Mai Holistic Healing LLC (2025)

21/08/2025

𝐃𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐚 𝐭𝐲𝐩𝐞 𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠?

Sometimes we don’t realize it until we step back and look at our relationships, friendships, or even the jobs we’ve taken. Patterns show up because they’re familiar, not always because they’re healthy.

For example, you might keep attracting partners who are emotionally unavailable. You tell yourself this one is different, but the cycle of chasing love that feels just out of reach repeats.

Or maybe you keep choosing friends who lean on you heavily but disappear when you need support. You end up being the giver every time.

It can even show up in work. You might keep picking roles where you overextend yourself, only to feel undervalued or burned out later.

𝐏𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐬. They repeat until we recognize them and make a conscious choice to break them. It’s not about blaming yourself, but about asking: 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒎𝒆 𝒇𝒆𝒆𝒍𝒔 𝒔𝒂𝒇𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒚𝒑𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒅𝒚𝒏𝒂𝒎𝒊𝒄? 𝑨𝒏𝒅 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒘𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒊𝒕 𝒍𝒐𝒐𝒌 𝒍𝒊𝒌𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒔𝒆 𝒅𝒊𝒇𝒇𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒍𝒚 𝒏𝒆𝒙𝒕 𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆?

Awareness is the first step. Change comes when you decide the old pattern doesn’t match who you’re becoming anymore.

20/08/2025

This past weekend I spent time with my 6-month-old niece. She stayed the night with me, and it reminded me how much work it is to care for little ones! They constantly need to be watched and entertained.

As a single mom, I honestly don’t know how I did it when my daughter was that age. I loved every moment with my niece, but I couldn’t really do anything else. When she napped, I napped too!

It made me realize how exhausting it is to always try to make someone else happy. And that same pattern can show up in relationships when we expect our partner to keep us entertained or to always make us happy. It creates pressure and imbalance.

𝑰𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒐𝒓 𝒅𝒆𝒑𝒆𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒚?

At the end of the day, happiness is our own responsibility. That might look like picking up a hobby, connecting with different groups of friends, exploring new interests, or learning something new just for yourself and then share that joy with each other. The more you can fill your own cup, the more you’ll have to bring into your relationship.

For every parent who’s always present and giving, don’t forget to refill your own cup with some self-care, too!

14/08/2025

𝐈𝐟 𝐦𝐲 𝐣𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐞𝐝 𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐲 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞, 𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐬𝐧’𝐭.

I got here because my path was hard. It tested me, broke me, and forced me to grow. That is why I understand what it feels like to struggle and why I help others.

I have made mistakes.
I have misunderstood messages.
I have followed guidance I should not have.

At the time, some of those choices felt like failures or signs that I was not ready. They made me question if I was even on the right path. 𝐼 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑛𝑒𝑑 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑦 𝑤𝑒𝑟𝑒 𝑎𝑙𝑙 𝑙𝑒𝑠𝑠𝑜𝑛𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑡𝑎𝑢𝑔ℎ𝑡 𝑚𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑏𝑒 𝑚𝑜𝑟𝑒 𝑐𝑎𝑟𝑒𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑎𝑤𝑎𝑟𝑒.

Every “wrong” turn and detour shaped me. They taught me to slow down, to ask questions, to listen, and to trust myself. 𝐼 𝑑𝑖𝑑 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑗𝑢𝑠𝑡 𝑤𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑢𝑝 𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑑𝑎𝑦 𝑘𝑛𝑜𝑤𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑤ℎ𝑜 𝐼 𝑎𝑚 𝑜𝑟 𝑔𝑜𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜 𝑏𝑒𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑒. I’m still becoming. I had to get lost, wander, and sometimes make the same mistake more than once before I could figure it out.

𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐡 𝐦𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐧𝐨𝐰. You might wonder if you are even on the right one. Those twists and turns are not proof that you are lost or failed. They are part of the process that turns 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒇𝒖𝒔𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 and 𝒅𝒐𝒖𝒃𝒕 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒓𝒖𝒔𝒕.

You do not decide who you are all at once. No one path is easier than the other. You find yourself and your path through the experiences that shape you.

14/08/2025

𝐒𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐥𝐞 𝐯𝐬. 𝐓𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐧: 𝐈𝐬 𝐎𝐧𝐞 𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐁𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫?

I enjoy the freedom to cook when I want, eat what I want, and only clean up after myself and my daughter. There's a quiet simplicity to this life. I don’t have to navigate anyone else's preferences or habits. It’s just us, and that feels manageable… peaceful even.

At my father’s funeral, an aunty told me, “𝑃ℎ𝑦𝑠𝑖𝑐𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑦 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑐𝑎𝑛 𝑑𝑜 𝑎𝑛𝑦𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔. 𝐵𝑢𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑒 ℎ𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑡 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑎𝑙𝑤𝑎𝑦𝑠 𝑦𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑛 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒.“ We talked about how both states, single and partnered, have their pros and cons. But we agreed: 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐥𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐬𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐮𝐧𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐝, 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐟𝐮𝐥, 𝐨𝐫 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐮𝐧𝐚𝐯𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 due to the fears of being alone.

