
05/20/2025
In Need of some Grace
Hello all,
I needed to take a quick moment to become transparent as I believe it will make things easier for all.
My mom has been in a skilled nursing facility for awhile. I went to go visit with her on Thursday prior to Mothers Day and every day after that leading to the Monday after Mothers Day. I noticed a rapid decline. I also noticed that she was being neglected and so I made a decision to have her removed and transferred to the hospital as she was suffering from hallucinations and she had wounds on her from sitting in her own urine, and so forth. I just knew she wasn't well and the place she was at didn't seem to care too much for her until it was too late when I made a scene. So on Monday the 12th, she was admitted to Mercy San Juan, and I have been there every day helping her since after work.
So why am I telling you all of this? On Friday the 16th, I too was admitted to the hospital. I was having the exact type of chess pain, I had last year when I had my heart-attack. Iwas really scared and thought I was going to die, so I decided to get to the ER. They admitted me into the hospital where they ran a bunch of tests. Thankfully, my heart checked out well and I was released on Sunday with the diagnosis of stress related chest-pains.
That same day when I was released, Sunday, my mom was deemed eligible for hospice and the hospital wanted to transfer her out into a place of care, but we had no where to put her. So I spent all day Monday looking at places to put my mom at for her hospice care. I have been non-stop trying to get things situated for my mom so she can be comfortable. I still have a lot to do.
I am writing this so that I can be transparent in hopes of receiving some grace and understanding. Moving forward, I may not have such a stable schedule. I am going to have to cut my schedule back some for my mom as well as for myself. I am going to have to hire someone to help with our patients. I may have to cancel an appointment that we have scheduled at last minute because I may need to tend to something for my mom. All, I am asking for is to remain patient with me and our company if we have to reschedule your appointment. I will navigate through this as best as I can. I am not sure how much more time I have with my mom, but Id like to be there more for her during this incredibly hard time. I am sure you all understand. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I am not sure what my new schedule is going to be like yet, but I thought I'd at least give a warning out so nobody is surprised.
And as always, Thank you all so much for your continued support.
Love Always,
Troy Goings
Founder of Get Me Goings
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