01/08/2026
I donât believe the year starts on January 1st.
I believe a gentler start happens after your nervous system has had a chance to land.
Every year, people begin with good intentions:
more structure, better habits, a renewed commitment to feeling better.
And then a few weeks in, they feel more tired.
More achy.
More overwhelmed.
So they stop. Not because they donât care, but because the effort starts to feel like it isnât worth the cost.
That pattern isnât a motivation problem.
Itâs a pressure problem.
If pain is part of your life, January pressure doesnât help.
It adds threat⌠and pain responds to threat.
By threat, I donât mean danger or damage.
I mean internal signals that tell the nervous system something is at stake:
Urgency, self-criticism, pushing through, or feeling like youâre already behind (am I warm yet??).
When those signals stay high, the nervous system stays protective, which shows up as tension, sensitivity, flare-ups, and symptoms that donât fully settle.
Thatâs not weakness.
Thatâs biology đ§
This is one of the highest-impact pieces of pain recovery, and itâs the thread Iâll keep returning to - not just this year, but all the way through 2027.
Your first assignment drops next Thursday.
For now, all you have to do is show up here.
If this resonates, follow along .
And if someone else comes to mind who gets stuck in this same cycle, share it with them - this work is easier when youâre not doing it alone. đż
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