Katy Caslav, LCSW

Katy Caslav, LCSW Helping millennial anxious women become the best version of themselves!

10/31/2025

🎃👻 "Ghosting your therapist won't make your problems disappear..." 👻🎃

Happy Halloween from the land of trick-or-treatment 🛋️🧠

This spooky season, remember:
🧟‍♀️ Zombies need sleep too.
🧛 Therapy is vampire-approved (we only meet after dark).
💀 And bottling up your emotions? That’s the real horror story.

Stay spooky, stay safe — and don’t be afraid to face your fears (even if they’re just your inbox). 💌🕸️

I understand at my core the temptation to distance yourself from emotions - particularly the uncomfortable ones. But I’m...
10/30/2025

I understand at my core the temptation to distance yourself from emotions - particularly the uncomfortable ones. But I’m here to say emotions should be understood and felt to their fullest. And here’s why: 💬

🧠 1. They carry vital intel.
Feel something off but can’t explain it? Emotions often sense things before our thoughts do. Anger, for example, might signal a boundary has been crossed—even if you haven’t figured out how or by whom yet.

🌎 2. They're what make us human.
Imagine life without joy, curiosity, motivation, or inspiration. Emotions aren’t just the “bad stuff”—they’re also the spark behind everything meaningful, exciting, and fulfilling.

🛠️ 3. They help with problem-solving.
Logic is powerful—but when paired with emotional insight? That’s when decisions become wiser, more balanced, and more confident.

🧨 4. Ignoring emotions doesn’t erase them.
They don’t disappear; they hide—then build. What you suppress today might come back louder tomorrow.

🔍 5. Avoiding emotions weakens self-awareness.
If you don’t learn to recognize and process how you feel, coping becomes guesswork. Emotional insight is a skill—and it can be learned.

💞 6. Emotional intelligence strengthens relationships.
When you understand your own emotions, you’re better at understanding others too. That makes room for more compassion, clearer communication, and deeper connection.

✨ TLDR: Don’t fear your emotions. Listen to them, learn from them, and let them be part of your growth.

10/29/2025

🧠 The real, raw, unfiltered Therapy FAQ you’ve actually been wanting…

💬 How does therapy really work?

For me, it looks like:

🪑 A cozy space (virtual or in person) where you can finally stop performing and start being real — anxiety, overthinking, people-pleasing and all.

🗣️ I offer gentle but honest reflections, curious questions, and challenges that help you untangle old patterns and rewrite the story you’ve been stuck in.

💡 Over time, I see clients step into more clarity, confidence, boundaries that actually hold, and real-deal peace of mind — not just the “fake chill” we all pretend to have.

If you're a too-anxious millennial woman tired of carrying it all, you're not alone — and you don't have to keep doing it the hard way.

No fluff. No filters. Just the truth about what healing can really look like.

What does therapy look like for you? 👇

Imagine how life could shift with just one of these in place. 🤯💬 Tell me in the comments — which one are you picking and...
10/28/2025

Imagine how life could shift with just one of these in place. 🤯

💬 Tell me in the comments — which one are you picking and why?

Sometimes, clarity starts with a simple choice.

If you're an anxious millennial or gen z woman, you've probably spent years trying to fight your anxiety, push it down, ...
10/27/2025

If you're an anxious millennial or gen z woman, you've probably spent years trying to fight your anxiety, push it down, or pretend it's not there.

What if — stay with me — the way forward is actually through?

✨ Your anxiety isn’t a flaw — it’s a signal. Therapy can help you learn how to listen to it without letting it run the show.

You're not alone in this 💛

Read that again. Because it’s not just about productivity — it’s about mental health, too.Every day, the habits we repea...
10/23/2025

Read that again. Because it’s not just about productivity — it’s about mental health, too.

Every day, the habits we repeat are either:

✅ Building resilience
😴 Draining our energy
🧠 Protecting our peace
😵‍💫 Fueling our stress

Tiny choices add up. Over time, they shape how we feel, how we think, and how we show up in our lives.

💬 What’s one habit you’re working on that your future self will thank you for? Drop it below — even if it’s small. (Especially if it’s small.)

You’re sitting in a theater seat — maybe with friends, maybe by yourself.On the outside, it looks like a normal day.But ...
10/22/2025

You’re sitting in a theater seat — maybe with friends, maybe by yourself.
On the outside, it looks like a normal day.
But on the inside?

Your brain is scanning the room for exits.
Wondering if people are looking at you.
Replaying that thing you said 3 hours ago.
Planning how you'd leave just in case something goes wrong.
And trying to act "normal" the whole time.

