Heather Atles Relationship, Sex, & Intimacy Coaching

10/01/2025

Welcome to the Self Love Club 💖
If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought,
“I’ll love my body when...” — this is for you.
Join me for BodyPositive, a joy-filled workshop on October 4 at beautiful Lupin Lodge (yep, the one with the hot tub, pool, tennis & trails 🌲💦).
💃 Come shake off self criticism 
🌞 Soak up sun and self-love
💬 Laugh, move, connect, and celebrate your amazing body — just as it is
No shaming. No fixing. Just FREEDOM.
✨ Use code ShamelessFriends for $10 off your ticket!
🎟️ Grab yours now — link in bio
Come as you are. Leave feeling like more of yourself than ever. 💕

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09/29/2025

Join me Saturday, October 4. 👇🏼
BodyPositive is happening at Lupin Lodge — and it’s more than a workshop.
It’s a full-on celebration of body freedom, radical self acceptance, and joyful embodiment — with a pool side bbq, karaoke Friday, a masquerade dance party, and permission to be exactly as you are.

💖 Workshop + day pass = $35 (normally $45 for day pass alone!)
🛖 Optional camping & yurts available
🎟️ Sign up → link in bio

09/22/2025

What if you didn’t have to love your body to feel at home in it?

In a world that trains us to critique, hide, or fix our bodies, simply feeling at ease in yourself is powerful.

🌀 BodyPositive: A Somatic Workshop

Friday, Oct 4 | 4–5:30 PM
Lupin Lodge | Los Gatos, CA

This 90-minute experience invites you to reconnect with your body — gently, playfully, and on your own terms.

We’ll use movement, reflection, and simple somatic practices to loosen the grip of shame, invite presence, and reclaim your body as a place of wisdom and belonging.

🌲 Your ticket includes a full day pass to enjoy Lupin's redwood-soaked grounds — hot tub, sauna, pool, trails, and café.

🛖 Yurt stays are available if you want to make it a mini-retreat.

✨ Come exactly as you are — no pressure, no performance. Just space to breathe, move, and be.

🎟️ Save your spot here:
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BodyPositive is a workshop designed to melt shame, reclaim your story, and nurture radical body compassion.

09/12/2025

Feeling disconnected doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you.
It means you’re human.
This Saturday, join me at Lupin Lodge for a workshop to feel more alive, connected, and real — in your body, in community, and in nature.
📍 Lupin Lodge (Los Gatos)
📆 Sat Sept 13
🎟️ Link in bio — Use code FEELREAL for $10 off
🛖 Optional overnight accommodations, (turn it into a mini retreat!)
Come solo or bring a friend — either way, you’ll be met.
I’d love to see you there. ❤️

09/07/2025

Hey loves, The Connection Lab is happening next weekend!
If you’ve been thinking about coming (or you’re just now hearing about it), I’d love to have you there.

It’s a cozy, experiential workshop at Lupin Lodge — we’ll slow down, connect for real, and soak in the hot tub, nature, and good humans. There’s even a quirky little open-mic cabaret that night.

If you wanna come, you can use code ShamelessFriends for $10 off — and seriously, if $$ is a thing, hit me up--NTAFLOF!

Hope to see some of you there 💫

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-connection-lab-from-small-talk-to-soul-talk-tickets-1560211397289?aff=oddtdtcreator.

08/22/2025

What if connection didn’t have to be so... effortful?
What if you didn’t have to “perform” to be seen?
Or fill silences to be liked?
Or shrink parts of yourself to make others comfortable?

That’s what The Connection Lab is all about.

🌀 It’s not a lecture.
🌀 It’s not about networking, fixing, or communication hacks.
🌀 It’s a fun, guided space to explore what happens when we listen, speak from the heart, and make room for the magic that happens when humans meet without the masks.

If you’ve been longing for more meaningful conversation, or just want a space to show up without pressure — this is for you.

✨ The Connection Lab: From Small Talk to Soul Talk
📍 Lupin Lodge, Los Gatos
📆 Friday, September 13
🕒 Workshop: 3:00–4:30pm (arrive early, stay late)
🎟 $45 (includes full day at Lupin: trails, sauna, pool, hot tub)
🌙 Optional: Dinner + our cozy, quirky Low Expectations Cabaret

Need a discount? DM me — no one turned away for lack of funds.

