Kim Tsui Holistic Counseling & Coaching

10/30/2024

Wow, a wonderful feelings list and body sensations list.

Also, I'm grateful that I completed the weeklong The Hoffman Process program in 2019. It was really life changing for me.

10/14/2024

Parts of us learn to adapt to our caregiver's needs and behaviors in order to survive our childhood. Parts such as Inner critics, people pleasers, or conflict avoidance. As we grow up, we can witness, appreciate, update, and liberate these parts; and become more fully our true Selves.

CRAZYWISE Conversations: Gabor Maté – Authenticity vs. AttachmentGabor Maté, M.D. takes a special interest in early childhood trauma and the potential lifelo...

08/27/2024

03/12/2024

Gabor Mate talks about how children have two survival needs--attachment to caregivers and authenticity.
https://youtu.be/l3bynimi8HQ?feature=shared

Early on, protective parts of us need to "people please"/stay alert/repress/etc. to maintain our connection (attachment) with our caregivers. The unintended consequence is that we often can't be truth (authentic) to ourselves or others.

CRAZYWISE Conversations: Gabor Maté – Authenticity vs. AttachmentGabor Maté, M.D. takes a special interest in early childhood trauma and the potential lifelo...

09/20/2023

"If you wish to give your children the best possible gift, the best possible entry into life, remove your shadow from them.

To give them a clean heritage, psychologically speaking, is the greatest legacy."

-Robert A. Johnson