Dr Kristin Zeising Clinical Psychologist Certified Sex Therapist

11/17/2025

A recent presentation on menopause, midlife s*xuality, and what actually happens to desire as our bodies change.
This is some of my favorite work - helping women understand what’s normal, what’s possible, and why pleasure doesn’t end at 40, 50, or 60.
Midlife isn’t a decline, it’s a reset.
If you’re curious about this stage, tell me what you want more conversations about.

10/03/2025

What worked in your 20s won’t always work in your 40s and 50s. Midlife is about getting creative with pleasure - on your own terms. Here’s a clip from my chat on Crazy Stupid Midlife

10/02/2025

Stepped into The Intimacy Speakeasy hosted by — a warm space for real talk about connection and vulnerability.
We explored what intimacy means emotionally, physically, and relationally.
It felt so refreshing to have the kinds of conversations most of us are hungry for (but rarely get to have). 💜

07/26/2025

Enjoying a quiet Saturday morning while putting the finishing touches on tomorrow’s presentation: Reclaiming Desire, Pleasure & Sensuality After 50 ✨

I’m getting ready to gather with a beautiful group of women to explore what it means to get out of our heads, into our bodies, and back in touch with what truly lights us up.

There may be feathers, essential oils, and chocolate involved… because pleasure deserves props 😏

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07/09/2025

Some people look at s*xual compatibility as a matter of destiny—you’re either naturally compatible with someone, or you aren’t. Others, however, think of compatibility as something that you grow and maintain over time.

On average, research finds that those who adopt the growth mindset tend to be the most satisfied, which tells us that your mindset really matters when it comes to s*x!

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07/02/2025

Psychology terms that are consistently misused 😯



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06/07/2025

S*x therapy isn’t just about having better s*x—it’s about liberation, healing, and reclaiming our bodies from shame.

I’m here at AASECT surrounded by some of the fiercest minds in s*xual health—pushing boundaries, challenging outdated norms, and exploring how to better support people navigating desire, identity, and intimacy.

These are the conversations the world still wants us to whisper about.
But we’re not whispering.

Feeling grateful to keep learning, unlearning, and showing up for this work.

Curious—what’s one thing you wish we talked about more openly when it comes to s*x, intimacy, or healing?

04/28/2025

I’m excited to share that I was recently quoted in the South China Morning Post in an article about the benefits of s*x therapy and how it can deepen emotional and physical connection.

It’s always an honor to help normalize these conversations and support couples in building stronger, more intimate relationships.

Thank you to the South China Morning Post for highlighting the importance of emotional and s*xual well-being.

Read it here: https://www.scmp.com/lifestyle/health-wellness/article/3307711/can-s*x-therapy-help-me-how-it-benefits-couples-plus-6-expert-tips-making-love-better

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Deciding to talk about a less-than-satisfactory s*x life, to stop pretending everything’s fine, is a powerful step to fixing it, experts say.

03/09/2025

🌊✨ Celebrating Strength, Wisdom, & Connection ✨🌊

On this International Women’s Day, let’s honor the power of women across generations—the wisdom passed down, the resilience carried forward, and the love that binds us.

This photo captures what today is all about: women standing together, lifting each other up, and embracing the beauty of every stage of life. From grandmothers to daughters to the next generation, our strength is amplified when we walk hand in hand.

💜 Tag a woman who has inspired you, supported you, or shaped your journey. Let’s celebrate each other today and every day!

02/14/2025

Valentine’s Day can be a beautiful opportunity for connection, but it can also come with emotional and s*xual pressures that create stress instead of joy. By setting realistic expectations, focusing on authentic connection, and releasing the pressure to conform to societal norms, you can create a Valentine’s experience that feels meaningful, not forced.

Whether you’re in a relationship or single, remember: love is not defined by one day—it’s found in the small, everyday moments of connection, appreciation, and care.

Would love to hear—how do you handle Valentine’s Day pressures? Drop a comment below and click the link to read more.

Feeling pressure around Valentine's Day? From relationship expectations to s*xual stress, discover how to navigate the holiday with authenticity and connection

11/04/2023

Morning couples case consultation with one of my mentors, Esther Perel. Feeling so inspired!