Heather Atles Relationship, Sex, & Intimacy Coaching

07/22/2025

I was fortunate enough to see Andrea Gibson open for Ani DiFranco a few years ago at the Fillmore. I love this poem and it's sweet reminder that what we pay attention to shapes our reality.
Sending you all LOVE.

06/04/2025

Last chance! 👇

THIS SATURDAY 💫

Redwoods 🌲
Hot tub 🔥
Presence over perfection 💛
And a whole lot of space to just be you.

✨ The Art of Showing Up Shamelessly
📍 Lupin Lodge, Los Gatos
🕒 3–4:30pm workshop + full day on the land
🎟 $35 — yurts close tomorrow (June 4!)
🛖 Tent & RV spots still open
💸 Need a discount? Just DM me.

This isn’t about performing. It’s about showing up — shamelessly, joyfully, fully.

Link in bio
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-art-of-showing-up-shamelessly-workshop-tickets-1366514113499?aff=oddtdtcreator

05/21/2025

You don’t need to be polished. You just need to be present.
Join me for a playful, low-stakes workshop where we move, connect, and stretch into confidence—without pressure, perfection, or performative vibes.
🗓 Saturday, June 7
🕒 3–4:30pm
📍 Lupin Lodge, Los Gatos
🎟 $35 – includes full day access to the pool, hot tub, sauna + trails!
This is your invitation to show up shamelessly, soften your inner critic, and feel more alive in your own skin.
✨ Stay afterward for the “Low Expectations Cabaret” if you’re feeling bold—or just want to laugh and cheer wildly from the crowd. Discounts available on overnight lodging!
🎟 Tap the link in bio to grab your ticket.

04/27/2025

✨ Today feels like magic.

I’m spending the day in Sausalito guiding a beautiful couple through a private erotic connection intensive — a full-day immersion designed to help them reconnect to their bodies, their desire, and each other.

In long-term relationships, it’s so easy to get caught in routine, logistics, and all the day-to-day things that quietly dull the spark.
A couples intensive offers something rare: time set aside just for your pleasure, your intimacy, your aliveness.

We’re not meant to just survive our relationships — we’re meant to feel lit up by them.

When you give yourselves this kind of intentional space to explore, play, and reawaken your connection…
everything can change.

If your love deserves a deeper spark — I’d love to guide you there.
(DM me if you’re curious.)

04/22/2025

Introducing: WILD ALLURE
A private sensual coaching + bo***ir experience for individuals and couples
https://www.heatheratles.com/wild-allure

📍 San Francisco | May 17 & 18
This isn’t just a photoshoot.
This is a 90-minute, fully supported journey into your embodied sensuality and radiant self-expression.
We begin with personalized coaching to ground you, open you, and reconnect you to your erotic confidence.
Then, with your nervous system settled and your desire awake, you’ll step in front of the camera — supported by me and captured by the brilliant
💋 You’ll leave with more than stunning images.
You’ll leave with a feeling: This is me. Fully alive.
Your Wild Allure session includes: ✨ 1:1 sensuality coaching with me
✨ Private bo***ir shoot with Sari Wynne
✨ Access to designer lingerie + sensual props
✨ A ready-to-hang 8x10 metal print
✨ A sacred, affirming space for all bodies and expressions
📅 Only 8 sessions available

Come alone or with your partner.
Come curious. Come nervous. Come as you are.
Your sensual self is already here — let’s capture her.

11/04/2024

🌟 Tonight: Dimensions of Touch Workshop! 🌟

Looking for a meaningful Monday night experience? Join me TONIGHT at 7 PM in Berkeley for the Dimensions of Touch Workshop, hosted by The Somatic Playground! ✨

Whether you're coming solo or with a partner, this workshop is all about exploring the nuances of consensual, sensual touch in a safe(r) and inclusive space. Dive into exercises that build trust, awareness, and deeper connections through touch techniques designed to empower your sense of self and connection.

Explore the nuanced experience of consensual, stimulating, sensual (not overtly s*xual) touch in the ""Dimensions of Touch Workshop."" This class offers a safe(r) and supportive space for participants to become attuned to their own bodily sensations and those of their partners, enhancing their under...

09/05/2024

During a recent trip to Mexico to visit a fellow relationship, s*x, and intimacy coach, we came across this vibrant mural. The wings reminded me of the light we all carry within, and how important it is to feel safe enough to spread our wings, be seen, and truly connect.
In my work as a Relationship, S3x and Intimacy Coach, I often guide couples and individuals in creating that safe space where intimacy and vulnerability can flourish.

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07/19/2024

It was a real PLEASURE to be a guest on S*xploration with Monika and dig into so many fun topics around my coaching. We talked about the Somatica Method, core erotic themes, Non-Violent Communication, Internal Family Systems, age-play and kinks, getting out of the head and into the body, and a whole panoply of other juicy stuff!
Monika is a long time friend and amazing podcaster. Check out the show!

05/10/2024

Not quite sure you’re reading the cues correctly? Or just plain cue-less? Check out my latest article to get tips on how to proceed, link in bio.

Are you ever confused about where you stand in a relationship?

05/10/2024

Not quite sure you're reading the cues correctly? Or just plain cue-less? Check out my latest article and (pretty please!) give it a like here and a heart-on on the BrokeAssStuart site!

DEAR SHAMELESS BY SHAMELESS HEATHER ATLES Hi, I’m Shameless Heather Atles, an expert relationships, s*x, and intimacy coach. With years of experience guiding individuals through the complexities of love, connection, and self-worth, my approach combines humor, practical wisdom, deep insights, and a...

04/25/2024

Check out my latest column on Broke Ass Stuart: https://brokeassstuart.com/2024/04/24/how-to-spice-up-things-in-the-bedroom-when-it-gets-boring/
How's that for a clickable image? Please give me a ❤️ on the BAS site!

DEAR SHAMELESS BY SHAMELESS HEATHER ATLES Hi, I’m Shameless Heather Atles, an expert relationships, s*x, and intimacy coach. With years of experience guiding individuals through the complexities of love, connection, and self-worth, my approach combines humor, practical wisdom, deep insights, and a...