12/16/2025
To be clear, I don’t think this is 100% accurate as desire and libido are dynamic things. Just changing labor distribution in a couple may not be the only thing to improve libido, just like how taking one herb or doing a few Kegels isn’t going to fix whatever sexual health issue you’re experiencing.
But I do think that fatigue, mental and physical, plays a huge role in negatively impacting libido and when one person is doing majority of the work in a relationship it makes sense that they won’t always be in the mood.
The brain is an important part of a sexual experience and if it’s overwhelmed it will be hard to get your head in the game, if you catch my drift.
This is something I talk to clients experiencing low libido and other sexual health issues every single day. It’s a common issue and there are providers who can help. 😎