09/07/2025
This is how I spend my Saturday. I blend food for William. He has a Gtube in his belly that I can blend healthy foods and that’s how he gets his nutrition. It’s a labor of love and something I am most proud of. It’s one of those things that I do because I KNOW he is the healthiest he can be in what little control I have over that.
Yesterday was Williams 4 year survivor day. In 2021 William died for almost an hour and miracoulously hes alive and here today! While we were definitely side tracked by our teenager and his shenanigans, today it hit me…
I’m not going to go through all that happened on that day as it’s traumatic to think about. But today as I was blending food for William, I couldn’t help but think about how far our baby has come.
He came home completely lifeless, mininally conscious, with a tracheostomy, Gtube and was vomiting constantly, on a ventilator, with so much equipment and 2 parents that were terrified.
He has just come so far…
💕 He can express his likes and dislikes
💕 He cries (which I love to hear and you’ll only understand that when you stop hearing your baby cry)
💕 He loves to watch the dog walk by
💕Turn his head quite quickly to things he wants to look at especially Daddy playing the guitar
💕He breathes off a ventilator and has for over 2 years now
💕He uses a speak valve on his trach 12 hours a day that took me 6 months trying to get approval until I finally just did it without Drs authorization 😬
💕We can cap his trach and he breathes like a typical person easily 4-5 hours a day
There’s more but just from a health standpoint point, he’s really come leaps and bounds.
When we brought William home and he was constantly vomiting, I was so nervous to give him food. Drs had me so scared I would hurt him if he stopped getting the formula they prescribed. I laugh at that now 😂 I was scared of avocado lol…
We promised William from the moment we knew he had to decide to fight or not that if he did, we would go to the ends of the Earth to support his healing. And we have. This food I make for him is just another way for me to show him I’m fighting right along side him. He eats 4 different meals a day, mostly organic. He’s gluten free, dairy free, and grain free.
Today I was just so proud. Proud of him for showing up every day. 4 straight years and he shows up… constantly driving out of state, PT, ABM, MNRI, acupuncture, massage, PEMF, stem cells, chiropractic, he shows up to it all.
Thank you to everyone that has donated to Williams recovery, purchased therapy devices for him and his healing, and donated to his life the last 4 years. We are here because of you.
Thank you to everyone that has helped me. In so many ways I have been helped, supported, checked on, driven across country, flown to and from other states, taken time off work to come with me when I couldn’t do it alone. We are here because of you.
Thank you to everyone that has prayed for William and our family. God has provided in so many way. We have had so many answered prayers and we are here because of those prayers and Gods strength.
So today is the first day of another new year for our boy! 🥂 We will continue to fight for the best potential life for him no matter what it takes ❤️
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To donate to Williams recovery and treatments
https://gofund.me/d4ce7963
https://venmo.com/u/KerAndJer
Zelle: kerandjer@gmail.com
Any amount helps 💙
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