
07/17/2025
Forgiveness changed everything for us.
Jake and I have been through it all... addiction, betrayal, heartbreak, toxic patterns we thought we’d never break.
There was a time when I couldn’t even say his name without feeling triggered.
But here’s what most people don’t realize…
Forgiveness isn’t about saying what happened was okay.
It’s not about forgetting.
It’s not even about the other person.
Forgiveness is about choosing you.
Your peace.
Your future.
Your freedom.
When I chose to forgive Jake, and myself, it didn’t happen overnight. But it cracked the door open. And through that door came healing, honesty, and a love that’s built on truth instead of trauma.
Today, Jake is 12 years sober. I’ve done my own deep healing around alcohol, shame, and the ways I used to run from myself. We’re raising two miracle babies and building a life that’s rooted in purpose and truth.
But none of that would’ve been possible without forgiveness.
If you’re holding on to anger or hurt, I see you.
I know how heavy it is.
And I also know how free you’ll feel when you decide to let it go.
You don’t have to tell them.
You don’t have to excuse them.
You just have to decide you're done carrying it.
You get to write a new story.
So did we.
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