07/21/2023
It's a statistic that's often whispered, but rarely shouted: Miscarriage affects roughly 1 in 4 known pregnancies, with a staggering 85% of those occurring within the first trimester. In a society bustling with excitement over birth announcements, baby showers, and gender reveals, it's an anomaly that the silent stories of lost dreams and unmet potentials aren't given the same resonance. Why is it that we tiptoe around such an integral part of the human experience?
One of the overarching shadows cast upon miscarriage is the notion that it's a private ordeal, something to be mourned in solitude, away from the public eye. This narrative, often unintentionally reinforced, silences the heartbreak and isolates the grieving. The misguided words of consolation - "you can always have another one" - inadvertently diminishes the significance of that unique life, and the profound impact it had, however briefly, on the world.
The truth? Every baby, whether in our arms or in our hearts, matters. Every mother, who has had to say goodbye before she got to say hello, deserves acknowledgment, compassion, and a community that says, "I see your pain, and I stand with you."
And together with Gently we have the power to change the narrative. It's high time we normalize conversations about pregnancy loss. It's high time we uplift those grieving mothers, fathers, and families, reminding them they're not alone. It's high time we offer empathy over empty phrases, and truly understand that grief has no timeline or "right way" to process.
To every mother who has experienced this profound loss, know this - Your child mattered. Your grief is valid. Your healing journey is unique. And in this vast community of parents united in love and loss, you will always find understanding and a shoulder to lean on.
So today, let's pledge to support, uplift, and be there for one another. To redefine the way we approach, discuss, and empathize with miscarriage. Because silence isn't strength. Speaking up, sharing stories, and supporting one another, is. 💛