03/13/2025
I used to party all the time, shop like an idiot, fly all over the country for meetings, and claim my independence from my family .. which resulted in credit card debt, unhealthy work stress and disconnection from myself and those who loved me.
I believed I had it all and that the more fun I was having (with The Cool Crowd) that .. that was enough. I didn't think about goals. The future didn't even seem real. Young & Dumb Era much?!
🔥 The truth? That belief held me in an old and deep habit of pursuing others' ideas of who I was, which kept me stuck in a lifestyle that, while glamorous from the outside, was unfulfilling on the inside.
🔥 The shift? I stopped trying to be all that and started getting to know myself through astrology, human design and energy healing.
Here's what changed:
❌ Old belief: "I need to meet my friends at the bar to have a good time"
✅ New belief: "When I expand my energy, I am fully immersed in joy."
I quit alcohol, found a few easy mocktail recipes that I LOVED and never looked back. The more years of sobriety that continue to pass, the more creative I become, which is really neat to witness within myself. I also have a disciplined practice to expand my energy multiple daily (which also contributes to my creativity).
❌ Old belief: "I must fit in and be socially accepted"
✅ New belief: "I love to solve problems in wonderous and unique ways."
I was really good at showing up for everyone else - but burnt out by meeting everyone else's expectations of who they needed me to be. Slowly, as I made new friends, I focused on hanging out with one friend at a time, developing 1:1 connections. Around this time, I also softened to my family and didn't feel the call of independence as much as before, which was a true gift that I am so grateful for.
❌ Old belief: "Bosses are scary; their toxic criticism at work threatens my sense of self"
✅ New belief: "I use my work issues as the tool to set myself free".
As I learned energy healing, I processed the issues that were upsetting to me and as the resistance melted away, I felt more freedom within. This created space for me to start interviewing for a job that I would love. I ended up getting the job AND doubling my income.
❌ Old belief: "I need to do all I can to get my boss to value me in order to avoid low esteem and feelings of worthlessness."
✅ New belief: "Finding balance and no longer caring to be a reflection of her opinions about me can create endless momentum."
I stopped ignoring my inner knowing and built my life around my satisfaction - more possibility, more healing, less emotional ups & downs, fantastic self-discovery and a flexible reality. I literally dreamt a whole new reality into being by owning my strong sense of self.
👇 If you're ready to shift into joy, freedom and your own sense of yourself, I break down the method in my you tube: https://youtu.be/x5HZbJ9ngi0?feature=shared
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