Julia Schiffman, MSW

02/14/2026

Valentine’s Day isn’t just about roses and romance — it’s about embracing all of who you are and celebrating the people who love you for exactly that. 💕

So here’s to showing up as your whole self.
Here’s to loving boldly.
Here’s to appreciating the ones who see you and stay.
Wishing you a Valentine’s Day filled with authenticity, connection, and a whole lot of heart. ❤️

02/08/2026

Valentine’s Day but make it ✨less awkward✨

If your idea of romance includes laughter, l**e, and toys that don’t require a PhD to operate, this blog is for you.
Inclusive. Body-positive. Designed for two (or more 😉).

I put together a guide to the best toys for shared pleasure—made for every body and every bond

👉 Read the blog. Touch responsibly.

https://www.juliaschiffmanmsw.com/blog/best-s*x-toys-for-two-or-more-designed-for-every-body-every-bond

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11/08/2025

I had the privilege to expand my knowledge on a subject area I did not know much about.

Attending Psycon gave me additional perspectives on psychedelics and healing that I am grateful for ❤️‍🩹 🙏

To my surprise, I was able to learn about the crossover between psychedelics and my specialties-kink,B**M, S*x, and trauma. What a treat 🧁

07/21/2025

Handing out s*xual health resources to the community at San Diego Pride is one of my favorite things to do 🖐️

Being present as a knowledgeable mental health LGBTQ and KINK provider to answer questions is important to let my community know I am here for them 🥰💙🌈👏👍

07/16/2023

Happy Pride San Diego! 🌈
I hope you are staying safe, celebrated, and thriving this year knowing community is here for you.
Please know my door is always open for you, so knock any time you need me! 🚪 ✊

03/25/2023

There is no age limit on the exploration of self, pleasure, and what you desire.

Time is never lost on reinventing the wheel, redefining the definition of s*x, and letting your partner know your needs.

03/18/2023

I will be tabling at Gossip Grill for this S*x-Positive Event tomorrow supporting women owned businesses!

Please drop by and say hi 👋 🌈 🦄 🦩

03/11/2023

Women are making history leading the s*x industry with innovative designs and ideas to bring more pleasure to women and their partners 🤩🥳🥰

You can honor them this Women’s History Month by checking them out below!

The s*x revolution is female.

03/02/2023

Don’t forget about this amazing resource Pineapple Support provides for male s*x workers to find support in the industry.

S*x work is HARD work and we all need those who understand us most ❤️

Join us on the last Thursday of each month starting at 10AM PST for our monthly male support group.

Connect with others, share experiences, and contribute to the well-being of community members.

Click here to sign up https://bit.ly/3JyVt53

03/02/2023

I am excited to announce that Women and Kink: Relationships, Reasons, and Stories is now available in the Erotic Heritage Museum of Las Vegas! 🥰

I want to continue to make resources like this as accessible as possible in s*x-positive spaces to encourage new experiences, adventures, and learning 📚

10/14/2021

Ready for the new book smell? Join the authors of Women and Kink next Friday, October 22nd at Gossip Grill from 6pm-8pm for signing, merch, discussion, and the afterparty from 8pm-10pm! **M

06/21/2021

I am proud to announce we are a month away from the launch of "Women & Kink" The Book releasing July 20, 2021.

Written by Jennifer Rehor and myself, it's an exploration and validation of women's most profound reasons women engage in kink, the relationships they have, and stories they need to tell.

We invite you to read all about the beauty and extraordinary stories these women share at this link https://www.routledge.com/Women-and-Kink-Relationships-Reasons-and-Stories/Rehor-Schiffman/p/book/9780367187736?utm_source=individuals&utm_medium=shared_link&utm_campaign=B014188_ca1_1au_7pp_d717

And I'm open and excited to answer any questions you have about the book!

In Women and Kink Empowerment,
Julia