THEN the horse gets hurt…he strains a muscle. He compensates. But he can do the fun stuff so you don’t change your plan.

Then his behavior changes. Maybe he’s evading contact. So you change the bit. He’s running away. You add a running martingale.

He’s not head bobbing lame. So you just keep “making him do it”.

And then the tipping point happens. He either blows his brain or he blows something in his body and now he’s lame. Head bobbing. A tendon? A ligament?

An injury because he was trying to tell you that he was never properly conditioned for the fun stuff. He used up his ability to compensate and now he’s broken.

SO MAYBE NOW you step back and consider your options.

1) stop doing the fun stuff with this horse for now (or ever)

2) get him fixed as quickly as possible so you can go back to doing the fun stuff. Injections? NSAIDs? (Omg not time off or backing down the work)

3) stop what you’re doing and rebuild your horse from the foundation. Look at his muscling and figure out what it’s telling you. Then slowly learn how to make a solid foundation.

NOBODY wants to do 3. It’s not as fun as doing the fun stuff.

BUT it is necessary if you want to have a horse that’s riding sound doing the fun stuff into his senior years.

Or you can go get another horse and start over…but I promise you that the new horse will break down too because you won’t put the time in to build the foundation.

Why? It’s human nature, but a true horsemen knows you must do the fundamentals so you can excel at the fun stuff.

By the way this applies to humans. You ride but do you address your own body? Do you strengthen it? Stretch it? Pay attention to proper form?

Your imbalances will hurt your horse over time. Know better, be better, do better… Get Bemer Better👍❤️🐴🐴🐴❤️👍

Athena Haresign

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