Kimberley Wheeler

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Kimberley Wheeler

Welcome to my page! I'm a Peer Support Specialist with Psychology credits speaking my TRUTH about my life's journey through trauma events.

I am an ostomate and breast cancer survivor, BII survivor, and raising autism. Happily married to my best friend.

07/17/2025

Happy Thursday Y'all 😘🤗 I have been reading the Myth of Normal trauma, illness & healing in a toxic culture by Doctor Gabor Mate. He is my favorite trauma author.......

He talks about Breast cancer and the Anger gene showing huge connections to breast cancer and the reason women are dying from it....... So stop pi***ng women off and start loving us!!!!! You are either healing us or are part of our anger by telling us our anger is not valid or telling us to shut down and bottle up our anger causing us to lose our breasts. Wow the healing that I'm doing this week..... I'm Angry and I refuse to keep quiet killing myself for anyone ever again..... Women please know that you are very much loved and do not deserve to bottle up your Anger!!!!! Please reach out for support!!!! Ask me how. Peace and Love 😘🤗 Sincerely, A Breast cancer survivor and Psychology student.....

03/24/2025

I blew my GPA out of the water. Back on top now...... This spring term I will be taking off to finish one of my writing projects and to go tour other universities. Whoop whoop I get to go back to OSU. I am so proud of everything that I have been through to get to this point in my life. I'm so excited to see my future!!!..... Happy day!!! I had a meeting with my advisor today. And my favorite places to study at on college campus. I love watching the birds and squirrels..... Peace and Love 😘🤗🤞🤞🙏🙏🧠🧠🎓🎓

02/18/2025

Happy Tuesday y'all 😘🤗 I haven't posted a topless picture since I picked up my glasses 🤓. Why? Because I'm feeling self-conscious now that I can see my body better. It brings up a lot of emotions from past trauma. Plus seeing what is going on in the world all of the abuse. People being discriminate against for being them. For looking like them. For being ignorant not educating themselves. Just because I have no breasts does not make me any less of a woman!!!! I am all women! I have the right to not please others with having some kind of breasts to fit your minds. I am Authentic and that makes me real and human. I am Beautiful even though sometimes I can't see that! Giving myself Grace for all of the trauma I have survived. So who the f**k cares what you look like. Who says you aren't beautiful? They don't matter! You matter!! Peace and Love 😘🤗🙏🙏🤓🤓🤞🤞🧠🧠🎓🎓😇😇

12/12/2024

Happy December 12th, 18 years later! My husband has shared the last 24 years of life with me. He has survived my Ostomy life, breast cancer life, BII

08/23/2024

Happy Wednesday evening Y'all 😘🤗 I have to say this because my heart is heavy with everything that I have been learning since my son's autism diagnosis. The one thing that still kills me Everytime I hear about families giving up on their child with Autism and never ever going to visit them. 😞😞😞😞 Since my son's diagnosis I have never ever wanted to give up on him never a thought went through my mind. And look at me I have severe PTSD depression and anxiety which all can be abusive to others. I'm doing it taking care of him and through me dying because of chemotherapy breast cancer. I did it I got through it!!.... Families do not realize that neglecting their child in any way can be traumatic for that child causing him/her PTSD. I know what neglecting is like, my parents neglected me and I have PTSD because of the abuse I endured as a child. If I could go around and teach families that their child needs love more than neglect I would because no child should be hurt that way or any way. GOD thank you to all the people who support AUTISM!!!.... I love my child more than my own life I could never give up on him. He is the most beautiful person ever. Thank you GOD for me loving my son. AUTISM deserves LOVE!!! PEACE and LOVE 😘🤗

07/24/2024

Happy Wednesday Y'all 😘🤗. It's only been 4 years since I explanted my implants because they were making me ill physically and mentally. I traded my real authentic breasts for fake pancakes that were slowly killing me. It's still strange to be I still feel like I'm missing body parts which I am but not. I'm so much more healthier physically and mentally without fake breasts taking away my authenticity making me ill. Peace and Love 😘🤗

06/27/2024

Happy Thursday Y'all 😘🤗 Meeting with TRIO advisor check in and see how I am doing after my panic attack. This is definitely a safe place to have one. The staff supported me in ways I never thought possible. Teaching me how to show empathy and love for another who has panc attacks making them feel safe. I am Blessed for a supportive loving team. Thank you for all the support and love. You can't prevent a panic attack they happen anytime and anywhere. You are not a bad person for your mind being frightened. You endured trauma! Give yourself Grace that's how I am getting through this. Peace and Love 😘😘🤗🤗🎓🎓🧠🧠

06/19/2024

Happy Wednesday Y'all 😘🤗. I refuse to give up on my college dreams because of my past trauma getting in the way. I'm going to learn and talk about it. The way to heal the mind is talking about it teaching it to others and feeling your emotions. It should always be safe for another to talk about their life. in the right place that makes you feel safe and not unsafe. We live in a time era where we really do not communicate with respect to other people's opinions. We communicate to be right, to take our emotions out on others instead of coming to an agreement or believing that it really is ok for one to have their own beliefs. Know one should be punished, disgraced, discriminate, judged or criticize for it. That's not how communication works. I will always be considerate of your feelings and beliefs. Never assume, judge or criticize you because I do know what it's like. Let's learn, grow up, and be respectful of people's beliefs. Go look within to find peace of mind. Peace and Love 😘🤗🧠🧠

06/10/2024

Happy Monday Y'all 😘🤗 I have lived in survival mode my whole life.... Going to college shouldn't be that way! College should feel SAFE for ALL! It's sad when freedom of speech turns into abuse. It's sad when freedom of speech terrifies another to fight/freeze response. FREEDOM of SPEECH should not be abusive in any way. It's not ok to make another fight for Survival Mode. You deserve to be with people who are mindful of there words and behaviors. Remember you can't prevent panic attacks. Panic attacks are telling you that boundaries need to be put up. Panic attacks are telling you that you are allergic to lies. Panic attacks are telling you that you have had enough abuse! Panic attacks are telling you the energy around you is not safe. It's not fun experiencing the fighting/freeze response is SCARY as HELL!.... What I'm learning is not to repeat his words to others because I know how it feels to panic. I know what it's like to live in hell. I know what it's like to feel unsafe. I know what it feels like to panic. I know what it's like to fight and stop in freeze mode. I am authentic and won't judge or criticize you because I get it..... Keep growing into the beautiful soul, spiritual human being that you are girl!! I love myself! I appreciate myself! I thank myself! Now it's time to finish editing my final essay so I can pass this class. Peace and Love 😘🤗

06/04/2024

Happy Happy PTSD Awareness Month! I was diagnosed with PTSD a few years ago. That explained my behaviors, why I didn't talk normal and I was angry all the time. I'm the escape goat so I get treated like it. I acted out on the flashbacks of my past abusing me physically and mentally. Voices from them torturing me over and over again. But with the help of meditation and cannabis I was able to overcome that. I haven't had flashbacks of abusive memories in a while...... I'm too excited about my future to be sad about my past. I heal so I don't bleed on others because I know what it's like for others to take their behaviors and emotions out on me. I know what it's like to take my emotions and behaviors out on others. Not fun!!!..... Peace and Love 😘🤗

05/31/2024

Happy Friday Y'all 😘🤗. Any out there that has lived on college campus with an ? Can you share with me your experiences please? 🙏 I would like to know what it's like living on a college campus with an Thank you so kindly!😁 Peace and Love 😘🤗

05/30/2024

Happy Thursday Y'all 😘🤗. I love talking about my future in college.... And I love being able to sit here and study. Peace and Love 😘🤗 at college

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