Dr. Yishan(一三博士)

Dr. Yishan(一三博士) Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Sleep/S*x Expert, Director of Mind & Body Garden Psychology Inc., Adjunct Clinical Faculty at Stanford School of Medicine.

Hello, I am Dr. Yishan Xu, a licensed clinical psychologist, Board-Certified behavioral sleep medicine specialist (DBSM) and AASECT Board-Certified S*x Therapist (CST). Currently, I serve as the chair of the Society of Behavioral Sleep Medicine (SBSM) OPEC committee, and the adjunct clinical faculty at the School of Medicine of Stanford University.

I have 3 clinical specialties: 1) treatment f

or sleep disorders such as insomnia/circadian rhythm disorders, 2) treatment for s*xual dysfunction and promoting s*xual well-being, and 3) treatment for children/teen mental health.

I am the founder and director of our clinic: Mind & Body Garden Psychology. We are one of the largest multilingual mental health clinics in California right now, with 20+ psychologists, therapists, psychiatrists, speech therapists, and occupational therapists. We provide a variety of services:

psychotherapy

neuropsychological assessment (IQ test, ASD/ADHD diagnostic evaluation, etc.)

medication management

occupational therapy evaluation

speech therapy, etc.

I always see the role of a psychologist as a gardener. When people come to us seeking support, they may have too many branches of mental blocks and bushes of stress in their lives. What we can do is to help people be more aware of the branches and bushes that impact their quality of life, and then assist them to trim these parts, cope with stress, and live healthier and happier lives.

I grew up in China and speak both Mandarin and English. I strongly advocate evidence-based treatment to develop a more positive attitude, and to build a life that is happier, more balanced, and more meaningful. Many of my clients have a hard time dealing with stress or transitions in life. Others may use some help with improving communication and relationship. They all have a common desire to take active steps to make meaningful and lasting changes.



MY APPROACHES TO THERAPY & TESTING
I have been trained in various evidence-based therapeutic approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Mindfulness Compassionate Approaches. I believe that therapy requires teamwork and I love to work with my clients collaboratively and tailor treatment to meet their needs. I always try my best to provide a warm and safe environment for my clients so they have a private space to share their thoughts and feelings freely. I often invite my clients to explore their own strengths with me together and practice effective coping skills. The most important aspect of my approach is: It works! I think that is the beauty of applying evidence-based therapy into practice.

I believe that everyone is unique, and we all have our own potential and needs. I want to use psychological testing such as neuropsychological testing as a tool, to help us understand ourselves better, explore our potential, and seek appropriate help as needed.

Using l***s could be helpful to improve s*xual experiences for some couples and individuals. If you visit our clinic in ...
07/23/2025

Using l***s could be helpful to improve s*xual experiences for some couples and individuals. If you visit our clinic in person, please grab some free samples! Thanks to Uberlube for great sample sets❤️

Nightmares haunting your sleep? You’re not alone – and you can break the cycle!On this week’s  :Dr. Yishan sits down wit...
06/27/2025

Nightmares haunting your sleep? You’re not alone – and you can break the cycle!
On this week’s :

Dr. Yishan sits down with nightmare expert Dr. Courtney Worley to discuss:
- Why nightmares happen (with or without trauma)
- Evidence-based ways to finally get restful sleep
- The difference between nightmares & night terrors

Practical tips you can start using today. Take back control of your nights! Listen now and discover hope, healing, and the latest in nightmare treatment.

🎧 [Link to episode] http://deepintosleep.co/episode/nightmare

We were thrilled to have Dr. Christopher Allen, board-certified sleep medicine physician and pediatric neurologist (aka ...
06/23/2025

We were thrilled to have Dr. Christopher Allen, board-certified sleep medicine physician and pediatric neurologist (aka “Sleep Doctor Chris” on social media), join Dr. Yishan. Together, they dove deep into the realities of sleep apnea, debunked long-standing myths, and explored the latest treatments. http://deepintosleep.co/episode/OSA

Our NY team will host a nice event in June, and here are more details: 🌈 Beyond the Binary: Reimagining Gender and Ident...
06/11/2025

Our NY team will host a nice event in June, and here are more details:

🌈 Beyond the Binary: Reimagining Gender and Identity
🗓️ June 21, 2025 | 11:00am - 1:00PM | Madison Square Park | $35

In many cultures, gender and s*xual orientation are often viewed through a binary lens—male or female, straight or gay. But this framework doesn’t always reflect the true complexity of who we are.

This workshop invites participants to explore identity through a non-binary perspective, expanding how we understand ourselves and how we connect with others.

Join us for an affirming, art-based experience where we’ll explore gender and attraction through a non-binary lens. Through mindfulness, guided discussion, and a gender identity wheel art activity, you’ll reflect on body, identity, expression, and attraction in a deeper, more liberated way.

We’ll gently explore:
• How binary thinking is internalized
• How non-binary frameworks can deepen self-understanding
• How this shift might reshape our approach to relationships

Group Flow:
⛱️ Grounding in the Body – Mindfulness meditation to center and connect.
🧠 Rethinking Identity – Mini workshop on gender and attraction beyond the binary.
🎨 Creative Exploration – Art therapy using the Gender Identity Wheel.
🗣️ Open Dialogue – Group discussion on binary influence and personal insights.
🤗 Community Connection – A relaxed picnic to meet like-minded peers. Bring your own food and make friends!

