Jay Reid Psychotherapy

Jay Reid Psychotherapy Welcome to my page. I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC #4195). My license is under my formal name Jack James Reid.
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04/12/2026

Practicing new boundaries and surviving the fallout

04/11/2026

Relationships where you are not the problem

04/09/2026

Emotional validation

You’re about to get excited, about a story, an idea, a person, and something inside you hits the brakes.“Careful. You’re...
04/08/2026

You’re about to get excited, about a story, an idea, a person, and something inside you hits the brakes.

“Careful. You’re getting carried away. You’re too much.”

That alarm didn’t come from nowhere.

If you were the scapegoat of a narcissistic parent, your energy was treated like a problem, until your nervous system linked excitement with shame.

Now it shows up as holding back, overthinking, pulling away from what you enjoy.

Have you ever felt “too much”?

Full breakdown in the top comment! 👇

04/07/2026

The spell was installed when you were very young and had no alternative source of truth

04/05/2026

Psychological trance that gets installed in you about who you are

04/02/2026

Busting 6 Myths Told to the Scapegoat Child

04/01/2026

Why It’s Not Your Fault

03/31/2026

In a narcissistic family, the narcissistic parent must reign supreme

03/29/2026

Family systems crave stability, even if that stability is unhealthy

03/28/2026

The scapegoat is a child designated to carry the emotional weight of the family’s dysfunction

You’ve read the books. Watched the videos. You can explain exactly how a narcissistic family system works. So why do you...
03/27/2026

You’ve read the books. Watched the videos. You can explain exactly how a narcissistic family system works.

So why do you still feel like there’s something wrong with you?

If you grew up as the scapegoat child of a narcissistic parent, understanding the abuse is only part of the picture.

Your sense of self wasn’t built from information, it was built from repeated relational experiences that trained your nervous system to see yourself as defective in order to stay attached.

In this video, I explain:

• Why insight alone doesn’t lift the scapegoat spell
• How attachment needs shaped your self-worth as a child
• What “relational disconfirmation” is and why it’s the key to real change
• Practical steps to start breaking the scapegoat spell in real life

If you’ve ever wondered why you understand everything intellectually but still feel worthless on the inside, this one is for you.

Does this resonate? Drop a "❤️" if you’ve felt that gap between understanding the facts and actually feeling worthy. Let’s support each other in the comments.

Full video in the top comment! 👇

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