Dr. Nate Psych

Dr. Nate Psych We take a modern, wrap-around approach to treating children, adults, and families. -Dr. Nate Balfanz

For today’s Mental Minute we are focusing on “Grief and Loss in Individual and Family Therapy.”Grief is a complex psycho...
02/05/2026

For today’s Mental Minute we are focusing on “Grief and Loss in Individual and Family Therapy.”Grief is a complex psychological and neurobiological process that can impact emotional regulation, cognition, sleep, and interpersonal functioning. Research consistently shows that grief is not limited to sadness alone, but may present as anxiety, irritability, numbness, guilt, or physical symptoms. When left unsupported, unresolved grief can contribute to prolonged distress and mental health challenges.

Key Insight: Grief does not follow a linear timeline, nor does it resolve simply with the passage of time. Therapeutic support helps individuals make meaning of loss, regulate intense emotional responses, and integrate the loss into their lived experience without becoming overwhelmed by it. This process supports adaptation rather than “moving on.”

Three ways therapy can support grief and loss:
1️⃣ Normalize the grieving process by providing psychoeducation around common emotional, cognitive, and physical responses to loss.
2️⃣ Create a safe space to process emotions that may feel confusing, conflicting, or difficult to express elsewhere.
3️⃣ Support emotional regulation and meaning-making, helping individuals carry the loss in a way that allows for continued growth and connection.

We’ve added a new Grief & Loss page to our website for those seeking more information or support.
🔗 https://www.drnatepsych.com/grief-and-loss

For Further Reference: American Psychological Association. (2023). Grief and Loss. https://www.apa.org/topics/grief

Today we honor the legacy of Martin Luther King Jr., whose work reminds us that mental health, dignity, and justice are ...
01/19/2026

Today we honor the legacy of Martin Luther King Jr., whose work reminds us that mental health, dignity, and justice are deeply interconnected. Dr. King understood that healing does not happen in isolation—it grows through community, compassion, and shared humanity.

MLK Day is both a moment of reflection and a call to action. Through service, dialogue, and care for one another, we continue building the “beloved community” rooted in empathy, equity, and hope.

✨ Happy Holidays ✨Today, we’re wishing warmth, peace, and togetherness to those celebrating Christmas, while also honori...
12/25/2025

✨ Happy Holidays ✨
Today, we’re wishing warmth, peace, and togetherness to those celebrating Christmas, while also honoring the many other holidays and traditions observed this time of year!

However you spend today, we hope it includes moments of connection, reflection, or simply a time to relax. The end of the year can bring joy, stress, grief, or all three—and all of that is valid.

Thank you for trusting Dr. Nate Psych to be part of your journey this year. 💙
We’ll see you soon as we head into the new year together!

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12/24/2025

Happy Holidays from Dr. Nate Psych! ✨We’re taking a short holiday break 🎄Our office is closed 12/24–1/4, returning on 1/5. See you in the new year!

Grateful to be an ambassador for The Noble Path Foundation this holiday season 🎄Noble Path embodies what this time of ye...
12/16/2025

Grateful to be an ambassador for The Noble Path Foundation this holiday season 🎄

Noble Path embodies what this time of year is truly about—connection, generosity, and showing up for our community. Their commitment to supporting youth through meaningful, real-world connection and empowerment is inspiring, and it’s an honor to stand alongside such compassionate leaders, volunteers, and donors.

Wishing the entire Noble Path family a season filled with warmth, gratitude, and continued impact. Thank you for the work you do to build healthier kids and a healthier community. ✨

📣 New on the Blog: Helping Children Develop a Healthy Relationship With FailureWhen we model mistakes, regulate our own ...
12/10/2025

📣 New on the Blog: Helping Children Develop a Healthy Relationship With Failure

When we model mistakes, regulate our own reactions, and guide kids through frustration, they learn that failure is safe — and even useful.

A healthy relationship with failure = a healthier relationship with themselves. 💛

👉 Read the full article here: https://www.drnatepsych.com/helping-children-develop-a-healthy-relationship-with-failure

Wishing you a calm and connected Thanksgiving. Today is a moment to pause, honor the people who steady us, and acknowled...
11/28/2025

Wishing you a calm and connected Thanksgiving. Today is a moment to pause, honor the people who steady us, and acknowledge the emotional work families carry behind the scenes.

Veterans Day 🇺🇸Today we recognize and thank all who have served our country. Beyond the physical demands, service often ...
11/11/2025

Veterans Day 🇺🇸
Today we recognize and thank all who have served our country. Beyond the physical demands, service often carries deep emotional sacrifices that can last long after returning home. We honor that strength and wish peace and well-being to veterans and their families today and every day.

Many thanks to  for having me back this afternoon to talk about the impact of domestic violence, separation, and loss on...
11/08/2025

Many thanks to for having me back this afternoon to talk about the impact of domestic violence, separation, and loss on our young people. This is such a valuable program which serves an integral function in supporting individuals and families when they are at their most vulnerable. To learn more about out what the Laura’s House program has to offer, check them out at: https://www.laurashouse.org/

DNP will be closing our doors early today as Dr. Nate will be out performing his obligatory dad duties of taking his kid...
10/31/2025

DNP will be closing our doors early today as Dr. Nate will be out performing his obligatory dad duties of taking his kids trick-or-treating. Everyone have a fun and safe Halloween Weekend!

🗞 Featured in South of the Pier Magazine“How Do We Support Our Adolescents in Their Search for Identity and Acceptance?”...
10/16/2025

🗞 Featured in South of the Pier Magazine

“How Do We Support Our Adolescents in Their Search for Identity and Acceptance?”
By Dr. Nate Balfanz, Founder of Dr. Nate Psych

Adolescence can be tough — identity, belonging, and confidence all collide. In this month’s issue, Dr. Nate shares how parents can guide teens through these challenges with empathy and balance.

💬 “Most mental health struggles begin with our effort to know and accept ourselves — and to feel accepted by others.” — Dr. Nate



3 Tips for Parents

1️⃣ Listen first. Teens often want to be heard, not fixed.
2️⃣ Let mistakes happen. Growth comes from learning, not perfection.
3️⃣ Skip “I told you so.” Support builds connection.

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“Mindfulness‑Based Individual Therapy for Stress Management.”  Research has demonstrated time and again how mindfulness-...
10/13/2025

“Mindfulness‑Based Individual Therapy for Stress Management.” Research has demonstrated time and again how mindfulness-based therapeutic interventions can help to reduce physiological stress, improve emotional regulation, and enhance overall mental health.

Key Insight: Mindfulness practices aim to improve an individual’s ability to remain more present-centered by taking a non-judgmental stance of one’s thoughts, feelings, and bodily sensations. When we are able to remain more present-centered, it helps prevent us from perseverating on the unpleasant experiences of our past, or from becoming overly preoccupied with how things will turn out for us in the future.

Three Mindfulness Practices to Try on a Daily Basis:
1️⃣ Start the day with a 5‑minute body scan: notice tension, breathe into it.
2️⃣ Pause before reacting: take 3 slow deep breaths when feeling stressed to allow a moment of choice.
3️⃣ Cultivate non‑judgmental awareness: when thoughts about stress or anxiety come up, try labeling them (“worry,” “fear,” “pressure”) without pushing them away or getting consumed.

For Further Reference: George, C., et al. (2023). Developing a secure base in family intervention: using attachment theory in family difficulties. Frontiers in Psychology.


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