04/28/2026
Stop asking so many questions. â
I knowâit feels like the right way to get kids talking.
âWhatâs that?â âWhat color?â âSay ___.â
But constant questions can actually put kids on the spot⌠and shut communication down.
Try this instead:
⨠Comment more, question less
Describe what you see: âYouâre building a tall tower!â
Now thereâs no pressureâjust an invitation to join in.
⨠Model, donât test
Instead of âWhatâs this?â â âThatâs a dog! Woof woof!â
Youâre giving language without requiring a response.
⨠Pause and watch
After you model, give space. Thatâs often when communication happens.
For SLPs + parents: when we shift from quizzing â connecting, kids are more likely to engage, imitate, and initiate.
Less pressure. More connection. More language. đ¤
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