Too often in partnerships, women end up carrying more of the mental, emotional, and physical load, along with the financial responsibility, too. And if the relationship lacks balance, it becomes less of a partnership and more of a struggle.

𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐛𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐮𝐥 when shared with the right person. Being single may offer more control, freedom, and emotional safety, but 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐬.

𝐀𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐲, 𝐈 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫. 𝐿𝑜𝑣𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓 𝑤ℎ𝑒𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑟 𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑙𝑒 𝑜𝑟 𝑝𝑎𝑟𝑡𝑛𝑒𝑟𝑒𝑑 𝑖𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑏𝑒𝑠𝑡 𝑝𝑎𝑟𝑡𝑛𝑒𝑟𝑠ℎ𝑖𝑝 𝑜𝑓 𝑎𝑙𝑙. 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐞𝐥𝐬𝐞 𝐟𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐬 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 ❤️

13/08/2025

You may be going through a time where you feel unsupported or weighed down by circumstances that are out of your control. It could feel like you’re doing things alone or facing a challenge that’s quietly draining your energy. Even if help isn’t immediately visible, you’re not as isolated as you might think. There is support available, but it may require a shift in perspective or a willingness to ask for it.

Right now, steady effort matters more than speed. You’re being called to stay grounded, follow through on your responsibilities, and trust in slow, consistent progress. It’s not flashy, but it’s effective. This is a time to rely on your discipline and commitment rather than looking for shortcuts or quick fixes.

You might be feeling unsure or facing a choice that seems risky. Take time to think things through, but also ask yourself if fear is the only thing holding you back. Avoid impulsive choices. Don’t rush into something, but don’t let fear keep you stuck either.

Something is about to change, and it could happen fast. You won’t have a lot of time to get ready, so now’s the moment to prepare. Stay focused, keep going at your own pace, and know that what you’ve been working on will soon start to pay off.

12/08/2025

𝐁𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐠𝐢𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐞𝐱𝐞𝐦𝐩𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬. 𝐇𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐠𝐢𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐝.

Most people have not personally experienced either or both, but 𝐼 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒, and there is a big difference. Before my own awakening, I did not believe in any of this. I thought psychic gifts, spiritual sensitivity, or seeing beyond the physical were things other people 𝑐𝑙𝑎𝑖𝑚𝑒𝑑 to have, not something you could prove to yourself.

I learned that you can have strong spiritual gifts and still struggle with depression, anxiety, or other mental health challenges. One does not 𝑐𝑎𝑛𝑐𝑒𝑙 𝑜𝑢𝑡 the other. Spiritual gifts can sometimes feel like a mental health crisis in the beginning, especially when they awaken suddenly. Mental illness can make it harder to trust your gifts or filter what you receive, which is why grounding, self-awareness, and professional mental health support are so important.

Not every vision, dream, or voice is a gift. Sometimes it is a symptom of a mental health condition and needs to be treated as such. Having a gift does not make you 𝑖𝑚𝑚𝑢𝑛𝑒 to human struggles. You still need boundaries, rest, and emotional regulation. Mental illness is not a sign of spiritual weakness either. It is part of the human experience, and healing can be both a medical and spiritual journey.

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐤𝐞𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝒅𝒊𝒔𝒄𝒆𝒓𝒏𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕. Learn to recognize when you are receiving genuine spiritual insight and when your mind is telling you it needs care. For me, I knew it was not all in my head because how else would I know things about someone I had never met? That was the biggest indicator that I was not crazy or imagining things.

Both deserve respect. Both can exist in the same person. And both require you to take yourself seriously enough to get the right kind of help.

12/08/2025

The need to always be right usually isn’t just about wanting to win an argument. 𝐼𝑡 𝑜𝑓𝑡𝑒𝑛 𝑟𝑢𝑛𝑠 𝑑𝑒𝑒𝑝𝑒𝑟.

For some, being right feels like safety. Maybe growing up, being wrong meant being punished, shamed, or made to feel small. So now, being right feels like protection. It becomes a way to avoid rejection or failure.

Sometimes it’s tied to identity. If your self-worth was built on being the 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐨𝐧𝐞, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐩𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐡𝐚𝐝 𝐢𝐭 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫, then being wrong might feel like losing a piece of who you are. So you fight harder to protect that image, even when it causes more harm than good.

And sometimes, it’s simply about not feeling heard. If you spent years being dismissed or overlooked, the need to be right can become a way to finally feel seen. But the downside is it can also push people away and stop you from having real, healthy connection.

Most of the time it’s not about being right. 𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐨𝐝.

This is your reminder to look at what’s driving your need to be right and to stop wasting energy on people who refuse to listen or have already decided who you are. If they’d rather jump to conclusions than hear you out, that’s not your problem to fix.

𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲 and spend it on the people who actually care.

11/08/2025

𝐈𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐮𝐫𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭. Sometimes it is watching everyone pretend nothing happened.

When we see a family member being treated unfairly (or ourselves), it is natural to wonder why no one says anything. I have asked myself that question many times.

I used to think silence meant people did not care or that they only wanted to keep the peace. Over time I learned it is not always that simple.