🧡 Details + sign up:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-connection-lab-from-small-talk-to-soul-talk-tickets-1560211397289?aff=oddtdtcreator

Let’s make space for the kind of connection that doesn’t ask you to shrink.

Where curiosity, courage, and presence spark something real.

07/22/2025

I was fortunate enough to see Andrea Gibson open for Ani DiFranco a few years ago at the Fillmore. I love this poem and it's sweet reminder that what we pay attention to shapes our reality.
Sending you all LOVE.

06/04/2025

Last chance! 👇

THIS SATURDAY 💫

Redwoods 🌲
Hot tub 🔥
Presence over perfection 💛
And a whole lot of space to just be you.

✨ The Art of Showing Up Shamelessly
📍 Lupin Lodge, Los Gatos
🕒 3–4:30pm workshop + full day on the land
🎟 $35 — yurts close tomorrow (June 4!)
🛖 Tent & RV spots still open
💸 Need a discount? Just DM me.

This isn’t about performing. It’s about showing up — shamelessly, joyfully, fully.

Link in bio
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-art-of-showing-up-shamelessly-workshop-tickets-1366514113499?aff=oddtdtcreator

05/21/2025

You don’t need to be polished. You just need to be present.
Join me for a playful, low-stakes workshop where we move, connect, and stretch into confidence—without pressure, perfection, or performative vibes.
🗓 Saturday, June 7
🕒 3–4:30pm
📍 Lupin Lodge, Los Gatos
🎟 $35 – includes full day access to the pool, hot tub, sauna + trails!
This is your invitation to show up shamelessly, soften your inner critic, and feel more alive in your own skin.
✨ Stay afterward for the “Low Expectations Cabaret” if you’re feeling bold—or just want to laugh and cheer wildly from the crowd. Discounts available on overnight lodging!
🎟 Tap the link in bio to grab your ticket.

04/27/2025

✨ Today feels like magic.

I’m spending the day in Sausalito guiding a beautiful couple through a private erotic connection intensive — a full-day immersion designed to help them reconnect to their bodies, their desire, and each other.

In long-term relationships, it’s so easy to get caught in routine, logistics, and all the day-to-day things that quietly dull the spark.
A couples intensive offers something rare: time set aside just for your pleasure, your intimacy, your aliveness.

We’re not meant to just survive our relationships — we’re meant to feel lit up by them.

When you give yourselves this kind of intentional space to explore, play, and reawaken your connection…
everything can change.

If your love deserves a deeper spark — I’d love to guide you there.
(DM me if you’re curious.)

04/22/2025

Introducing: WILD ALLURE
A private sensual coaching + bo***ir experience for individuals and couples
https://www.heatheratles.com/wild-allure

📍 San Francisco | May 17 & 18
This isn’t just a photoshoot.
This is a 90-minute, fully supported journey into your embodied sensuality and radiant self-expression.
We begin with personalized coaching to ground you, open you, and reconnect you to your erotic confidence.
Then, with your nervous system settled and your desire awake, you’ll step in front of the camera — supported by me and captured by the brilliant
💋 You’ll leave with more than stunning images.
You’ll leave with a feeling: This is me. Fully alive.
Your Wild Allure session includes: ✨ 1:1 sensuality coaching with me
✨ Private bo***ir shoot with Sari Wynne
✨ Access to designer lingerie + sensual props
✨ A ready-to-hang 8x10 metal print
✨ A sacred, affirming space for all bodies and expressions
📅 Only 8 sessions available

Come alone or with your partner.
Come curious. Come nervous. Come as you are.
Your sensual self is already here — let’s capture her.

11/04/2024

🌟 Tonight: Dimensions of Touch Workshop! 🌟

Looking for a meaningful Monday night experience? Join me TONIGHT at 7 PM in Berkeley for the Dimensions of Touch Workshop, hosted by The Somatic Playground! ✨

Whether you're coming solo or with a partner, this workshop is all about exploring the nuances of consensual, sensual touch in a safe(r) and inclusive space. Dive into exercises that build trust, awareness, and deeper connections through touch techniques designed to empower your sense of self and connection.

Explore the nuanced experience of consensual, stimulating, sensual (not overtly sexual) touch in the ""Dimensions of Touch Workshop."" This class offers a safe(r) and supportive space for participants to become attuned to their own bodily sensations and those of their partners, enhancing their under...