Dr. Nate Psych

Dr. Nate Psych We take a modern, wrap-around approach to treating children, adults, and families. -Dr. Nate Balfanz

For today’s edition of “From the Desk of Dr. Nate,” the focus is on “Anxiety and Avoidance.”  Recently, my friend, forme...
08/29/2025

For today’s edition of “From the Desk of Dr. Nate,” the focus is on “Anxiety and Avoidance.” Recently, my friend, former college roommate, and fellow therapist Kevin Foss, LMFT posted on his IG work page a hashtag challenge for all of his followers called . Kevin pointed out how often times many of us avoid taking healthy risks and trying new things because, even though we may not be happy with our circumstances, the anxiety that comes with uncertainty and the fear of the unknown keeps us stuck in place. In these moments, it can often be helpful to draw from artistic mediums such as books, movies, poems, or song lyrics to inspire us to take that next step. I took Kevin up on his challenge and thought I would share a quote from one of my favorite movies growing up (and to this day!) called Angus,which is about a boy who finds the courage within himself to stand up against a world that is trying to keep him down. Have a look, and feel free to share your own inspirations in the comments!

“Superman isn’t brave. He’s smart, handsome, even decent. But he’s not brave. No, listen to me. Superman is indestructible, and you can’t be brave if you’re indestructible. It’s people like you and your mother. People who are different, and can be crushed and know it. Yet they keep on going out there every time.”

To learn more about the wonderful work that Kevin does, you can follow his IG at: or check out his practice website at: https://calocd.com/

💔 Our hearts are heavy today. Another school shooting. Another community left grieving.It’s normal to feel fear, anger, ...
08/27/2025

💔 Our hearts are heavy today. Another school shooting. Another community left grieving.

It’s normal to feel fear, anger, confusion, or even numbness after events like this. For parents and kids, the ripple effect is real.

Here are a few gentle reminders for the days ahead:

✨ Limit media exposure. Repeated coverage can intensify anxiety.
✨ Stay connected. Talk to friends, family, teachers, and trusted supports.
✨ Be present with kids. Answer their questions honestly, validate their feelings, and hold routines steady.

We’re holding space for every student, parent, and educator impacted today. You are not alone.


📖 Source: National Child Traumatic Stress Network (NCTSN) – “Talking to Children About the Shooting” nctsn.org

Right before the school year kicked off, we squeezed in one last adventure at the Holiday Tents in San Mateo Campground,...
08/19/2025

Right before the school year kicked off, we squeezed in one last adventure at the Holiday Tents in San Mateo Campground, San Clemente 🏕️.

From chasing squirrels around camp to sneaking in a morning surf session 🌊, it was the perfect end-of-summer reset. Nothing like campfires, fresh air, and a canvas tent to make the transition back to school a little sweeter ✨.

A wonderful summertime send off at the San Clemente Fiesta yesterday. Great to see some old friends, and make some new o...
08/11/2025

A wonderful summertime send off at the San Clemente Fiesta yesterday. Great to see some old friends, and make some new ones!

From all of us at Dr. Nate Psych, wishing you a fun and safe Fourth of July filled with laughter, connection, and a litt...
07/04/2025

From all of us at Dr. Nate Psych, wishing you a fun and safe Fourth of July filled with laughter, connection, and a little time to relax. 💙❤️🤍

Last night, Dr. Nate got to team up with  and  for a wonderful round table discussion on all things mental health, hoste...
07/01/2025

Last night, Dr. Nate got to team up with and for a wonderful round table discussion on all things mental health, hosted by as part of their AIM High+ speaker series. It was a joy having such thoughtful young adults ask the hard-hitting questions about what it’s like being both a patient and a therapist, and what the process entails for if they or someone they love is interested in starting therapy. Thank you as always to the TNPF fearless leader for moderating the discussion!

For today’s Mental Minute, we are focusing on “Managing Parental Burnout.”  As a child and family-focused clinician and ...
06/26/2025

For today’s Mental Minute, we are focusing on “Managing Parental Burnout.” As a child and family-focused clinician and a parent of two young children myself, I know all too well from both a personal and professional standpoint the impact that parental burnout can have on the mental and emotional well-being of even the most well-intentioned of us parents.

Key Insight: Research indicates that A) emotional distancing, and B) mental/physical exhaustion are the two most telltale signs of burnout, especially in high-stress households.

Three Ways to Reduce Parental Burnout:

1️⃣ Normalize asking for help—use respite care, family, or support groups.

2️⃣ Practice micro-moments of self-care daily.

3️⃣ Establish a non-negotiable boundary around your rest (e.g., no phones during breakfast or after 9pm).

For Further Reference: Mikolajczak, M., Gross, J. J., & Roskam, I. (2019). Parental burnout: What is it, and why does it matter? Clinical Psychological Science, 7(6), 1319–1329.

(📸 credit: American Psychological Association)

For today’s Mental Minute, we are highlighting “Self-Esteem” and the science behind how it influences our perceptions of...
06/20/2025

For today’s Mental Minute, we are highlighting “Self-Esteem” and the science behind how it influences our perceptions of worth, ability, and standing in our current lives. Self-esteem is less about thinking positively about one’s self, and more about the degree to which we can demonstrate respect and value for ourselves.

Key Insight: Research studies have shown time and again that while self-esteem alone doesn’t cause success, stable, realistic self-worth will contribute to better emotional regulation and resilience.

Three Ways to Build Self-Esteem:

1️⃣ Use affirmations based on your values—not just accomplishments.

2️⃣ Track small wins and efforts daily.

3️⃣ Create a “proof list” of times you handled challenges well and review it weekly.

For Further Reference: Baumeister, R. F., et al. (2003). Does high self-esteem cause better performance? Psychological Science in the Public Interest, 4(1), 1–44.



(📸 credit: positivepsychology.com)

Today we honor Juneteenth. A day to reflect on freedom delayed, resilience sustained, and justice still in progress.We r...
06/19/2025

Today we honor Juneteenth.

A day to reflect on freedom delayed, resilience sustained, and justice still in progress.

We remain committed to creating safe, affirming spaces for healing.

Happy Father’s Day weekend to all of the fellow dads out there. My wife and son gifted me this poem on my first Father’s...
06/13/2025

Happy Father’s Day weekend to all of the fellow dads out there. My wife and son gifted me this poem on my first Father’s Day, and it hangs in my office as a daily reminder that little eyes are watching and little ears are listening, and how important the role of a parent is in guiding, teaching, and protecting our young people. Enjoy your special day, Dads everywhere! -Dr. Nate

🎓 Big cheers to the San Clemente High School Class of 2025! You’ve walked the halls, weathered the challenges, and made ...
06/06/2025

🎓 Big cheers to the San Clemente High School Class of 2025! You’ve walked the halls, weathered the challenges, and made it to the finish line. We’re proud of every Triton—and to all graduates across our neighboring schools and communities, we’re celebrating you too! 🌟

🌈 Happy Pride Month from all of us at Dr. Nate Psych!We stand with the LGBTQIA+ community—this month and every month—in ...
06/03/2025

🌈 Happy Pride Month from all of us at Dr. Nate Psych!

We stand with the LGBTQIA+ community—this month and every month—in celebrating identity, love, authenticity, and the right to be fully seen and supported.

Mental health care should be affirming, inclusive, and safe for everyone. You belong exactly as you are.

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