This is what high-functioning anxiety can look like:
✨ Show up
✨ Smile
✨ Spiral (quietly, invisibly)

If this feels familiar — you're not dramatic, broken, or "too much."
You're managing a nervous system that’s doing the most to keep you safe.
It’s exhausting. And you don’t have to carry it alone. 🧠💛

Protect your scroll time like your peace depends on it — because it does. 🧠📱Every time you stop to read something that a...
10/21/2025

Protect your scroll time like your peace depends on it — because it does. 🧠📱

Every time you stop to read something that annoys you, aggravates you, or makes you spiral into frustration (yes, including the comment section)... you’re spending energy in ways you didn’t intend when opening the app.

Your R&R time has now turned into “give me another thing to be mad about” and it’s going to only wear you down.

Not everything needs your attention.
Not every post deserves a reaction.
Not every opinion needs a response.
You’re allowed to scroll right past.

Curate your feed. Mute, unfollow, block if you need to.

Fill your space with content that fuels you, motivates you, or simply brings you peace.

✨ You’re not avoiding the world — you’re protecting your mind.

Thinking about starting therapy but unsure if it’ll actually fit into your life? You're not alone—and the good news is, ...
10/20/2025

Thinking about starting therapy but unsure if it’ll actually fit into your life? You're not alone—and the good news is, it’s more flexible than you might think. 💬

Here’s what scheduling might really look like:

✅ Evening appointments available (yes, therapy can happen outside of 9–5).

✅ Weekly, biweekly, or monthly sessions—your frequency depends on your needs, goals, and capacity.

✅ The first session is all about getting to know each other—no pressure to have it all figured out.

✨ Therapy isn’t one-size-fits-all. Whether you’re navigating a packed work schedule, parenting duties, or just trying to avoid burnout, there’s often more room for care than it seems.

📩 Link in bio to book a free consult

If you're an anxious millennial or gen z woman, you know the feeling:One intrusive thought spirals into 10 more.Your bra...
10/17/2025

If you're an anxious millennial or gen z woman, you know the feeling:

One intrusive thought spirals into 10 more.
Your brain spins stories that feel so real, even when you know they’re just thoughts.
And before you know it, you're emotionally exhausted — and blaming yourself for not “being stronger.”

But here’s the truth:
You are not your thoughts.
You’re the one observing them.
And you can learn to sit with your mind without being dragged by it.

✨ This is what we work on in therapy — learning to pause, get curious, and build a different relationship with that overactive mind of yours.

Because peace doesn’t mean “never anxious.”
It means anxiety doesn’t get to be in charge anymore.

If you notice any of these, it might be time to pause and check in with yourself:1️⃣ You’re waking up tired, no matter h...
10/16/2025

If you notice any of these, it might be time to pause and check in with yourself:

1️⃣ You’re waking up tired, no matter how much you sleep

2️⃣ Your appetite has changed — eating way more or barely hungry at all

3️⃣ You find yourself snapping at people more than usual

4️⃣ Your baseline mood is “meh” or flat, instead of feeling like yourself

5️⃣ The things that used to bring you joy just don’t cut it anymore

Stress is normal, but when it drags you down day after day, it’s okay to seek support.

💬 How do you recharge when life feels heavy? Share your self-care tips below!

🗣️ "If I had a dollar every time someone said..."💸 "Other people have it worse—this is just me being weak."💸 "I’m just o...
10/15/2025

🗣️ "If I had a dollar every time someone said..."

💸 "Other people have it worse—this is just me being weak."
💸 "I’m just overthinking... it’ll pass."
💸 "Therapy is for people who are really struggling—not someone like me."
💸 "I don’t need help. I just need to get it together."
💸 "Anxiety ruins my life"
💸 "I struggle saying no"

…I could retire by now. 😅

✨ But here’s the truth:

Mental health challenges aren’t always loud. They don’t always show up in dramatic ways. Sometimes, they whisper—through exhaustion, irritability, numbness, overthinking, or feeling "off" for a while.

You don’t have to hit rock bottom to seek support.
You don’t need to have all the answers before reaching out.
And you definitely don’t have to go it alone.

👂 If you’ve ever said one of these things to yourself—pause. That might be your sign to check in, not check out.

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San Diego, CA

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Monday 9am - 5pm
Tuesday 9am - 5pm
Wednesday 1pm - 5pm
Thursday 9am - 5pm

Telephone

+19513740331

Website

http://www.insightfullivingtherapy.com/

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