Loveworkrelationships

01/02/2026

Start the New Year on the same page. Your relationship will thank you all year long. https://www.thesandsoftime.net/relationship-bootcamp/

09/24/2025

Come to the campus of beautiful Smith College, October 11th and 12th to reset and restore your relationship. Remind yourself or the best within yourself and your partner in the company of other good people doing the same. https://www.thesandsoftime.net/relationship-bootcamp/
This is the Essential Relational Skills Boot Camp workshop developed by Terry Real that I have run over the past five years. All variations of ages, marital statuses, sexual orientations welcomed. Dare to change things up and move towards greater intimacy.

09/10/2025

Three Boot Camps -- in Salt Lake City, Northampton, Mass., and New York City -- offer you a chance to get better at the very thing that's most important to your lasting happiness. Kristy's workshop in Salt Lake City Sept. 27th/28th; mine is on the campus of Smith College on October 11th/12th, and our Boot Camp in New York City (presenting together) is October 25th/26th.

09/10/2025

REBOOT! in 2026!

For those who have completed a Boot Camp with Jerry & Kristy (or either one of them, solo).

Join Jerry for a weekend workshop in-person in Warwick, NY called REBOOT!, offered the weekend of Saturday, Feb 21 & Sunday, Feb 22, 2026 at Mountain Lake Park in Warwick, NY.

In recognition of the hard work it is to reliably apply the principles and practices of the Boot Camp skills you’ve already learned (some of you as far back as 5 years ago!) couples will go through a refresh/reminder of the basics and then work together looking at the specific obstacles to intimacy that arise despite the training.

There will be plenty of room for individualized couples’ progress as the workshop will be limited to the first 12 couples to register.

Read More: https://www.thesandsoftime.net/relationship-bootcamp/reboot/

09/10/2025

Fall into Autumn!! Here are a couple of dates and new Relationship Boot Camps that you might want to be aware of.

Kristy is running a Boot Camp in Salt Lake City on the weekend of September 27 & 28, 2025.

Jerry is running one in Northampton, Massachusetts on the weekend of October 11 & 12, 2025.

Kristy & Jerry are running a NYC Boot Camp together the weekend of October 25 & 26, 2025.

Reda More: https://loveworkrelationships.com/how-we-help/relationship-boot-camp/

07/20/2025

Some summer reflections: I was thinking about the gift, and challenge, of second marriages. Called "the victory of hope over experience" by some, second marriages bring the opportunity for you to change things up in a big way. But (for me, anyway), this required re-learning everything I thought I knew about how relationships work best. Wisdom isn't automatic (even after failure). Consider coming to an Essential Relational Skill Boot Camp Weekend (one in a few weeks in Warwick, NY, one in Northampton, MA in October and one in NYC also in October). https://www.thesandsoftime.net/relationship-bootcamp/

07/16/2025

Get on the same page once again and let intimacy flourish. Warwick, NY, August 9th/10th.

05/17/2025

I'm delighted to be offering this in my hometown this summer, in the beautiful Mountain Lake Park setting. It'll be like summer camp, only with intimate relationships.

05/05/2025

In between desperate attempts to recover old memories of what a tennis forehand felt like in, oh, 1970, I had a revelation about the Relational Skills Boot Camp work I've been doing/co-leading.
I was able to capture it here: https://loveworkrelationships.com/the-boot-camps-tennis/
I hope you enjoy it.

Tennis was a joy in my life when I was a teenager and I hadn’t really played it for over 50 years. To call me “rusty” would be overly-generous.

04/19/2025

Have you ever tried (or believed you could) effectively control your partner? Kristy & Jerry take this on and have an EPIC fake-fight about the way the other person loads the dishwasher. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1663906/episodes/17005040-controlling-your-partner.mp3?download=true

03/31/2025

Now more than ever. Love better. Essential relational skills in a weekend, in NYC, in-person. More info: https://www.thesandsoftime.net/relationship-bootcamp/

03/18/2025

Love better. Come learn and practice skills few of us witnessed in our families of origin. A live weekend workshop in NYC, for couples and inviduals, ages 27-81.