08/10/2021
I submitted the first full draft of my next book to the editor on Friday. Thereâs a lot in this one. This is a memoir about learning to live with my anxiety and obsessive compulsive disorder titled âHappily Ever Anxious.â It covers my childhood, my troubled relationship with my parents, leaving home at 14, my fathers addiction to opioids and eventual death from drug addiction, falling in love with Mel, and learning that the best gift I could give my wife and children is doing the hard work of managing my mental illness in a healthy way (through proper use of medication, therapy, and lifestyle changes) so that there is enough of me available to be a loving father and husband.
Donât get me wrong, itâs got some really funny parts, but as you can tell from the above description, some of it I just couldnât make funny. And I think thatâs okay, because mental illness is a serious and heartfelt topic that needs to be discussed openly, particularly by men.
I must admit though, writing this has been very emotionally draining. But I also learned a lot about myself, and my childhood, and most importantly I learned to accept that my parents were victims of a time and place, and that really helped me find forgiveness.
Anyway, my hope with this book is that those with mental illness will find their own healthy acceptance, and those without mental illness will gain empathy and understanding.
It should become available sometime in 2022. I do hope you all absolutely love it.