09/26/2025
If you feel exhausted, burned out, depleted, overextended, depressed, anxious, resentful, angry, or unhappy in any of your relationships or roles in life, you may need healthier boundaries. If you daydream about dropping everything and disappearing, you feel like you have no time for yourself, or you avoid certain people and situations rather than addressing them directly, you may need healthier boundaries. As a Salt Lake City therapist and an Utah therapist, I have found that any of these feelings and experiences may be an indication that your boundaries that are too porous.
On the other hand, if you tend to build emotional walls to keep other people out emotionally and at a distance from you, you may need healthier boundaries because emotional walls and keeping others at a distance may be an indication that your boundaries are too rigid.
Learn more in this article which I just updated this week:
https://christykobe.com/blog-slc-therapist/boundaries
If you feel exhausted, burned out, depleted, overextended, depressed, anxious, resentful, angry, or unhappy in any of your relationships or roles in life, you may need healthier boundaries. Why do I need boundaries? What are boundaries? How do I know if I need healthier boundaries? When setting a