Join us if you’re ready to challenge and rediscover yourself. All are welcome! https://mindbodygarden.kartra.com/checkout/mindbodygroup

Delicious home bakery from .and.crumb! Congratulations on the opening❤️Hope I can order some for our clinic’s gathering ...
05/25/2025

Delicious home bakery from .and.crumb! Congratulations on the opening❤️Hope I can order some for our clinic’s gathering in June🍾

💤✨ From 2019 to 2025 — and still going strong!So honored that Deep Into Sleep was featured in FeedSpot’s "25 Best Sleep ...
05/12/2025

💤✨ From 2019 to 2025 — and still going strong!

So honored that Deep Into Sleep was featured in FeedSpot’s "25 Best Sleep Science Podcasts in 2025" — and ranked #6! 🏆

What started as a personal passion for translating sleep science into everyday language has turned into an incredible journey. Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of learning from brilliant sleep experts, researchers, and clinicians who generously shared their wisdom.

While I’ve recently slowed down podcast production to focus on growing my mental health group practice, my mission remains the same:
👉 Bridge the gap between cutting-edge sleep science and the public who needs it most.

Grateful for every listener, guest, and supporter along the way. Here’s to more conversations, more insight, and better sleep for all — in the next 5 years and beyond. 💙

🎧 [Check out the podcast here: http://www.deepintosleep.co/ ]

Grateful to receive this thoughtful gift and note from Stanford Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences 💫It’s t...
05/08/2025

Grateful to receive this thoughtful gift and note from Stanford Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences 💫

It’s truly a joy to share my knowledge and support the next generation of clinicians. Watching fellows grow into confident, compassionate professionals has been one of the most fulfilling parts of my work.

Thank you, Stanford, for the kind recognition — and for the opportunity to be part of something meaningful. ❤️

https://www.mindbodygarden.com/appointment-dr-yishan-xu

最近被问到比较多的问题,很多家长不知所措,不想压抑孩子,也不敢过分鼓励性尝试。我觉得这样的家庭对话一定要开启,但是开启之前,家长们一定要先做好自己的心理建设,这个领域在最近30多年发生了巨大的变革,很多古老的观念可能不再正确,甚至变成了枷锁...
04/27/2025

最近被问到比较多的问题,很多家长不知所措,不想压抑孩子,也不敢过分鼓励性尝试。我觉得这样的家庭对话一定要开启,但是开启之前,家长们一定要先做好自己的心理建设,这个领域在最近30多年发生了巨大的变革,很多古老的观念可能不再正确,甚至变成了枷锁。先适当的了解一下现在比较科学的相关知识,然后确保自己能开的了口,说的出来。家长自己都那么害羞不好意思说,更别提跟孩子讨论了。

讨论的时候把握这三个要点。

有时候家长真诚的跟孩子讲,自己不好意思说,自己了解的也不多,愿意一起学习一起讨论,等等,反而比强硬的禁止孩子做一些什么,更加有效。

我把相关的资料都整理在我们诊所的博客文章里了。也做过几个相关的视频和音频节目,包括靠谱的相关书籍推荐。希望对大家有帮助。不知道大家都是怎么和孩子进行这样的对话的?欢迎留言讨论! https://www.mindbodygarden.com/zh/blog/family-s*x-education

A topic that affects many but is often misunderstood: sleep apnea. Join us with Dr. Douglas Krohn to uncover the intrica...
04/11/2025

A topic that affects many but is often misunderstood: sleep apnea. Join us with Dr. Douglas Krohn to uncover the intricacies of obstructive sleep apnea, highlighting symptoms, risks, and the impact it has on both mental and physical health. http://deepintosleep.co/episode/sleepapnea

🌟💑 Unlock a Deeper Connection! Join Our Couples Workshop 🌟💑Are you and your partner ready to transform your relationship...
03/30/2025

🌟💑 Unlock a Deeper Connection! Join Our Couples Workshop 🌟💑

Are you and your partner ready to transform your relationship? Dive deep into the heart of what makes relationships thrive with our exclusive Couple-to-Couple Workshop. 🎨❤️

🔹 Facilitated by Expert Married Therapists - Gain insights from professionals who walk the walk. They'll guide you through the complex landscapes of communication, finances, intimacy, parenting, work-life balance, and navigating in-law relationships.

🔹 Interactive Sessions with Art Therapy & Proven Psychotherapy Techniques - Not just talk, but engaging, creative solutions that you can apply immediately to your relationship.

🔹 Build a Strong, Secure, Intimate Bond - Discover new ways to connect and grow together in a supportive group setting.

🚀 Limited Spots Available! Don’t miss out on this opportunity to enrich your relationship.

📲 Sign Up Now: https://mindbodygarden.kartra.com/page/6DP40

Ever felt like more sleep might solve everything? Think again. Spending more time in bed doesn't always lead to better s...
03/20/2025

Ever felt like more sleep might solve everything? Think again. Spending more time in bed doesn't always lead to better sleep. It's about timing and consistency, not just hours logged. Sleep smarter, not longer! Catch the full discussion with Dr. Yi Sheng & Stephanie Romiszewski for more sleep myths debunked. http://deepintosleep.co/episode/sleepmyths

Love this conference. I learned a lot about how to help women with vaginal pain last year, and have deepened my knowledg...
03/01/2025

Love this conference. I learned a lot about how to help women with vaginal pain last year, and have deepened my knowledge on how to help women enjoy or**sm better this year😄

Also really loved Dr. Laurie Mintz’s workshop on female or**sm❤️

Look forward to applying these knowledge in my future clinical work:

💄debunk myth and misperceptions
💄mindset shift
💄mindfulness training
💄Anxiety management
💄communication and practice

Better s*xual experiences can be achieved through learning and practicing💪

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