➡️ 𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐝𝐨 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐤 𝐮𝐩 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐬𝐞.
➡️ 𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐟𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐭.
➡️ 𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐮𝐩 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐬.

I know because I have been there. I stayed quiet, not because I did not care, but because I did not know how.

Now I am learning to find my voice not just for myself but for others. I am also learning that sometimes the best choice is to step away from spaces that choose comfort over honesty, because 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐛𝐫𝐨𝐤𝐞𝐧 nor does it hold people 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 for their actions.

𝐈𝐭 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐮𝐫𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐡𝐮𝐫𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠.

11/08/2025

Life moves in cycles. Sometimes you are in a season where 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐬 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐚𝐬𝐭. You are growing, manifesting, and things feel like they are falling into place one after another.

Other times you are in a season of slowing down. It might feel like you have lost momentum or that you are not doing as well, but 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐞. You are just 𝑎𝑑𝑗𝑢𝑠𝑡𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑔𝑟𝑜𝑤𝑡ℎ 𝑦𝑜𝑢 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑎𝑙𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑑𝑦 𝑚𝑎𝑑𝑒.

It is like losing weight. At first, the pounds may drop quickly. Then your body hits a plateau. That pause is not a failure. It is your body adjusting to the changes, building strength, and preparing for the next stage of progress. Without that adjustment period, your results would not last.

This has been what I have noticed every time I take a break from my spiritual work and start again. I notice changes I did not see before because 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐞. Getting back to work this past weekend made those changes clear and what I need to adjust to make lasting changes.

✨𝐁𝐨𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐣𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲.✨

08/08/2025

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐢𝐭 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐬𝐚𝐲, “𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐟𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐢𝐟 𝐢𝐭’𝐬 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞“?

I used to think it meant everything good would just come together effortlessly. But over time, I’ve learned that the moments that truly fall into place aren’t always the ones we think we need to feel happy, fulfilled, or whole. In fact, they rarely look the way we expected.

They’re often serendipitous, showing up unexpectedly when something good or meaningful happens by chance, without planning. Maybe you had a passing thought or a feeling, but you didn’t know what. 𝑇ℎ𝑎𝑡’𝑠 𝑎𝑙𝑠𝑜 𝑣𝑒𝑟𝑦 𝑝𝑜𝑠𝑠𝑖𝑏𝑙𝑒.

These are the moments that 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑙𝑠 like they were meant to be. The timing, the conversation, the opportunity…it all clicks in a way that just makes sense.

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈’𝐯𝐞 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐟𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐢𝐭’𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐧𝐝. 𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐚 𝐛𝐞𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠. It’s what you do next that matters. 𝐷𝑜 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑙𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑛? 𝐷𝑜 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑝𝑎𝑢𝑠𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑟𝑒𝑐𝑒𝑖𝑣𝑒? 𝐷𝑜 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑡𝑟𝑢𝑠𝑡? 𝐷𝑜 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑡𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑎𝑐𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛?

Maybe your prayer was answered. Maybe it was time for you to receive hope to keep going. Maybe it’s the start of something incredible. Or maybe it’s the growth that only comes from walking through it.

Falling into place doesn’t mean it will be easy or final. It doesn’t always come with clarity either. Some things fall into place and still leave you with questions. Sometimes you won’t realize what that moment meant until much later.

𝑊ℎ𝑎𝑡𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑜𝑛…

𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫. It was about 𝑤ℎ𝑜 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑏𝑒𝑐𝑎𝑚𝑒 through the process, not the outcome.

That serendipitous moment, fate, destiny, whatever you want to call it, it happened because something in you was ready.

Ready to help you with the next chapter of your story to begin. Your evolution.

07/08/2025

In spiritual spaces, you’ll sometimes meet people who talk 𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 instead of 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒚𝒐𝒖.

They act like they’re above it all, like they’ve already been through everything you’re experiencing and moved past it decades ago. They make it seem like you’re not really connected to the true source, but they are.

Rather than uplift, they condescend, criticizing others for their beliefs and way while trying to prove how much more they know. Their advice feels more like an insult than guidance. And when challenged, they get defensive, quick to point out what’s wrong with you.

What looks like confidence or wisdom is often just insecurity and unhealed wounds in disguise. This isn’t spiritual maturity, just ego trying to sound enlightened.

True spiritual leadership shouldn’t insult, compete, or perform. It should teach, encourage, and leave space for others to grow. So if you walk away from a conversation feeling small or confused, trust your gut. You’re not “less evolved.” You’re just dealing with someone who still needs to feel bigger to feel worthy.

It’s like watching a child show off what they can do, eager to be seen even if no one’s asking. The difference is, children do it with innocence. When adults carry that same energy into spiritual spaces, it becomes performance, not connection.

These people may have spent years trying to prove themselves in spiritual circles. Maybe they were dismissed, ignored, rejected or invalidated early on. Instead of healing those wounds, they’ve learned to protect themselves by acting as if they’re above everyone else.

✨𝐋𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐛𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐚𝐫𝐞. You don’t need to match that energy. Let your path speak for itself.

Mai Holistic Healing LLC

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