05/18/2026
I wrote this and then saw “left lovers”. I’ve left a lot of lovers. I suppose lovers who get left a lot are also “leftovers”. Leftovers do not stay fresh, vital, they are stagnant.
If my lover is not growing, and evolving, we’re not gonna work out. I’ve got Pluto in the 1st house. I’m a 3/5 Generator. I’m here to continually transform, be in motion, and learn through trial and error. I’m endlessly curious and always experimenting.
And I can’t be in an unhealthy relationship. I’ve really tried: Stay together for the kids, or stay together for economic security, or stay because they have so much potential. But my body always suffers. I start to slowly lose myself.
And that is how relationship has been historically designed in a patriarchy, in a hierarchy of dominance.
The woman self abandons for the family, for the man. She plays the submissive adaptable role at her own expense or she doesn’t get acceptance, approval, belonging, companionship or “protection”.
Women are “decentering men” now for survival. Because in the end losing yourself and your health isn’t worth the illusion of economic security or protection. We are moving away from a material world.
Your energy, your health, is your currency.
And we don’t need to decenter anyone. Let them be and re-center yourself.
In your movie in which you are the protagonist, what dreams, desires, adventures, and experiences are you here to have?
I can almost guarantee nobody came here to be a wife or even a mother. Those are just roles, they don’t fully describe the infinitely deep soul you are.
If you’re stimulated by this conversation, and want to hear more, check out the podcast I did last night with about the Erotic Mother.
The erotic mother archetype is a woman full of her own self-sustaining vibrancy. She doesn’t get it outside of her, she is it. She embodies the fullness of all the archetypes.
Link is in my stories or check my YouTube.
I want to KNOW you… who are you outside of your roles?
#💓goddess vibrations💓
