08/12/2025
“There’s a difference between standing up for yourself, setting boundaries where needed and having confidence that drives.. than getting defensive because the other person speaks truth and you sit too high amongst your ego to take accountability, enforcing control and being so arrogant actually to the point that you’re delusional.
I heard someone say once.. if the boundaries I’m setting are making you uncomfortable, then GOOD that means they are working!
The boundaries I set are supposed to make you uncomfortable because it requires you to fix or heal something that you once otherwise didn’t think was a problem.
Healing and fixing requires change.. change is growth, growth is abundance!
I like to think of it like when you break a bone.. to heal or fix your bone you most times have to pop it back in place before the doctors then put you in a cast!
That’s what healing is.. after you’ve been broken, it still hurts to be put back together and you need support through it all!
That’s the purpose of relationship.
In Latin the root word “relation” means “to bring or carry back.” And in Latin the root word “ship” means “one’s vessel.”
Whether family, friends or lover.. relationships are our part of a higher purpose to “bring each other back to one’s vessel!”
But first before we can do that we must fix or heal the parts of ourselves that don’t belong in our most highest and truest vessel.
The whole purpose of this rat race in life.. is to grow in relationship with each other so that we can ultimately reach “one true vessel” which is “God,” “Yeshua,” “Buda” or even “The universe.”
Whatever you like to call it.. it’s union of each other, all in one’s self!
So honestly what are you doing if you’re not trying to grow on your own, or grow in your relationship?
Your partner is going to challenge your ego, take away your control and make you question your confidence.. because they are either subconsciously or consciously doing this on purpose for your growth and for your union in partnership!
So next time you are fighting or arguing with your partner.. take a step back, sit down and try listening first to all they have to say without interrupting, and then ask yourself if what they are saying is true, and if it’s not true try humbling yourself or if it is true again try humbling yourself!
Thanks,
Love and Light
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